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[Frank-pepk]

I approached a girl as we were leaving the grocery store. I told her that I would regret if I had not stopped and asked a few questions. We were together a little over 12 happy years until she passed from cancer. I’m too old to start over even if I wanted.

[lawrencelee]

Met my wife in Toronto during a vacation. Had to build up courage to talk to her on the street. Been happily married for 30 years.

[NeoRazgriz]

Because 99% of the time, the “dream girl” was actually a nightmare…when you wake up.

[silvercapricorn]

It's very easy. Just be tall and don't be ugly

[RagingTiger]

Most people meet their partner through work, school, acquaintances etc. It’s all about playing it safe.

[jeffhedrich]

Going on tons of dates but never wifed any of them. Says it all right there.

[basedboy]

Look at a girl for several seconds, smile at her and if she smiles back the success rate goes up by 80%. Non verbal communication is really underrated. And it is a long range ability and requires far less effort and courage

[HaoHuynh]

A good woman is an investment
A bad bitch is a bill

[jawadtajwarmehrab]

Dream girl, you talking? Only in dreams. Wake up to reality. Money slays

[richardlahan]

Most guys learn in middle school that unless you're rich or a jock, the "dream girl" will have nothing to do with you.

[Coolcatguy]

Approaching is important I agree. But the most important thing in terms of priority is
1. Looking good
2. Personality and having courage to Approach
3. Status/Money

I have 4 girls on my roster with minimal effort, because I just focus on my life. But will put a lil effort in if someone catches my eye.

Edit: My success has only be recent since I've really been working on myself ALOT in the past 18 months. I wanted to add if you do struggle with approaches, do it indirectly. Even just compliment without expecting ANYTHING in return. You have to make sure that YOU actually like her. Have standards and be abundant.

The other important thing is, girls flirt very differently to men. They will somehow be in your vicinity. They will laugh at your jokes. Be friendly. Pay VERY CLOSE ATTENTION to their body language. Do they like being close to you? Are they nice?. Girls will make is easy for you if they like you. You won't struggle to get in contact with her, she won't flake. She will drive hours to come and see you. This is the key thing I have learned about women in the past year.

[chrisbrimhall]

Having self confidence, not arrogance, but confidence in yourself is key. If you get shut down, who cares and move on. When you realize that it’s there loss for not giving you an opportunity, your world can open up. When I took up this attitude way back in the day, I did great meeting girls at parties. Funny, many times I would talk to a girl at a party, be funny and engaging for a few minutes then say nice to meet you and continue to socialize with others. Within a few minutes THEY would find me and continue to chat up….be confident and funny….you will do fine

[ketsanafit]

Back in the 80s and 90s we had to always personally approach girls. It's definitely a lost art.😂😂😂

[poptart]

It is true rich guys don’t go in the street looking for girls. They have a job.

[derricklizana]

I can't approach any woman because I'm way too nervous. I just cant do it

[zackstrong]

If you truly want to find actual high-quality women, go to church and work on being a high-quality, worthy man. You'll find your woman.

[shaneslr]

My dream girl is the type that doesn't go out with a random guy who approaches her in the street.

[taqial-faris]

I don't know, most women I see around me are too tired and depressed from work. They just want to go home and do nothing.

[rhodoramaravilla]

A high quality woman is an educated woman from a good family, a woman with natural beauty, beautiful inside and out, a woman without surgery and easy to maintain, a woman with a pure mind and a golden heart, a woman with kind and beautiful parents. 😊👍🙌💞

[matthewdievendorf]

I can assure you that if you have gone on multiple dates with multiple women and you haven’t been able to secure a relationship then it doesn’t matter how many dates you may go on because at the end of the day you are not doing what needs to happen in order for a relationship to start. How about this, if you see someone that interests you in more then one way just say hi. If they like whom you are and you like them I don’t see why you would have to find other women to potentially have a relationship based off looks alone. The last piece of advice I have is to be whom you are without the fear of making yourself look weak. Be confident is what you have to do and be!