African Parents Teach Daughters to be wives, NO! Indentured Servants

African Parents Teach Daughters to be wives, NO! Indentured Servants
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[jas-n-motion]

Mothers are the biggest enablers of their sons poor behavior

[nassakakibuuka]

As an African woman with 3 sons I break this culture in Jesus name !

[videofan]

"Useless cockroaches that roam the earth for free" 😂

[nextupafrica]

I grew in Kenya.. I have 5 sisters and one brother.. he did chores and cooking like the rest of us. My mother always told him your sisters are not your maids .. kudos to my mama

[zeldawilliams]

I am in South Africa, and this is exactly how my mother raised my brother and I. I was taught to be a husband's slave. And my brother was taught to be the king of the castle who sits in front of the tv while his wife (who btw also had a full-time job), had to do EVERYTHING after getting home from work. Three weeks into their marriage, my brother's wife packed her bags and left. I told my mother that she was the reason this happened. His wife returned to him on condition they go for couples counseling. It seems to have worked, because my brother is a different person today. He cooks, cleans, does everything alongside his wife now. The result? They just celebrated 30 years of marriage. When a man understands his wife's value, it will result in a long and happy marriage. The same goes for the wife. Respect goes both ways.

[kimrawls]

My Jamaican mother made sure all 6 of her kids learned to cook, clean and do laundry. I remember my mom saying that she didn't want her sons depending on a woman to survive. I started my son doing his own laundry at 12 years old. I followed in my mother's footsteps with both my son and daughter.

[lisa.]

And if you suffer abuse they tell you to stay with him and keep serving him

[mppcmanual]

South east asian here and i had this argument with my mom the other day when she was preparing EVERYTHING for my 27yo brother. When i pointed out that he can do all that by himself, my mom got mad and went all, "This is why you're not getting married. A man doesn't wanna marry a woman if he still needs to take care of himself, he needs a woman to do all." Basically saying the wife beeds to be as good as the mother. She stopped speaking to me for the whole day when I told her I can babysit kids but I don't live all these years to dedicate myself to babysit a freaking adult.

[patiencemtetwa]

Ladies we must never give up teaching our son's to be sensible human beings

[Nai-]

My Asian parents too. I laugh because they’ve been teaching me how to be a good wife and daughter in law since I could remember, but I’m now 40 and still single af. Jokes on them! All they taught me was to never get married! 🤣😂🤣

[Auvibee]

I’m married to an African man. I hear no lies. And their mothers make it hard for the men to learn and change

[Nary_Patnoe]

My asian family tried to do that with me.
I finally had kids of my own and taught both son and daughters to help each other, learn from each other, to hunt, to cook and keep clean.
The basics for any human being.
None of them will be helpless.
STOP THE GENERATIONAL CURSE.

[mycoldheart]

Asian here! We share the same culture too. The sons can do no wrong, but if the women are not cooking for the family/cleaning/ etc. Then we are deemed useless.

[jamiealfenso]

100% on point. And no baby, it's not just African men and African parents. This is a world wide problem. It doesn't have a race, colour or religion.

[rcctcsg]

I am dating an African man and I am so grateful that he is nothing like what she described. He is perfect, very sensitive and understanding, treats me like an equal, most of the time like a queen and he rejects every traditional female role. We usually split housework and expenses. During my exams he took all those upon himself so I could focus only on my studies.
I hope all women can find a man like this.

[carylsahadath]

It happens in many cultures.... boys get to play outside and girls are trained and given responsibilities....

[mirian]

No lies were told. It’s not just Africans or blacks… lots of men need to be raised after learning mom and dad.

[irenebarongo]

I have two brothers and we all grew up doing the same chores, so thanks to my mother for doing things differently.😊

[ursa]

Imagine how strong families could be if both parents taught their sons to be fathers and husbands as often as they teach their daughters? This is an international issue.

[a.m.]

I’m white, 3rd generation Irish American and my sister and I worked our azzes off. My hands were SOOO calloused and rough that if someone touched the palm of my hand I wouldn’t feel it initially. My brothers…did whatever tf they wanted. My poor mother I miss her endlessly, but not long before she passed she said to me “I wish I taught you girls NOT to work so much..”. A bitter regret for her my heart broke for her over that.