Here is Why You Should Not Tell People Your Goals in 2023

[BM-sukc]

I'm not telling anyone my goals because:
1. They don't care.
2. They don't understand it.
3. So they don't have a weapon against me when I failed.
4. And if I failed they won't know I tried.
When I succed, I just let them know by them selves. Their reactions?
Priceless.

[LJermaineRussell]

My mother always tell me to keep your goals to yourself because People on occasion wish to see you fail

[MichaelJayValueInvesting]

Some people don't understand that you have to start small and don't understand why I would "waste my time" uploading videos to a channel with less than 100 followers.

They forget that we all start out at 0, even Pewdiepie. Don't worry about others, go out and make your dreams a reality.

[antonv.]

I prefer staying silent and working on achieving my goal.

[mr.animemystery]

When I told my goals my friends and family and they laughed it just made me more motivated to prove them wrong😋😁

[Sneewitchen]

And people are also very jealous!Their jealousy can harm or stop your achieving.Happend to me.

[AngelsAndButterflies]

The reason why I don't tell people my goals because I want to get a head start 😏😏😏

[cledon.]

Omg this is so true!! Whenever I say anything or tell what are my goals to anyone, in the end I fail.
Whenever I kept it secret, I achieved exactly that!

[GetThePicture]

100% true. This is what happens with new-years resolutions....Great video👍🙂

[greyfoxninja]

I remember trying to learn to play the violin and my family literally told me I was full of shit and there was no way I'd ever play a violin. I was heartbroken, don't offer your pearls to swine, if you have a flowering in you, don't devalue it by sharing it with people who only want to see you fail to make themselves feel better about their lackluster accomplishments. I have my own goals right now and I am telling no one, yet I am making steady progress and one day I will simply "come out" and have this amazing skill and only then should I be able to feel good about it. That is all.

[StepAheadSA]

I totally agree, especially if you have really large so called 'unrealistic' goals, a lot of people will tell you it's not possible and this can demotivate you from moving forward. My advise is only tell people who have similar goals to you and share the same belief

[devanshrana]

My goal is to not speak about my goals publicly!! Oops

[prtr]

In school I had a classmate who always bragged about the cool things he was going to do/buy/accomplish. Everyone stood in awe, fascinated by him, as if he already reached that goal. That bothered me. Out of spite I would keep them in mind, to bring them up a few weeks later, forcing him to admit in front of others that it didn't work out. He either did fail 95% of the time or he just made up new, intriguing goals without the intent to ever achieve them, just to sound more interesting as a person for a good 3 seconds. He never learned the lesson, but people around him did.

Now I don't force people to admit their failures like that. But I always keep my big goals to myself.

[thecooperacademy]

The your goals you set are your goals, no one else is going to achieve them for you.

Hence there's no point trying to tell others your goals. Just go out and achieve them.

[xdsuzi]

I think its okay to tell goals to people, just don't be a liar about it if you trying to achieve something, work towards it, be responsible. You won't look like a fool if you believe in yourself, don't let others change your mind about your goals. Stay positive like that guy said most people don't care, so it don't matter if they know and don't care that's okay, as long as you are happy with what you are doing that is all that matters. Also the people that really do care about you and believe in you would love to know about your plans, its great to have awesome connections! :)

[rainmontemayor]

It's alright to tell people about your goals, mate. You just have to make sure they're not listening^^

[fafaninja]

I personally have no fear to talk about my goals because i'll acheive it anyway. Why do people fail so often ? You said because they loose interest, they are not motivated anymore. The fact is that succes doesn't come from motivation it comes from discipline. Motivation is a emotion, it's bullshit. Only consistent hard work pay, with or without motivation.

[Nizamkhai]

I really like you're using study cases in your video instead of just a theory. It make this video worth a lot and truly show how things really work. Keep your good work! 🙌

[divs]

This video is in conflict with law of attraction which I believe in and practice and to this day had worked for me. When you speak your goals or plans out loud you put it into the atmosphere and if consistently think about what you want to achieve and have plans to reach your goals it have no other choice but to come true

[beauregarde]

2017 was a huge disappointment for me.

At the start of the year, I begun my programming course and got my first job.
I was so proud of myself that I told everyone that I was going to be a programmer when I grew up.
I kept telling everyone that programming is the future for high paid positions.

Half way through the year, I gave up on my course as I buckled under the pressure of final assignments.
Later, I also quit my job, thinking that I'd get a better one straight away.

I feel very depressed and I have failed to achieve my goals.

I think your video explains why I felt so horrible. Hopefully I can move on and be successful.