When You Feel Left Out

Sometimes, we can’t help but feel excluded.

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[Firegirl]

what's worse is when you still feel left out when you're with other people

[ccookiecrumbs]

have you ever sat with your friends and just known that you're the least important friend in the group and you felt like it wouldn't make a difference if you were there or not...
that friend is me.

[PunkPixieStudios]

You guys ever felt like when trying to talk to someone, they literally don't pay attention to what you're saying even though you listen to THEM because you're a nice person. Or when your entire class ignores you even though you're like the friendly and a good listen to them.

[nekoijima]

I hate it when I'm left out. Well to be honest, I often isolate myself because I'm a shy person. I always sit at my best friend's lunch table every day. Whenever I'm over there, all I really do is eat and scroll through my device because my friends don't really pay attention to me and never include me in anything. They always have sleepovers together, and I'm always at home, liking their pictures. They make friendship bracelets for each other but apparently "run out" when they see me. One day, a classmate invited me to her table and now we both are best friends and I totally forgot about my old ones. :)

[lou-xrrz]

Sometimes I feel like no matter what I do, I’ll _never_ fit in. When I walk, alone, to the library, they whisper things, laugh, stare at me. Just because I’m by myself doesn’t mean I’m lonely. I like it, okay? I’m not deaf, okay? I’m not fucking invisible, okay?
*Just because I’m quiet doesn’t mean I don’t have a heart too. :(*

[bibyfloresi.l.p.]

People only come to me when they want something, Im always the one thats left out

[Son-of-Pepsi-dog]

I was once with my friends at school at they we were all talking and then one of them said "we need to hang out together more often I feel like we're growing apart. Let's make plans to meet up just the three of us." I was the fourth person.

[lavenderskies]

When you’re walking with 2 other friends and the sidewalk gets thinner so *you* have to walk behind them.

[coolpeace]

It is so ironic how we can all be surrounded by so many people, yet we feel so left out and lonely. Everyday I wake up in the morning and put a smile on my face so that others will not feel the same way I do. The worst is when your "friends" go out, take pictures, hang out as a group, whilst you are at home liking their picture on Facebook or whatever, and wondering why u weren't invited. This type of isolation is so hard to explain to others, and it is like no one around you even cares.

[sassizazzi]

It makes me super uncomfortable when friends discuss plans in front of me like "oh hey, i'm having a party on tuesday" "cool, who're you inviting?" Person doesnt list my name. I just find it so disrespectful when people do that. Or like the only time my "friends" message me is because they want something from me. And they sometimes throw insults at me

[emmahollow]

I just cry cause i feel like they dont like me

[ҌӀҼҌҼ]

It’s the worst when they tell secrets right in front of you and don’t tell you.

[emilyhankinson]

My friends don't invite me to anything at all. Everyday I see pictures of them out together. The worst part is that I can't really say anything to them because I know that they don't consider me that much of a friend as consider them. I'm also super quiet so they've probably forgotten about me yay.

[TheDevilSmilesX]

I always feel like the least important person out of my circle of friends :( whether I am there or not wouldn't make a difference. They never wait for me or invite me to anything and I just feel like a lost soul standing around when they have conversations about parties I've never even heard about. It's depressing every time they have an outing because all these photos are posted on social media and they're all smiling and happy. I just feel so sad that they don't appreciate the things I do for them. It's my last year of high school and I'm so desperate to go out into the world and meet new people because I have no other friends else to turn to.

[annoying_chip]

This is basically how i feel every single day, but worse... because
1. I'm ugly
2. I'm dumb(math science etc)
3.I'm shy(I do NOT talk)

[MelissaAlnardo]

"we're only the center of our own individual worlds and everyone is scared of being left out" this really spoke out me cause i often get left out and come up with the craziest conclusions for as to why

[LilySkye]

I have a "friend" who literally only contacts me when she needs academic help or emotional support. When she is doing something fun she never invites me. I know I should cut her out of my life but I've been friends with her for 8 years so it's hard to

[Katieloouise]

this video is saying that its not a big deal to feel left out, but when this scenario happens to you every single day....

[j-]

Does anyone get that strange feeling of wanting to be with friends, but when they're around you, you feel lonely?




Yep, just me :)

[yazminrodriguez]

I feel left out all the time...
1. We need to get into groups of 2 and i wanna be with my friends but of course they partnered up with someone already leaving me alone
2. At lunch my friends are talking and im just sitting there staring at the walls
3. My friends make plans to go to the mall or something and i'm never invited