Woman change your surname | Name change after marriage | Idara Daniella

Name change after marriage | Woman change your surname

Hey Beautiful people,

Today's conversation is on the idea of a woman not having a decision to either keep her surname or attach that of her husband. Seems we still have a long way to go on letting women make their decisions without anyone questioning it.
I would like to know your thoughts in the comment section.

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[AsyDarlyn]

Me i believe ladies should talk about this during courtship.
I told my husband very early in our relationship that i'd keep my father's name and add his own at the back. My surname was originally hyphenated with my father's name and grandfather's name, so i simply removed my grandfather's own and put my husband's own.
The mistake most ladies make is not talking about these important things very very early. Instead they'd be going on dates and licking icecream.
There are many questions that will expose the level of understanding some men have. very sad

[lumeenixon]

I basically think she can answer whichever name she wants to answer.
For instance my fiance asked me what surname I would want to bare because he also wants to change his surname to his grandpa's surname. So I told him that I love his grandpa's surname but I would also love to keep my father's name as well, he thought about it for a moment and he said if I was ok with that then he would be ok with it because the goal to be happy but after I thought about it I decided to remove my surname because I see getting married as starting a new chapter in my life, starting a new life but with someone else. The point is it really doesn't matter, the most important thing is being happy...keeping or removing surname does not guarantee a successful marriage and I dont think why lady should be involved with someone who would make a fuss about it because hisreason for doing that is to feel on top, what will people say, he no looking weak and so on... what basically matters is what you and your spouse think at that point no one else matter 100%.

[Tomsybabe]

Men that their names carry weight, don't even make noise or see it as an issue.
You literally dissected this issue EXACTLY the way I feel about it🤗
Nice video! Enjoyed every bit of it👍🏾

[AsyDarlyn]

Even the work own, i said it early oo.
Women should have deal breakers and say it early. The pressure of getting married sometimes stops people from looking deep.
EXACTLY!! Many people want to be housewives, marry them instead.

[homejobsuccesswithally]

I agree. The woman should make the decision if she wants to take the mans name or not. Some men want to be in control too much. Fr4 career driven women will not stay at home

[Simplyalbie]

I don't know why there should be a problem if a woman wants to keep her father's name after marriage.besides the children she will give birth to will keep the man's surname and not her's.so there shouldn't be a problem if she wants to keep her own father's name.Fr1

[dera_giselle]

Key sentence: Why go for a career woman if you want a woman who will stay at home?

[FaithJobLive]

Lmao 😂. The Intro tho🤣🤣. It’s like you want some guys to find you and flog you

[myrecipe_journal]

You really hit the nail on the edge with this topic. The type of mentality some men is crazy

[BrendaKimbi]

I love the upgrade it's a breath of.fresh air.... beautiful top too

[fabiawarijenewari]

My dear you have said it all ooo
We should be allowed to make our own decision seriously...👌

[abigailifeoma]

Nne you said it all, you know this maturity is not by age or qualifications maturity to me is gift from God cause is not everyone that has it .... instead of forcing on the character of the woman his marring too his focusing on surname. Some men sha ...
please be bringing up this type of issues cause it makes sence and at same time I was laughing 😂

[Dynamic_Victoria]

Honestly I think it’s important to talk about stuffs like these before taking it to the next level. If it not it will result to issues in the marriage.

[alfredjosef]

Yes . Some where women need to compromise

[Nicolayardstylecookingmore]

i think this should talked about while courting so when its time no one will be surprise m3

[fatimatmomoh]

A woman has the right to either change or keep her name. M3

[antoinettelydieolama]

Personally. I f I get married I am keeping my surname. Period. It a personal choice. Fr1

[busayovlog]

The one of not working is even worse ...marriage can’t make me lose my identity
I have a life before meeting you also have yours

[dejonahsfamily]

I have no problem changing my surname but either way is not a big deal but shouldn't be forced. M3

[nomsosworld]

I love this tutorial... Our Nigerian men are something else. Fr1 Nice one once again. Awesome content