Lisa Answers: How to Put Yourself First - Lisa Nichols

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So this particular question came from one of our tribe members who watched the show, how to love yourself first. So this particular sister, beautiful sister said, Lisa, you helped me realize that my cup needs to be full in order to have an amazing relationship with others. Then she goes on to ask, can you give me some insight on exactly, how do I fill my cup up?

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[deletenegativity]

How do I serve myself
1. Center myself in stillness ( gratitude)
2. Give myself permission to fill my tank
3. Maintain healthy boundaries.

[AccordingtoMJ]

I love when you said when you say no to one thing, you are saying yes to another. That was an aha moment for me.

[divazerlinda]

I’ve thought for the entire of my life that saying no is bad thing, hurting others, and always feeling guilty when i did. Thanks Lisa for opening up a new perspective of saying no 😘

[Ludim]

My way of putting myself first is getting up early before everyone else to practice some yoga then sitting in the quiet place of my backyard and enjoying my cup of coffee! ❤️

[johnwynn]

I HAVE ALWAYS FELT THAT I NEEDED TO PUT OTHERS FIRST AND I WOULD BENEFIT BY DOING SO BUT NOW I ACCEPT THE
REALITY TO WORK ON LEARNING HOW TO PUT MYSELF FIRST

[rellyb]

My Aha is, "Others want to step up for me." I do it all and am learning to set up boundaries, but I have to trust others to handle what I say no to.
Thank you 😊

[CarlaSophieMar]

The suggestion to feel gratitude for having many demands is what got to me the most! So many times we just want to jump to 'solving problems mode', that we can forget to appreciate all that we have (including "problems" that we can better fix if, ironically, we come from a place of gratitude instead 😉).
Definitely taking this piece of wisdom with me! Appreciate all that you are, do and represent, Lisa 💜✨ what a role model!

[Stephen_A.]

My ah-ha moment was realizing saying no means saying yes to something else that is equally important. Thank You for letting me understand the good things in life go hand in hand with the not so good things in life. ❤️

[debbymayberry-jensen]

I have always given of myself to others 1st and disregarded caring for myself. Loving myself is a huge action for me because this mind and heart set was a learned behavior from my grandmother who raised me. It has taken me years to understand and learn this limiting belief and to start giving myself the love I need and deserve. Thank you Lisa for breaking this down to 3 basic powerful steps which are clear and concise. With great love and gratitude.
Debby 🙏 ❤🙏

[sinithikoottathil]

The 'aha' moment?? Taking tea and a bubble bath!!!!
I haven't had a proper bath for such a long time. I take showers only.
Today I'm definitely going for my loong bath. And a hot cup of coffee. And yes. Taking my own time in my own company 😁

[traevon.m.]

Thank you for this video I needed to see this. As a 24 year old that’s getting adjusted to adulthood this is a what a healthy adult looks like to me.

[samalasmith]

Sister Lisa,
Thank you for your true authentic respectful self. I truly need this level of Grace and Encouraged.
Praise God for your Humbled Spirit.
Have a Wonderful, Blessed Day On Purpose.
His Humbled Servant,

[geneg]

A big issue I struggled with was realizing I was putting others first before me and that some people were taking advantage of my help and were just takers. I now realize that I need to put myself first before others and remove the takers from my life.

[nurilawafa]

Remember when I say I love you and I believe in you. doesn't mean I don't have nothing to say. But I really mean it. I believe in you. Thank u Lisa, I feel inspired coz no one ever said that to me. So important for me to fill my tank first

[anyangthiep]

Loving ourselves is very important. Because if we don't love ourselves, we will force other people to love us and that create a lot of problems. If we don't love ourselves no one can love us.

[waldiscruz]

"Be grateful for the calling and the responsibility that's being placed in front of you"
Thank you Lisa, I needed to hear this today.

[lolawhite]

I’m working on saying no more. For years I have always said yes to things when I really wanted to say no.

[boitumelomokwena]

Wow...self care ain't selfish...thank u Lisa.

[shekinahsilatsa]

My aha moment was when you said that it's not a bad thing to say no. And we've to please ourselves first in order to please others

[piehound]

I wish more folks would aspire to and display excellence the way you do. Unfortunately the world gets me down. I have a problem with boundaries because i'm so needy. Not in the physical necessities . . . but in the putting myself first department. Thanks.