7 Habits That Make People DISLIKE You

Do you ever wonder if others hate you even though you are just being yourself? Even though you try to be more friendly and likeable, but others seem to distance themselves from you. There are common habits that can make others dislike you. As social creatures, we all have deep desires to be liked, how to attract others, and how to make friends. Let's check out these common habits that can unintentionally drive others away.

Disclaimer: If you can relate to any of these signs, please do not take this feedback as an attack on your character. This article was meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.

Writer: Sidney Thompson
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Sun Biscuit
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[jannig]

so basically it's not always ur fault if someone dislikes u.

Sometimes constantly improvising and being ur best just isn't enough. That's fine honestly.

[ives]

"It's better to risk being disliked for living your truth than to be loved for what you are pretending to be." - Dawn Gluskin

[Raghav-txym]

0:27 Being fake.
1:00 Being one sided.
1:30 Not smiling.
1:58 Getting too personal right away.
2:25 Bragging.
3:10 Being threatening.
3:45 Being yourself.

[jv]

1. Being fake
2. Being one-sided
3. Not smiling
4. Getting too personal right away
5. Bragging
6. Being threatening
7. Being yourself

Extrovert power!

[Leeejahyup]

"Smile more"
Nah. I would rather have a straight face than smile to every person. It aint really my thing, so yeah. I be myself and idc if they dislike me for not smiling or opening up.

[khalilahd.]

Being self aware is the corner stone of self growth and I love that you constantly help us self reflect 💜

[kazumakenzaki]

Dont expect everyone will like you, true. People are naturally wired to look at each other's flaw and mistakes, to manipulate one other, even to relate to one another.
Thats one big messy soup were all in.

[Eric-emkp]

Smiling doesn't work if you have bad teeth....😞 which I do and it kills my confidence and possibly many other factors of how I present myself.

[siennaprice]

I hate bragging about myself. I used to get personal, but not so much anymore. Now the being yourself one was very interesting. I thought being fake would make people dislike you, but being yourself, that’s a new one. I’m trying to find the balance, and not mask certain things about myself, but also be myself and not care what people think. I have a few mental conditions and a physical disability, which could make people hate me, but I’m doing my hardest to not give a crap what they think or say.

[indridcold]

Nobody dislikes me. However, nobody likes me as well. Nobody knows me. I keep a very well defined distance from others. This disallows others to know me and therefore never dislike me nor like me. This makes it a certainty that will never have enemies. The sacrifice of not ever having friends is well worth the benefit of never having enemies. Enemies can make life miserable. However, so can friends. Without both, life is much better than with either one, or both. I recommend all try social isolation. The benefits are many.

[onyx]

Guys it doesn't really matter, being yourself is what you should do if that person doesn't like you that's on them not you :) ❤️❤️

Edit: not you guys misunderstanding
(• ▽ •;) it doesn't "matter" if people view you as negative THINGS LIKE BEING USELESS ETC. if you know you're on the right track why let that bother you
Clearly you aren't useless if you're doing something, right?

You each seem to have your own meaning of this comment. Here's mine ☝️

[PsychologyRefresh]

People will dislike you if you lose respect from them and this can happen in many different ways.

[AyushRaj]

This is the first time I have noticed that you have included references. That is really great. This makes the video so much more valuable.

[pri_shay_dior]

I'm so guilty of #4... a lot. Don't let a stranger ask me how I'm doing, and I have a lot pinned up. Or sometimes I find the tables turned if I see someone down and simply ask if they need a listening ear in the moment. I often find it fosters more empathy though.

[partypoison]

these videos help so much with figuring myself out and sometimes they make me a better person!

[colvmbina]

1st hidden moon 0:57
2nd hidden moon 1:17
3rd hidden moon 2:38
4th hidden moon 3:20
5th hidden moon 4:17
REACT WITH A HEART IF I GOT IT RIGHT 💞

[MemoriesInMetal]

Never be "SOME YOURE ONE NOT" 😇

[cpproductions]

1. I have always been myself, it got me bullied and mistreated while being friendly and encouraging.
2. Always been two sided, but I am uncomfortable around others and usually feel I have nothing to contribute.
3. The damage caused by the people in my life killed my smile, and the one person who made me smile just caused me to fear everyone and I will never smile again.
4. I don't care who knows my personal life and will always treat people like they are a friend, I would want them to treat me the same way.
5. I never brag.
6. Never will have open body language, I am uncomfortable without my arms folded, I don't feel relaxed using "open body language".
7. That is the same as 1 really. It's only led to pain.

[zariabattle]

Wow I really needed this video. This answered everything I was questioning myself about

[DoriterEater]

I struggle with relationships, a lot. I have my mental illnesses and personality quirks that make me feel alien. It is painful to always wonder how other's are portraying me. I am terrified to be abandoned, but ultimately I abandoned myself for the sake of being liked (which I wasn't lol.) This caused me to have a life altering mental breakdown. The more I come to learn about myself, and accept and embrace myself, I feel that naturally I am more likable. I care less about that though haha, what a fun paradox. I think there just has to be an acceptance on our part if we can, that we will need to take time to find ourselves. To relearn our own intuition, because at the end of the day when we can guide ourselves I believe we naturally do end up in environments that support and encourage us. I can't sugar coat it, I've been working actively for the past 6 years to relearn who I really am, and I still on a very regular (but *much* less so) basis find myself worried and insecure about being abandoned. It's such an internal battle that most people will not really be able to acknowledge, but if you are cultivating mindfulness and setting intentions to create a healthier internal environment, I am proud of you.