7 Ways To Make People Like You MORE

Do you find it hard to socialize? Want to learn how to be more likable? You're in the right place. Research in the field of social psychology has helped widen our understanding of relationships, and how people will act in social groups and situations. Knowing this, you can learn ways to boost your likeability when around people.

Writer: Stela Kosic
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References
Montoya, R. M., & Horton, R. S. (2012). The reciprocity of liking effect. In M. A. Paludi (Ed.), The psychology of love (pp. 39–57). Praeger/ABC-CLIO.
Tamir, D.I. & Mitchell, J.P. (2012). Disclosing information about the self is intrinsically rewarding. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 109(21), 8038-43. doi: 10.1073/pnas.1202129109.

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Summary :
1) Talk nicely about other people.
2) Be aware of ur body language.
3) Be aware of their body language as well.
4) Try not to judge anyone.
5) Ask them questions about their lives.
6) Spread happiness And positivity.
7) Let them know u like them.
Hope i could help. Stay safe y'all 😄
Also, thanks a lot psych2go for all ur efforts. I will never regret subscribing this channel. Love ya so much 😘

[blanchespinkblossom]

I highly recommend Vanessa Van Edward’s book entitled “Captivate”. It states that studies have shown that the most likable people are the ones who like more people. In other words, if you like more people, people tend to like you back.

[loonatheverse]

Here’s some tips for being happier so you can spread joy:
- every ngiht just write down 3 things that went well for you today
-focus on what you have, not what you don’t
-be empathetic
-do random acts of kindness

[khalilahd.]

As a social introvert these tips are so helpful but I think it’s helpful for everyone to follow these guidelines ☺️

[clearlystarley]

7 ways to make people like you MORE
0:25 Talk nicely about other people
1:03 Be aware of your body language
1:38 Be aware of their body language, too
2:16 Try not to judge anyone
2:59 Ask them questions about their lives
3:46 Spread happiness and positivity
4:28 Let them know you like them

[clasherking]

So basically be a nice person and spread your happiness to others when you I've been doing that for the 3 years now and can confirm it does work. I've had a lot of people I work with say they just feel like I'm easy to talk to and my manager says I'm about the easiest person they know to get along with.

[rebeccaliew]

No.7 is a wild card that needs to be threaded carefully. After letting someone know you like them, if you give off hints of wanting romantic relationship but the other party wants to friendsone you instead = whatever enjoyable time you till then can go south, where the other party can ghost you out.

[alonii.]

I’m honestly trying very hard to be more social. I’ve improved some which I’m proud of myself but I know there is always room to grow so thank you for this video!!

[ArtDesignsCreations]

For the past while I've been on autopilot and distancing myself from others and staying isolated to the point where going to the mail box feels like a weight of bricks. But recently, I started to get myself out there by dressing up in my homemade Spider-Punk outfit and cruising around the streets on my long board and handing homemade stickers of my artwork. In addition, I enjoy hearing people tell me that I've made their day, it just makes feel true happiness. My father once told me, "Money doesn't buy happiness, it buys comfort and misery." And he continued how I was able to make people's day and at the same time feel happy with myself is something that can't be bought. Finally, Psych2Go has made me feel more confident about myself about who I am as a person. Thank you 💖😊

[lerneanlion]

There is one problem related to being happy about what other people are being happy about. If you're feeling not happy about what the others are being happy about but being forced to go along with it such as being forced to attend some loud and lawless parties where everyone goes wild with endless liquors, you won't feel happy because you're being forced to just to fit in with the others.

[rawrokathrin]

you dont understand how much i love this channel
im currently studying psychology because i wanna be a neuropsychologist now
this channel is the main reason for it lol

[gifteni]

Note chameleon effect means matching other people's energy or body language, however, don't let it get too far. let them know when you're uncomfortable as well. You don't have to be friends with everyone especially if they do things you don't like. If you like being a listener that's cool, but if you like to talk about yourself, you can do that. If a person really likes you they want to get to know you. Do let them talk, no one likes it when someone only talks about themselves. Don't be judgemental doesn't mean don't have an opinion. They clearly said that so don't misunderstand. You don't have to fake it just learn that other people's views matter.


THIS IS SO DAMN LONG.
I feel like no one will read it, but try to. Hope it helps a bit <333

[CashySwanson]

What it comes down to is to just be yourself. Work on yourself and truly refine yourself as a person. Anybody who doesn't like who you truly are isn't worth being liked by. I used to adapt to the people near me to be more likeable, but I'm more liked nowadays without giving a single care in the world about how people perceive my personality as.

Obviously though don't treat hygeine the same way, be clean and work on your physical health. Just because you shouldn't value others' opinions on how you look/act doesn't mean you get to be a slob or an asshole.

That's just my take on life anyways.

[Alejandra-gegm]

Personally, I’ve mentally been using these tips on my own and I would say it’s been good!

But one thing is make sure that person you want to befriend doesn’t end up relying on you. Like for example they end up always wanting something from you and never give you anything back (different if they just don’t bring supplies and genuinely talk to you as a friend outside of asking for supplies). Or maybe they only come to vent to you (sometimes asking or maybe not asking if it’s an okay time to do that) instead of actually talking.

But don’t forget not everyone is like that, there’s a lot of good people in this world but don’t let the person rely on you to the point it drains you. You deserve to feel good in that relationship too!

[thechancellor-]

To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

[lamb]

getting ppl to like u seems like so much work when you’re not a happy or naturally bubbly person. i’m quiet, have dry humor along with drawing half for comfort and half for fashion so i guess i don’t have much to be attractive from. i also find it hard to genuinely care abt someone else and what they do like their hobbies or how their day went, idk why i’m like that :/

[cinnamonrollsenpai]

i don’t ask people about their lives, but if they mention anything they like i ask them to tell me more and it’s so nice to hear them talk. i like hearing about what makes people happy, because they get happy just talking about it :)

[Smile-pyqz]

I tried talking nicely about everyone else around me, no matter how they behave around their surroundings and I'd try my best to spread joy everywhere, but the more I do the more my friends would think I'm weak, or just stupid, or a freak. People just dislike me even more. I don't know anymore if I'm a good or a bad person anymore. Although thanks for listening! I appreciate. C:

[vinceus]

Most important thing:Be yourself, be true to yourself, and don't change so that folks will like you.

[fritzflitz]

im always a chill, helpful, friendly guy, that cracks some dumb and wierd jokes sometimes, im not really good looking at all, anytime i get the "wow ur really that friendly how i thought you would be" compliment. 😂
Im getting closer to real relationships lately, I'm more confident since a while and all around just happy.

it randomly came to me, that more and more people start to like me or wanted to get in contact with me. this sudden turn is weird but ill take it