5 Reasons Why Women Don't Respect You

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[DallasSniper]

1. You're Too Complacent
2. You Don't Lead
3. You Pedestalize Her
4. Words & Actions Don't Match
5. You're Insecure

[TrealTalk]

The sad truth is most women only RESPECT you when you have other women around or know about you. I've known many dudes that don't do anything Courtney listed but yet women fall for them and then complain about them later. You don't need them to respect you unfortunately, you need them to be ATTRACTED to you.

[haywood]

The first thing is stop taking dating advice from women because most of them are either clueless about what they want, or they will lie to you constantly. Focus on yourself and don't waste your time chasing women who don't respect you and aren't attracted to you anyways.

[laconsuela]

"No More Mr. Nice Guy" would be a really good book for a lot of the subscribers here. It's not about being a dick but about learning to be comfortable with yourself, respect yourself, have your own boundaries etc.

Probably the best book for people watching this video and resonating with the problem

[billy_hicks]

When my ex-wife and I were headed toward divorce she told me at two seperate dinner parties that she was frustrated with me because she said the woman is suppose to be the one who is in control of the relationship. When it became clear of no possible reconcilliation she started to destroy me financially. I am still rebuilding my weath today.

[BaoZakeruga]

My issue with the complacency thing is that there's nothing wrong with being content with your life; especially for someone that's fought a lot of unknown battles both internally and externally to get where they are and is just trying to finally live in the moment and enjoy day to day. I've seen a guy have their dream job, a house, and a happy family in their 20s and the woman he was with accused him of being complacent because he was no longer grinding like a madman. Like what else do you want from him?? He reached the top of the mountain the average person strives to get to. Let the main enjoy his life.

It's almost like trying to appease a needy child that needs you to do more and more for them even though they'll never be satisfied and appreciate what they have in front of them.

[ollysombrero]

_"Every relationship you have starts with you, and the relationship you have with yourself."_
A big, over the top chef's kiss.👌
If someone who truly wants to change believes in that statement, they will have a great foundation.

[Nordic_Sky]

To be attractive to women, men have to be successful, fit, leaders. All 3 require massive work. Then men have to take all the initiative, approach women, keep the conversation going, come up with interesting date ideas, pay for everything, and do much more than they get in return, etc. What do women have to do to be attractive? Keep the weight off and put at least a minimal effort into making themselves attractive. Is this balanced? And women wonder why men are saying, "No thanks."

[TSierra]

“Women respect men who respect themselves” - Courtney Ryan

[TrealTalk]

Even if you have a healthy respect for yourself and your life, it doesn't matter. She needs to be attracted to you. Many great men out there with great qualities, not many great women out there that can detect those qualities or even care about respecting you.

[Jazzmaster]

Sometimes people, both men and women, don't respect you matter what you do. I appreciate videos like this for encouraging guys to take care of themselves and stand their ground, but I feel like a lot of self help channels "promise" you that if you establish boundaries, people will automatically respect you. From experience, sometimes people are not going to see eye-to-eye with you on your values or appreciate the boundaries you try to establish. A woman might get mad at you when you tell her no, or your boss might like you less because they want to surround themselves with "yes men" and you aren't one. By all means, taking accountability for why people might not respect you is important, you are the most common denominator in your life after all, but I think it's just as important to not shift all blame to yourself when people act disrespectful. Learn to recognize when somebody just wants everything their way, doesn't respect anyone else's boundaries but their own, and take distance from them when you see it.

[Anonymousxyz]

"Never give them easily what they are striving for" 🔥🔥🔥

[cez_salad]

I'm often saying that having my 8 hours of sleep is my top priority in life, and honestly, i'm glad Courtney Ryan approved it right from the start of the video. I knew that i was right all along.

[minademian]

Great video. Been applying this lately in dating. Held my ground with a woman I was dating, eventhough she pushed back. Over time, it became apparent that I didn't want to date her anymore. It works, men. Thanks for showing us the way out, Courtney!

[drip]

One thing I tell men is if you don't respect yourself no one will respect you, same reason why the children of single mothers often do not respect their mother and a lot of them end up resenting their mother which does down the road lead to relationship issues so definitely get your issues resolved

[ericmoore]

I’ve noticed if I don’t meet her arbitrary attraction standards then I’m problematic. My lack of sexual appeal makes me dangerous.

[DashSVK]

I wonder what makes women assume a man wants them. I mean when I liked some girl and I was considering something more she would reject me after a little while so I decided that I'm done with that and I don't want anything more than a friendship anymore and I believe that I show no interest in anything more yet they still "reject" me and that's quite surprising since I'm not even trying...it's like if you asked a stranger what time it is and they'd reply with "sorry we're not hiring currently"

[johnj]

Don't ever give her money or anything materially worthy until you've been together for a loooong time.
Women are not like men, they don't feel in debt and that they owe you something when you do that like men do, they feel entitled to it from the people they get that from and don't respect you at all for it.
It's crazy for men to understand that since we operate in when someone gives something to me I owe them reality, but it's 100% true.
If she outright asks something early, you say no simping, if she goes away cool, you've dodged a bullet, most will stay and respect you for it.

[axq]

If you care how someone else perceives you, you already know you don't respect yourself. Just own who you are and what you do.

[Firesword]

Respect is earned by being respectful. It's an easy thing to say but much harder to do in real life. The idea that unless you respect yourself first how can other respect you is also big. Be a complete person first for yourself. Then when someone else comes along they compliment you rather than having to fill any perceived gaps.