When People Don't Support You

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Summary: The more you follow your dreams, the more you’ll get the believers AND the haters. Take responsibility for your dreams, and remember you don't need anyone's permission or praise to continue on your path.

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Brendon Burchard is the world’s leading high performance coach and one of the most-watched, quoted and followed personal development trainers in history. He is also a #1 New York Times bestselling author and in the Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook, with over 10 million fans across his pages. O, The Oprah Magazine, and Success Magazine have both named him one of the most influential leaders in personal growth and achievement.

A #1 New York Times, #1 Wall Street Journal, and #1 USA Today best-selling author, his books include High Performance Habits, The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket.

His podcasts, The Brendon Show, and High Performance Habits, both debuted at #1 on iTunes across all categories.

[unkownify]

People who will discourage you are the norm. By being ambitious and going after "the impossible, " you are posing a major threat to their belief systems. You are hurling big rocks at their glass castle of false excuses in a stormy world of open possibilities. They will fight that tooth and nail. Their survival depends on it. So when you hear their words of discouragement you need to translate them into the appropriate phrases. When they say "Don't do it. It's impossible, " "You are not well equipped for this, " "You are being unreasonable by taking this course of actions, " and similar statements. They are actually saying "Don't you dare prove to me that I'm stuck where I'm in life because I failed to face the truth that I got no one to blame except myself for not achieving what I always wanted to achieve." So instead of hating them or considering them enemies, feel sympathetic toward them. They are like little kids on the beach of a dreaded island watching you setting sail into a stormy ocean toward paradise island. They will scream at you not to get yourself killed, while deep down they cry and wish they could muster the courage to come aboard.

[unkownify]

I want to add that you need to understand that people who would actually support you if you go after something that seems to be out of your reach are pretty unique people. They are rare.

[ashb]

The very first line...
It really hurts to be a black sheep in the family.
Thanks Brendon, you've always been my hero ❤

[ProsperityCarter]

Thank you much Brendon! This video was needed in my life. May God continue to bless you in all areas in your life and in all that you strive to do!

[Shrs]

I watch this because I strangely find people who unfriend me and then I'm like I really don't care it's whatever. I want to continue doing what I love and sharing it with the world

[noah.]

Love this. I feel so discouraged if people don't support me... 🙁 this really gives me positive energy.

[Umavenugopal]

Just today I was told not to follow what my heart is begging me to. I think some higher power is trying to talk to me through this video. Perfect time to steel my nerves and Brain.

[fatoumatad]

Brendon, I have been sad for two days trying to deal with hate and lack of support for my ideas and conviction. I have been thinking about how to deal with it. Today I come across this video. Oh my God!!! Just to say thank you!!!! Thank you! Thank you! I feel like I have been saved. My mind is free and I feel so much better because I Now know what to

[johndouglas]

Brilliant insight. I totally agree. Self acceptance and self awareness dumbs down the judgement of others. Im glad i saw this message today, it was very encouraging.

[jonathangubisch-createyour]

I love the point in this video. It's not the other people's job and responsibility to support your own dream! YES!! It's always on us.

[mangmiketeamtaiaha]

This is so true, getting support and believing in you from loved ones, if they don't appear to care...it hurts alot and kills motivation. Why is that??? I always support others hobbies and passions and show interest.... they never return that makes me mad self douchbags.

[realrough]

The easiest way might be to unlearn to care...
Great vid, thanks👍

[clintian]

And to think that I watched this video just in my birthday, so, thanks for the message you've given to us, I'll consider it as a good birthday gift.

[manhnguyenedu]

2 years later this video is still helpful and relatable. Thank you Brendon for your wisdom! We have to be our own supporters and cheerleaders.

[tiffanywashington]

I needed this today. It hurts to cheer so hard for others and notice that they struggle to genuinely cheer for you. You’re right, the more dreams you make come true, the more you’ll see it. So, I need to deal with this now because I’m doing the dang thang. Thank you.

[sm]

The more you implement - you’ll get more believers anddd more haters ! So true!

[utsaharya]

I've been suffering from anxiety, panics (after ending a long toxic relation) since 1.5 month. I listen these manifesting videos, do yoga, exercise etc tryin best to recover but there are times I come back to the same worst condition. Also, parents fight regularly (dad fights alot)& seeing mom get stressed makes my condition more worse. I get so anxious and feel like crying. I DONT KNOW WHATS HAPPENING. Somebody help please. Badly want to get out of it and live my dreams in life.

[ayanankenge]

Good video! When I decided to go for my Master's degree, 2 people who were close to me told me that I couldn't and shouldn't do it while working full time. Well, I did it anyway and years later they also went college/masters program while working on their full time jobs as well. Had I listened to them... Nevermind, you get the point! Lol

[AlaaAlkhalaf]

Thank you...just do it. Big heart for you form Syria ❤

[arshadsidhique]

Thanks Brendon.
Its a Game-Changer for me.
Before I watch this video, I was really in a despondent state <3