Why Men CHASE Some Women: the Power of Dark Feminine Energy

🔥 Activate Your Dark Feminine Energy—Unleash Your Power!

What if you could make men chase you, admire you, and want to be around you—all without playing games?

In this video, MJ Harris dives into the secrets of Dark Feminine Energy, teaching you how to use it intentionally to attract the life and relationships you deserve. Learn how to step into your power, create desire, and maintain the upper hand in any dynamic. This isn’t about manipulation—it’s about showing up for yourself and making your energy irresistible.

💬 Comment below: Have you ever used your feminine energy to shift a dynamic in your favor? Let’s discuss and empower each other!

Full Timestamps:
⏰ 0:00 - Introduction: What Is Dark Feminine Energy?
⏰ 0:33 - Debunking Myths: Why Dark Feminine Energy Is Not Manipulation
⏰ 1:16 - Feminine Energy as a Superpower: Receiving and Protecting
⏰ 2:06 - Activating Masculine Energy: The Push-Pull Dynamic
⏰ 3:32 - The Mistakes Feminine Energy Makes That Push Men Away
⏰ 5:08 - Creating Curiosity and Mystery While Boosting His Ego
⏰ 6:12 - Communicating Without Over-Revealing: Keeping Him Guessing
⏰ 7:39 - The Role of Scarcity: Why Limited Access Increases Value
⏰ 10:04 - Setting Boundaries on Physical Access: First Date Strategies
⏰ 11:45 - Leaving Him Wanting More: The Perfect Exit Strategy
⏰ 14:12 - The Coquette Energy: Giving, Then Pulling Back
⏰ 18:07 - On the Date: Subtle Actions to Reinforce Your Power
⏰ 23:45 - Conclusion: How to Use Your Feminine Energy as a Superpower

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About MJ Harris:
Malcolm “MJ” Harris is the bestselling author who helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially—and he makes you laugh a lot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today, and Black Enterprise.

He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month—across social media and TV. In addition, he is the CEO and founder of the MJ Harris family of companies, which is one of America’s largest African-American-owned financial services firms.

MJ’s rise began with creating empowering and aspirational content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.

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💬 Comment below: Have you ever used your feminine energy to shift a dynamic in your favor? Let’s discuss and empower each other!

[Nare]

The dating pool is so small when you have strong boundaries and high standards

[zarrahprodan]

Basically, don't be "easy"😎

[KeshiaBean-kv]

I am a church lady, but I’m sorry this was excellent advice for first time daters. I could not have said it better myself, and I sent it to all three of my young daughters. They are at that stage where they are starting to look around. Sometimes good advice has to come from a different source cause they don’t always listen to their parents. Good job.

[kbabyish]

I’ve never seen a man break this ish down the way he did 🤛🏾👏🏾

[carinekeza]

Why women have to work hard for everything!! I’m happy to be a single mom now I’m loving me and my kids 🥰

[EmilyJohanson-yd]

Honestly, I can’t stop talking about The Seduction Alchemy by Sophie Carter ! It’s filled with powerful, practical advice that will make you feel unstoppable. Who’s with me on this?

[RoseRose-hprq]

I always have intuitively made sure that I was not the first one to meet for a date. I specifically will go in after I already see him pull up, or go in a few minutes late nothing over five or six minutes though. When a man sees you walk in and catches the glimpse of you across the room and likes what he sees and realizes you’re coming closer to him. It is a massive ego boost, and then he feels Even more excited to be with you, especially if he saw other men looking at you on the way over. Also, I always ask a man to sit right beside me in the booth or I will sit with him on his side of the table and give him my absolute undivided attention. It really does work wonders.

[MarchingFt]

This was very insightful. For the ladies who say they already knew this, well, good on you. Not everyone was taught how to date... so be grateful you had that kind-of support in your life. The rest of us rely on these brothas and sistas to help us out

[SibylSVerneZEl]

I wish I would have found you in my early 30’s, I’m 36 now and you’ve taught me so much in such a short period of time! Thank you! And then I love your professional approach and financial background! Chefs kiss!

[ThandekaMakhathini-gd]

I have been applying your tips and they work My man is

[zinhlemkhize]

I love the fact that you advise that we hold embrace our femininity and also empower their masculinity, it's not toxic femininity and bashing masculinity none of that

[andziagreen]

MJ you are my guru💜🤗🙏 thank you. You are changing my pity life. I'm 40+ and only now learning this stuff. When I think why neither of my parents or grandmothers never told me this to save me from domestic abuse and other traumas I start crying. I wish we could live in the same country so I could get in touch with you to coach me seriously to become the woman I should be.

[Zaphnath_Paaneah]

Hopefully women can lose interest in relationships and romance enough to finally enjoy peace of mind, as well as mental and emotional stability. These men require too much work and even on their best days, they're not really worth it.

[LunaMariaASMR]

Let go of games and control… the right one will show up when the time is right, you don’t have to be with a man all the time

[firstnamelastname-vegj]

4:00 the problem with this is that as soon as you become interested in them and are sure of it, they back off

[bestfriend]

I love that when you show it with a specific example(conversation) that makes it way easier to understand

[alidapurmalietis]

This info is absolutely GOLDEN. I was married for over 20 years, and when I finally got back into the dating scene, it was very painful! But it wouldn’t have been had I followed this type of advice. Ultimately, I ended up figuring it out from my girlfriends, but you summed it up better than I’ve ever heard anyone do. Thank you so much for being generous and kind. Much love.❤

[nancykabik]

OMG, that was SO POWERFUL, THANK YOU!! I'm 40 and back on the dating market and really needed this cuz I'm working a guy that plays hard to get and I want to make sure I don't do the same mistakes I was doing when I was 20. Thank you so much, this is gold!!🙏🙏🙏

[TylerAshleyW]

❤Boundaries and having high self worth - self respect and integrity -great video Thankyou .love your content -found you on fb .