How To Disconnect From Negative People With Kindness - Lisa Nichols

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The Lisa Nichols show is a place where you can come at any given time to get the step by step tools you need to live the life that you want. In this episode, Lisa talks about why it is important to disconnect from negative people using kindness.

Now... This is not just a monologue, it's a dialogue. Make sure to share your thoughts below in the comments and subscribe to this channel and look out for more amazing content every week!

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[sharonthompson]

Hi Lisa. My favorite plus one when I go through a “complete relationship” is to be grateful . My true words are:
1. I am grateful for the memories and laughter you have built with me.
2. I am proud of the person you are- I focused on the traits I admired him for.
3. I am honored to have the opportunity to love from my heart.
However:.
1. I feel we have grown to be different people now, and this is not working.
2. I want us to end before we make something that was so beautiful ugly.
3. We meet people for a reason and a season sometimes, and now I chose for this season to be over, while we still respect each other. Bcz we are not working anymore as a couple/friend, and it’s absolutely okay. Memories were made and lessons were learnt . :).

[healthandsuccess]

Thank you Lisa. I am proud of you for two reasons. First, you could make it. Second, you want everyone to make it.

[alexabanks]

I have always struggled to tell people they're affecting me in a negative way without hurting them. Cuz I do love and appreciate these people. So usually I just end up in a toxic situation or I just cut them off completely.
This video has truly been life changing. It's really reassuring to hear from another person that there's a way to talk and keep someone's dignity intact! Thanks! Love you!

[yessarah]

Thank you. My best friend, whom I’ve been friends with for 21 years has recently expressed some beliefs that I are just painful. I want to detach from her, but I want to do so compassionately because I love her. Thank you for this video.

[jewleneb]

I love the fact that I can be complete in the relationship instead of so cold and cut throat about it. It helps me respect, and still add value to the person as well as myself. Thank you.

[Foodstalker]

My biggest BOL is listening to my gut feeling and going with it. I ended a short term friendship that felt super toxic early on and with the little info I knew about them I made it a compassionate break up. They ended up reacting negatively about it. This is first time I didn’t go into freaking out for hurting their feelings mode. I would doubt myself and back track and then ask for their forgiveness just for someone else’s sake. We would then be fake friends and I’d feel worse about the relationship because I didn’t do what was best for me. This is huge growth for me because now I can make more room for myself to breathe without entertaining someone I don’t want to pour into. Thank you very much for sharing this tool with me. Now I know how to complete relationships with confidence and ease.

[mich]

Lisa, you are a breath of fresh air in a polluted environment and I thank you 🙏

[RubyOnixx]

Needed this! I have been transforming how I want to go into my romantic relationships after divorce and I wanted to find ways to kindly bring up hard topics. ♥️ After being verbally abused, I tend to get reactive. I’m going to practice this to regain control over how I treat others. From a place of calm strength, not loud fear.

[schenikasmith]

Omg! I needed this badly! I have a hard time letting go of relationships that need to come to an end. Or when I do end it, it's usually a result of a major blow up. Now I know how to maturely handle a let down. Thank you Lisa!

[Kasey_]

As usual this is right on time. There are a few in my life who I love dearly, however I realize they've become anchors instead of engines. Clinging to me to always be the one pulling them along, but have become comfortable dragging their legs, while Ive been doing all the pulling.
Wondering how to release them in love

[clarawilliams]

Hello Lisa this is what i needed to hear...i've sat here all day trying to figure out how to talk to my daughter after our argument. I prayed to God earlier to speak to me and through me...this is right on time...thanks my sister in Christ

[rjoy]

This is the PERFECT template I need to leave my job today. I recently realized that not everyone has to be my cup of tea but it doesn't make them bad or my enemy. I'm glad I have this technique for today as I lovingly completed this relationship that was there for me when I most needed it, but no longer serves me at this juncture.

[LTTurnerJr]

Lisa - all I can say is WOW, WOW, and another WOW. I am a very kind and loving type of person, so these types of conversations are usually challenging for me to have as I never want to hurt anyone in the process. In the past, I usually just have told the person that I need some space and in time the relationship eventually dissolved. But your +3 approach is wonderful and allows the person to still be with dignity, even after you deem the relationship "complete". Love this. Adding this to my spiritual vault! You are wonderful and so appreciate you and all your inspiration throughout the years. Blessings!! :)

[lindafoston]

Thanks Lisa, I enjoy listening to you! I have higher self esteem now putting myself first, not feeling guilty my children are grown it's my time to live, buy a house, start a business, travel.I just love your life story very powerful! Thanks 😊👍

[courtnaesmith]

This came at the PERFECT time!!! I've been worrying myself for 3 days thinking of how to end a friendship. I over explain and most times think about how they will be hurt instead of foing what's best for me. I have to put my needs as a priority. I will definitely be using this !!! Thank you Lisa

[louborlagdan]

Lisa, I'm so fired up watching and hearing you speak. I was a volunteer parent counsellor to young students. After that stint, I had been going around schools to motivate students. I so love your speeches. Love you.

[KL-]

I’ve just turned 19 and within my 19 years of life I’ve never heard someone speak from love the way Lisa does. I was angry and upset but after hearing Lisa speak I want to be able to love myself and others the way she loves herself and others

[lauradickson]

I watched you many years ago Lisa and everything you said resonated with me, but it was missing one key aspect for me, the acknowledgment of God, not the universe, but God. I realised the relationship that needed attention was not the one I had with myself, but the relationship I had with God. God recently led me to watch a video of yours and I heard you mention God, and that made my heart rejoice! This was the missing factor for me when I watched you so many years ago. It took some time before I realised God was what I was really searching for. However your teachings were such a blessing at that stage of my life. Thank you for helping me change my mindset, I look nothing like the person I used to be, and I know the best is yet to come. I can now relate all of these principles back to the bible, it has strengthened my faith and given me a sense of freedom that I could never have imagined before. I’m so happy to be listening to you again, I feel God is moving me into another season and I can’t wait to see the plan unfold 😊🙏

[theunscriptedsuccessstory]

‘I didn’t understand all of it’...this is what I love about you. You’re real and you’re not pretending to to be someone you’re not. It makes you so relatable

[shaniquejohn]

Needed this.... I've learn to realize there's some persons I just have to love from a distance...just didn't know how to come out and let them know