how to create your ALTER EGO for ultimate CONFIDENCE | step by step guide, mindset shifts & tips

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My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men... to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.

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How old are you? - 23 years old!
Where are you based? London, UK
What's your star sign? Libra sun, Aquarius moon and Cancer rising

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[lilyshiii]

Like if you're ready to be the BEST version of yourself.

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[SarahKhan-qq]

The most uplifting and powerful women community is right here!!!!

[Fairyyy]

I am 16 and so happy to be here and to work on myself at this age

[Itsafeefa_hehe]

The fact that we can see her implement her sayings in her own life makes her words hundred times more powerful!
Lots of love for you big sister >>> 😭❤️

[carmengee]

1. The why: purpose of alter ego, why am i creating it. Is it to leave weaknesses, adopt personality traits, etc. IT NEEDS TO BE STRONG ITS WHAT KEEPS U CONSISTENT.

2. New traits. Things that i lack or struggle with. Personality, values, hobbies. Why do i admire certain people.

3. Deep mapping: understand every little insignificant detail of my alter ego. How would they act in stressful sitution. How do they approach career, dating. What is their mindset in romantic relationshopw. How do they act if they feel mistreated and feel angry. How would they act if they fell in love. How would they fix a bad day, what does a good day look like to them. If they do public speaking how do they approachnit? Funny, serious, is there preparation, freestyle.

4. Pick your avatar: how ur alter ego appears. Give different name, change appearance, hair, makeup, clothes.

5. Values and core identity. Think about backstory. Whats important to them. Where do they want to go in life. What do they not care abt as much. Preferences strengths, what are they motivated by. What has been their history until this point. Maybe they always succeeded, they have confident memories. Really good athlete, A+ student, etc.

6. The When. When to bring out the alter ego. Uni, work, meetings or every single day.

7. Act until its natural. Act it out often. Practice. Become used to it.

Homework:
- what qualities do u wish to have?
- what is preventing u from having those qualities?
- if tomorrow was the first day of ur life how would u act?
- what would your alter ego do?

[chetnamalhotra]

7 steps for alter ego
13:20 The Why
14:09 New traits
15:23 Deep mapping
17:02 Pick your avatar
18:14 Values and Core identity
19:14 The when
20:11 Act untill its natural

[shreychaks]

I honestly CANNOT believe that you posted on Alter ego. I needed guidance on it since a few days and one of my absolute favourite YouTubers posted it right when I needed this video the most. You are magic. I love you Tam. Thanks ALOT.

[studious_one]

I don't know why but each of Tam's videos make me put makeup, comb my hair as if I'm the main character in a blockbuster movie and clean my surrounding, go for a walk, write a poem and tick off all of things in my to-do list.

[pratiksha]

As Yoongi being one of my idol for ages he really inspires me, tho he is an introvert but can talk when needed, focused with his works and love what he is doing. Tho he won't speak much but his confidence in himself radiates with everything he does

[bloomy]

I love how Tam built her success on her own by loving herself and helping others, creating a wholesome community. True icon. I'm so happy more and more women choose to express themselves and support each other <3 Take care girlies, I wish you all the best <3 Don't be afraid to follow your dreams

[habibaahmad]

You’re literally exceptional. My FAVOURITE influencer

[ppaayalmuthhuswamy]

Its literally been 3 days ever since I`ve made my vision board and it has been quite a task for me to go from waking up at 8 or 9 lethargically to finally been able to wakeup at 3:30 am and workout everyday like how I used to before...
Ever since I`ve made my vision board, I feel it has already become a part of me, IT IS MY
The one person I`m super super grateful to for this change is YOU~~~~
THANK YOU

[sparklesoulsubliminals]

OMG my alter ego was Sharpay when I was a child !!!! i wouldn’t be the woman i am now without her

[claramoon]

Hey Kam, I'm french girl so, sorry for my bad english but i'll like to tell you that you help me so much. I was depressive for many years but your videos and podcast help me to find hapiness and to trust in my self.
Everyday I listen to your podcast and you're video channel, you litteraly give me faith in life. Thanks to you now I'm a grateful person and I can really trust in my dreams. From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much 💜

[shikhajadav]

She comes when we need her. I started b.Ed college a week ago And I have to teach on stage. And I have stage fear; fear of speaking in front of people.

[Ava]

1.WHAT QUALITIES DO I WISH I HAD?
2. WHAT IS HOLDING ME BACK FROM HAVING ALL THOSE QUALITIES?
3. IF TOMORROW IS MY FIRST DAY OF MY LIFE, HOW WOULD I ACT?

[AnneJolievDijken]

Tam! So so early, you’re living the dream life Im manifesting. I love seeing you grow! You deserve all the love and things you have in your life. Love you! ❤

[briannareganlewis]

I am 27 and am reinventing myself! Instead of Brianna, I am Bri from now on. Bri is outgoing and hardworking. Bri is not afraid of what people thing of her. She knows she has value and will follow her dreams without limits.

[niixluv]

so my alter ego came up to me like a year ago through journaling by listening to my intuition who i REALLY am and how do i want to show up for myself and out there but i haven’t thought about it as an alter ego concept more like my best friend inside of me for me (and it is actually me) which helped me in my self love and growing journey. this is just a start and i am discovering more and more everyday, there is still a lot to work on but i am just so motivated and excited and your video(s) are my practical guidence how to specify it and level it up 🤍🤍 lots of love tam!

[cherriestwinnies]

We're currently on the journey ! Every morning it's a pleasure to wake up and think: how much better will I get today? How much closer will I become from my alter ego? ❤❤❤
To Everyone in this journey girl💘🌹