You Need To Be Patient With Avoidant Exes

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[marciafab]

Patiently train yourself to avoid the avoidant.
Let them work on themselves, patiently.
You don't work for this person.

[kzmademe]

Patience is the key. Infinite patience where you aren't ever interested in them coming back.

[danajaye]

You need to get over them - else they cycle through and damage you more each time. You have bonded to them. They cannot bond to you.
Nothing personal- but you are the one that suffers depletion from your patience and generosity. They keep moving.

[meilei]

Let them go, save yourself the waste of irreplaceable time

[diyonneraines]

It's not a rude awakening..it's a blessing

[Dontbesooooserious]

I am patient standing in a line. I am patient waiting for coming attractions before a movie starts. I am patient when my uber eats is on its way. I am even patient sitting in traffic. What I refuse to be patient for is for a fearful avoidant to ghost me and decide to come back when they please. I have a very wise 23 year old daughter whom I raised on my own who said “dad you already raised a child you don’t need to do it again.”

[philipcrocker]

I am starting to think, Why would you even give any consideration to waiting for a ticking time bomb that will only cause your own demise...

[danajaye]

You need to get over them - else they cycle through and damage you more each time. You have bonded to them. They cannot bond to you.
Nothing personal- but you are the one that suffers depletion. They keep moving.

[strawberryjam]

My avoidant exes always reach out about 6 months to 12 months after a break up. None of my long term relationships has been with an avoidant. Those relationships ends around the 6-8 month mark, when we are in the powerstruggle stage of the relationship. Thing is avoidants dont seem avoidant until it has been 4-5 months. I also need to share that I keep strict no contact, in order to move on.

[chaneb]

I wanted to say bravo to everyone that commented here, it's great to see that people are awakening to this nonsense and value themselves, those contacts with someone that is constantly running are not worth it

[NikiBottini]

I studied all your videos carefully and I got my avoidant ex back!! Thanks so much!!! Now I know how to not take personally his withdrawals and how to not make him run away!! It is so hard for an anxiously attached but we can both go secure!!

[barbara]

If you want your "avoidant ex" back it's not about lacking patience. Of about you having an abundance of stupidity. Why would you want to waste your precious life on wanting someone who was willing to waste your time. New narrative Chris.

[true_riley]

Do not waste your time guys. There can be some waiting for you in the corner of your house

[joyh]

why would i make the same mistake twice?

[chaneb]

Patience yeah that's the advice, have patience to not get your needs met by someone that will never add anything than depression to your life, have patience with someone that keeps distancing you, this behaviour is choice and some make it like it's something out of their control, this is choice, some people that make you wait are busy dating someone else full time a d as soon they are bored they give you a bit space, who is stupid enough for this where basically you abusing your own self to accommodate someone that keep rejecting you

[sixfeetunder]

You deserve better than always adapting to someone who wont do 1/10 of that for you.

[chaneb]

Rude wakening on what, it's advice like this that don't work, people need the move on and stop chasing someone that don't want you as their feel so special , stop trying to figure out those people and move on, if they come tell them you seeing someone else now nobody got time for this crap