How Do I Share Your Videos with My Wife?

I often get emails from men asking how to share my videos with their wives or help their wives see our woman ways that I teach about on my channel. Here is the answer...

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*Disclaimer:* The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my videos and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for aggressive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and/or physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.

Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my videos as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

[katw]

My husband kindly showed me one of your videos that most pertained to our situation. He approached it like “hey can we watch this video together?”
I’m so thankful he did! Our marriage has greatly improved already! Thank you Karyn! And all you good men out there, don’t give up! Blessings to you all!

[Gator]

Either embrace the coming conflict or continue to be unhappy.

My wife has no problem with starting a fight, and that’s been giving her an upper hand. My desire for peace and treating her with fairness and respect has meant that I had no boundaries left. Once I realized that I had to be ready to fight, then things started to change.

[Jer.]

I started to ask my wife to not dis-respect me, and she moved out. Should have done it years ago.

[Mareseilla]

My husband sent me one of your videos, he wasn't sure how i would react. The first time i watched it i wasn't happy about it, but i decided to think about it and not talk to my husband about it tell i sat down and re watched with a clear head. I am so glad thats the route i took because these videos have helped our marriage. I have tried to be a self aware women, and these videos have helped me become more self aware.

[earlrohrer]

You are right absolutely right, I shared your videos with my wife and she hates you and thanks I have been brainwashed. She treats me like a friend, a server, a roommate.

[OEFOIFOUPVet]

These videos have opened my eyes so much to what my wife has been doing for years. I did buy into my wife's negative, horrible story about me and she disrespected me so many times in front of my kids my kids repeat her lies as well. Indeed, I did think it was me, I was a failure, an idiot, a fool, a Homer Simpson type of loser. Looking back at all the times she emasculated me, I see now, it wasn't me, it was her, her fear of following my lead, her desire to control me, her need to belittle and disrespect me. Despite all of her evil toward me, I have succeeded financially and in my industry. But thanks to her, I have horrible imposter syndrome, never feeling like my achievements are really earned, really deserved despite repeatedly setting a higher standard over and over again. I did share a video, yesterday in fact, She didn't respond to it at all. I've been living in a sexless, loveless, emotionally disconnected marriage for 13+ years, I'm at my end, it changes or I'm done, I refuse to live in a marriage where my wife sees me as a punching bag, a wallet, and her emotional vomit toilet. I've made a plan, and there will be consequences for her choices.

[sman]

This is my favorite video. My wife said everything you said about me being the problem and when i told her about these videos and asked if she would watch one and she said no. My wife always does the opposite of what i suggest. At least i now know what is happening and i feel 100% better. Thank you😊.

[mrwhigham]

I shared your video before once, and only once. This video literally nailed every aspect of her response. Triggered and blasted and not only did she blast me but she blasted Karyn also. Calling her jr high school names. Lucky for me I was able to understand without seeing this video that she won’t and is not willing to change. But I am. I am a good man again, back to taking care of my own integrity and being strong again. Thank you 😊 for this Karyn, again. Thank you 😊 thank you 😊 thank you 😊

[Greg-]

Karyn, Is there a specific video of yours that tells you story, how you came out of the “nasty” wife posture, what woke you up, what you realized about yourself and that your husband is a good man, not perfect but “good”? I think that would speak volumes to our wives…to hear it from another woman of their kind, that used to struggle with the things they are struggling with presently.

[mr.e]

Showed my wife one video and at the end I got “I can’t believe that’s what you think of me”, “that woman is evil”. It’s exactly like you said, it’s always about what I need to do for her, and yep, she wanted me to go to counseling. Unfortunately, anything short of a miracle, I don’t see this relationship lasting another six months. I love her but unfortunately for her she’s lost all hand in the marriage. I look at her now, and I don’t even recognize her. I honestly feel like she pulled a bait and switch on me. She’s not the person I married. At this point we’re just two people sharing a house.

[practicallyheidi]

I hope and pray for all the husbands here that they receive all they deserve and long for from their wives. Wives main desire is to be loved and adored. Men are so quick to give that to them when they become respected, appreciated, and admired. It is so simple to get what we desire. I hope your wife can see before they lose you forever. Blessings and love.❤

[rmpm]

Be ready for a serious unmasking, and the o’l “your the narcissist” game. Like Karyn said, it’s 50/50. Soooo exhausting!! Thanks Karyn, your awesome girl!!

[inthedetails]

I’m not straight nor am I married but I still enjoy this content because the ‘female nature’ you touch on is essentially love.

All I’ll say for men on the fence is that you will never lose something that was real if you’re honest.

[tonyleuci]

Thank you for all these videos. Helped me! But, guys do beware, this video may not be the first one to ask her to watch. Last night … sat her down said we needed to have a talk (sex, respect, etc). She looked suspiciously at me and said OK. 2 minutes in she started to become visibly and verbally angry, and the end part about “manipulation” ended the watching if anything. For the next 30 minutes, I sat there, upright, sincere, and serious, while she did everything we have been told would happen with triggered women. The yelling, accusations of anything during past 30 yrs, that she doesn’t want sex with me because of weight gain, some of it Medical, but a lot of me being sedentary. Depression, loneliness, resentment followed after she said I would explode if I got any bigger - and that’s why sex is like 2-3 times a month, and only if I initiate. Never 1 word from her even after 3 weeks… nothing! I ignored the tantrum … so last night was very quiet here. Today, all she does is cry, like she wants me to come over, offer my apologies for ever thinking it was my fault. Normal historical behavior. I am stalwart now, going on with my day … don’t get me wrong, I’m as low as I can get, depressed, defeated, sad … but I will not allow her to see that. So, in conclusion … I had a glimmer of hope before I said anything, and a little more after she agreed to watch just one first. But, as always, I was not surprised by what occurred. If your wife gets triggered any time you even think she’s wrong, try a less honest up-front commentary - that’s the first thing they hear and u talking defensive. Just my opinion, but start with another, these are all great, but beware the triggered, the wall will built in a minute, faster than Rome was built!! Thanks for the opportunity to vent.

[BigpopsyX]

Shared a video with my wife and total denial by her saying the video is rubbish! Some women just can’t accept that they are wrong in life! Love these videos as they let me know it’s not me that is wrong.

[rmorales]

Thank you for your words. You had me nodding up and down with this. This is exactly where my mind, mood and perspective skewed to while going through my separation. I started to question my self, my worth, my abilities and myself as a person. I began to become depressed and disappointed with myself by starting to believe the words and terms she used against my name and being as a man and husband and father. Reflecting back and learning and knowing myself, I was able to refind my own self worth and regain my own self respect. I pray that she is able to as well and keep our marriage committed.

[damionhenry]

I was in couple counseling, She was giving me hell!!!! And She was engaging in another relationship!!!😂😂😂 I laugh because I will not cry!!!

[christianthomas]

Your work is really sacred! The world cannot appreciate you enough!

[defiantrascal]

Fortunately for me i'm not married so i don't have to worry about ways of sharing this with my wife. No wife, no problems!

[alanbretherton]

I hope all women eventually get to watch your videos. Such valuable information for both men and women. You are a breath of fresh air young lady. Keep up the amazing work. Thank you.