Things Men Love And Hate About Their Wives | Sheikh Belal Assaad

Things Men Love and Hate about their Wives. A Beautiful Lecture By Sheikh Belal Assaad.

Allah has enjoined upon spouses everything that will create and strengthen love between them, and He has forbidden to them everything that goes against that.

Muslim man and Muslim woman should not get married because they think they will then and thereby have achieved love. Rather, they should get united as husband and wife believing that they have what it takes to continuously grow and build love throughout their lives until the end. They are to see each other as indispensable partners in pursuing and experiencing, both individually and collectively, the ultimate heavenly love, which is the only guarantee of all the legitimately successful forms of terrestrial love, including the coveted love between spouses.

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[soaad]

Today I told my husband what Sheikh Belal said: Ohh you are such a great husband. Without you I couldn't do this all. His answer: Not without me, without Allah ❤ I told him: of course, but Allah sent you to be my spouse. And really, as Sheikh said he felt so proud ❤

[IM-uhtk]

What they love:
1. Respect
2. To look good for them
3. Show confidence in him and his abilities
4. Speaks well of him to both families
5. Physical touch

[Aymana]

The husbands he is talking about are the good ones those whom Allah is pleased with not those who mistreat the

[fatimabouhajaessahli]

What the husband loves in his wife:
1. When she shows respect: she respects his leadership, respects that he's her protector and respects that he's her provider
2. When she looks good for him
3. When she appreciates his efforts and abilities
4. When she talks  good of him to her family and his family
5. When she gives physical touches

What the wife loves in his husband:
1. When he protects, defends and supports her.
2. When he listens to her and he talks to her
3. When he gives tender physical touches and he is tender in general
4. When he compliments her and shows that he's interested in her
5. He makes her feel secure and safe that he won't leave her and look for another woman

[Squirrellium]

The problem is in the "islamic" culture that men arent updated on what women need:
1. To give her undivided attention, even if for 30 mins, undivided, with her being the priority.
2. To listen to her..and u can combine # 1 & 2 together and make it easier
3. Respect her intellect, her decisions, her way of doing things.
4. Speaking to her in a soft tone
5. Words of encouragement or appreciation



Generally muslim men barely do any of those 5 & think relationship is one way that only women should give what they need and if they earn money, women should have no other needs.

[TheHiddenWisdomofIslam-fnuc]

*Praise be to Allah for the beauty of Islam and its teachings of compassion and empathy. Praying for the safety and well-being of every soul*

[naturelovelove]

Yes its true.I realized it by my self and iam very happy that i understood it very early in my marriage.Sometimes we women are wiser, we have so much power to do things, because of this women tend to loose respect for their man.But at the end of the day when you want your marriage to work you should not show it and respect what your husband is doing for you. Because the partnership its worth it to put your ego byside sometimes

[SyedAbdulghanizaidi]

All the things that you’ve explained are found in many husbands.if wife respect him and his family he would disrespect her, he humiliates her in front of others and never keeps her privacy. She feels like she has no privacy in her I n-laws. At home he’s an abuser but out side home he’s the nicest person ever. Islam has warned a lot to women regarding husbands even for little things there is big punishment. But really can’t understand why our scholars don’t speak much if husband is abusing his wife or having extra marital relationships?

[nidameraj]

This is true but this should also be followed vice versa….

[TheFahim]

100% agreed to what he said but I feel shy to share this with my wife 😂

[spreadingpeace]

May Allah pak protects & helps you brother.. for your efforts against attacks on ISLAM, MUSLIMS AND family style of Muslim..
We all Muslims should open our hearts for our own religion and the perfect words of The only one creator of everything .
There's lot of negative propaganda against Islam by social media..and those who are fighting against it truly are the warriors.

[annoor_quranic_school_]

The Qur'an is a heavenly book revealed by Allah as a guide for mankind. Let us recite the Qur'an and make the recitation pure and beautiful.

[FatimaMarong-begj]

for Sure Sheikh Belal Thank you so much

[MYFATHEREMMANUEL]

Thank you for this teaching. Our females need to hear this. May the Lord give our females wisdom to remain happily in their marriages. ❤

[Notyourplainjane]

Mmm how do I respect someone who has a borderline personality disorder and consistently throw rage at us? Despite communicating our feelings? The ratio and compromising is exhausting. Wife needs love to get that respect again

[fsalahuddin]

Assalaamu alaikum

For everyone commenting on "what about what a wife needs/wants" ....this video is actually just a clip. This speaker spoke about the wife's needs first before this part (the husband's needs).

[ummekzaman]

Alhamdulillah! So needed to hear this now!!!

[bendaasabdeldjalil]

This man was listening to him long time ago, he is great teacher

[reasoning]

Me n my husband are best friends . He is lazy . Though he respect me listen me . But i use to tell him that he is lazy n i like hardworking people . He smiles 😊. But he wont change he is the way he is . I also love his chilled attitude

[Proud_Muslimah]

That's what I always say that if we appreciate our husbands little efforts like we always want to be appreciated, men too desire to be recognised🥰