How to tell you are self-sabotaging your love life | Sabotaging a relationship subconsciously

How to tell you are self-sabotaging your love life | Sabotaging a relationship subconsciously.

Are you self-sabotaging your love life? Have you asked yourself “Am I ruining my own love life? Am I my own worst enemy?”? If you are going around in a toxic cycle there is a chance you are sabotaging a relationship subconsciously through self-sabotaging behaviour. In this video, Renee Slansky address the signs you are self- sabotaging your love life and how to stop self-sabotaging so you can move forward.

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[ReneeSlansky]

Do you think your self-sabotage your own love life? Let me know if this video helped you!

[DannyBoy]

I would say there are three things. #3: You're letting hurt turn dark and not letting love in or becoming cynical with trust issues about the opposite sex. That's my case anyway.

[brandywilliams]

I just watched my first video by you and I’ve already learned a FEW things I’ve been doing wrong, and a couple of reasons I’m STILL single 🤦🏾‍♀️ THANKS A BUNCH for sharing!

[lavayuki]

Awesome, thanks Renee! I seem to chase either players or bad boys in baseball caps... both toxic options.

[TheAussilab]

Thanks Renee, for conforming my x girlfriend was a toxic damaged self sabtager. She scraatchd my vehicles crazy unhinged. Every holiday I paid & took she started up drama. I dumped her, then she came back again, took her in again and she was worse and had not down any self improvement. Dumped permantly. She was pretty and a personal trainer.

[joss]

Thanks Renee, I found this useful but I find the “fixing people” one really tough to navigate, a) because I’m a trainee psychologist so I feel I naturally take on the carer role be it with my girl mates or romantic partners, and b) because everyone has baggage, so everyone “needs fixing” or has areas where they need to develop etc… it’s difficult as I feel thats the area I self sabotage in but it’s also just part of my caring personality!

[angelicascaglioni]

omg that's so me!!! thanks for this video, it's been really helpful. i'll take the first step through my self-sabotage pattern.

[metalmouth]

Self sabotage can also happen if someone stays in a relationship or a marriage that ain't working. It can be like the country music song: one step forward and two steps back.

[aperson]

thank you so much, currently trying to get out of this terrible cycle with my current partner!

[LonjeMarie]

This is 1 million percent correct! I’m breaking the cycle. This helps thank you

[MichaelAntus]

Thanks Renee. I always enjoy your advice...

[annezhu]

Can't agree more, and I am really thankful for Renee to tell me that.

[karenenglish]

The last one is me all over, I make my spouse my everything and don't know how to put myself first

[pokemondraws]

This video is really awesome! Wow 50K u got it! And congratulations and celebration u r bestest coach of relation:)🎤🎶🎧🎤

[Anastasio]

I am so tired of women who burn for me, but are afraid to get intimate and fall in love. Then I loose my interest and they wonder. The shity thing is I stay single :(

[saunjisharon]

i’m glad i clicked this video!! i can relate with all the topics. i downloaded your book! can’t wait to read it
-thanks Renee

[DontgettrickedPodcast]

thanks for sharing the video!!! im learning more about men and women self sabotaging. we not having a clue that we are doing...

[sohamkaluda]

And Renee you're in love sometimes you called your bf and he is on another call and doesn't respond you.. you'll angry automatically because of love work like this.. but if you'll understand and make it comfortable its the creativity of your mind..

[LonjeMarie]

How is April 20, 2021 I want to YouTube and type in how to know if you are self sabotaging your relationships your video was the first one that popped up thank you very very much Rene I got tremendously blessed I’ve made more progress than what I think

[KiwiFox]

Can you expand on 'creating drama'? I came here hoping to understand more why my husband constantly is undervalueing himself. If when when he 'vents' about his job, it becomes a screaming match between him trying to express how mistreated he feels at work, but that anger gets projected in a very unhealthy way, and it stresses me out. If I try to tell him about better solutions that would help the situation, he'd throw at me something like "well I'm not a snitch." Or 'I can't get a better job.' And makes excuses not to act. It usually gets so escalated I have to tell him to stop talking about it with me, because I'm so overwhelmed at not getting anywhere with him. He ends those discussions with 'fine, then I guess you WIN.' and every time it breaks me down because it's not about winning, it's that this conversation is unhealthy, your job is unhealthy, and I'm the only one advocating for you, yet he is willing to sacrifice me, and my unconditional commitment to him, by placing all that discontent on my emotional state... He says I start arguments, but what actually happens is he gets blinded by his anger to where he no longer has anything healthy to talk about, and he doesn't care about what insults or slurs come out, or how just downright offensive his words are, and I emotionally react by just crying because it's just so sad to see this job distort