Differences Between Being in Love with Someone and Loving Someone

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We all tend to use the term “love” loosely. You can say you were in love many times, and your heart was broken numerous times. But, how many times have you truly loved someone?

How many times have you put someone else’s happiness before your own? We all had that one person that was special for us and who affected our lives and was different than anyone else.

The feeling of being in love can sometimes make you selfish, possessive, and impulsive. You crave for that person, and he is the only thing you are able to think about.

At this point, your ego is fragile and you want to have all of his time and attention. Your expectations of this person and of your relationship are everything but real. You perceive everything as a fairy tale, and you look at everything through pink glasses.

When you are in love, you want to change some things about this person—you want him to fit your standards. You even compare him to other guys, to your ex-boyfriends, to your friends’ boyfriends.

No matter what this person does, you are with him in good and bad times. When you truly love someone, there is nothing he can do that would make you stop loving him. You have his back and support him in everything.

Even if you ever stop being in love with this person, you will always love him. He is your best friend, your family. After some years, it is perfectly natural for the passion to fade away and for the butterflies to disappear.

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Timestamps ⏰

0:00 Intro
0:43 the difference between being in love and loving someone
2:09 You share everything with the person you love
3:09 Love makes you feel calm