Narcissistic abuse Are you stressed or traumatized by it?

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[empathicwarriorlissy]

That's why I stopped therapy and worked on myself and my childhood traumas. She made me feel like I was the Narc. Makes you not trust anyone.

[HollyMarie]

Oh it is definitely TRAUMA! Because I’ve been triggered by things since my toxic relationship ended. Stress doesn’t cause you to be triggered by things but abuse and toxicity certainly does.

[MaryDunford]

Professionals are people first, their credentials second. If they're ignorant or abusive people they're going to bring that to their profession. No amount of education or regulation can fix wilful ignorance or toxic 🐂💩.

[f.frederickskitty]

I consulted a divorce lawyer and shared my concerns about divorcing a narcissist and she looked at me and snorted and said, "Everyone says their husband is a narcissist". Maybe there is some truth to that and that's why they want help with a divorce? I felt so disrespected and minimized. 😢

[firewomanmerica]

Thank you for for addressing this!
Nothing like waiting 2 months for an appointment.
Jump thru all their hoops while counting the days.
I entered with hope & left with more despair & an antidepressant.
I have panic attack s, emotional flash backs, monkey mind, self loathing for my naivety.
Nothing like more dismissal & invalidation.
Can't find those elusive treasures anywhere lately.😊
& Mary Jane is still illegal in my state.

[madness]

Abusers are in all professions. They are therapists, teachers, doctors, lawers, social workers, etc. Years ago I went to a new family doctor, I had a bad sore throat, cough, non stop sneezing and I'd been feeling awful for many days. The doctor looked at me with disgust and said "Are you coming here for a commun cold??" I changed my gp after that and never saw him again. Don't let anyone dictate the level of gravity of what you are going through. You are the only one entitled to decide when and why you should leave. And if you're supported cool, otherwise you can leave secretly, you don't owe any explanation to anyone.

[virginiahart]

I fired my therapist when I found actual photos of my therapist with one of my abusers and I reported both of them, giving actual, hard evidence. The FBI told me not to go back there, so I didn't. I hope you are having a great day Lisa! ❤ Thank you!

[JacquelinePletscher-xw]

My ex is a therapist. I am deeply suspicious about the profession

[deshanisenanayake]

Exactly my therapist misdiagnosed me with anxiety. No therapist understands this

[raultdrive]

Great insight AGAIN 😍
Thank you for continuesly RAISING AWARENESS 🤗🥳💚🩵🩵💛🩵

[lesabrydson]

I went to therapy in the 90s. I got worse. I persevered in Psalms 1-150. August 2023 I " met" Dr Ramani 😮🤲. The healing journey continues knowing about narcissistic abuse.

[ebrennie]

Well, gee. I looked at the DSM-V criteria. Nightmares? Going on a year since I left him and still having weekly nightmares. Check. Flashbacks? 10-30 times a day. Check. Avoidance? I couldn’t go on his side on town without having a panic attack. I moved my ass 1500 miles away just to feel safe. I still don’t. Check.

Negative alterations in mood and cognition? I stare at myself in the mirror and repeat out loud all the terrible things he told me I was. Weekly. So, check.

No interest in activities and being incapable of accessing hope? Check. Suicidal ideation? God damn. Check. Check. Check. Difficulty concentrating? Check. Dissociating? Check. A sense of estrangement from myself? I have no fucking clue who I am anymore. The only thing I’m certain of is that I’m worthless, so check. Outbursts of anger? Check. Hyperviligance? No one can be trusted anymore. Everyone is an abuser until they prove otherwise. Check. Overactive startle responses? Check. Check. Check.

But yeah, it’s obviously just stress. I’m the fucking dummy.

Shitty therapists like this are why I only see clinical psychologists. This isn’t some fear of flying/ social anxiety mickey mouse bullshit. This requires the guidance of someone with a trauma-informed PhD, not some bs 5-hr self paced online trauma-informed module that allows some LCSW who read a book to claim they are trauma trained on their resume.

A very small dark part of me hopes she gets a taste one day, so she can finally understand just how clueless she really is. Lucky for her, the compassionate part of me is much bigger. It’s the only thing I have going for me right now.

I like as many of your vids as I can. Your channel is saving my damn life. I hope it explodes. I’d do your trauma bond training, but leaving made me homeless. One day.

[olgakim]

Narcissistic abuse most definitely causes trauma.

[RedandBlackS]

Or like my sister was saying "change therapists"? That was when I was homeless for a night...

[TiMai-ui]

My late sister had a psychotherapist that gaslit the he🏒🏒 out of her. She would constantly undermine my sister’s statements/experiences about her childhood, parental narcissistic abuse, financial struggles and illness. My sister had no choice but to talk to the dept head, file a complaint and request a new therapist. I told her that her therapist was more than likely a narcissist considering her strong views, opinions, manipulation, apathy and erratic behavior towards my sister.🥹🤷🏻‍♀️

[msc]

The therapist is adding to the victims abuse. It's disgusting.

[oevyqrg]

What if he has BPD? Maybe I mislabeled him. Idk. Lmk.

[H-youtube]

That therapist, whoever they are, doesn't seem to understand the terminology, anything that causes PTSD (clue in the TS), is by definition trauma inducing. Get out of town with their self aggrandising proclamations of phrase-coining!