The Shocking Reasons Why People Cheat In Relationships - Sadia Khan

Chris and Sadia Khan discuss why certain people cheat in their relationships. Why do married couples cheat according to Sadia Khan? Does Sadia Khan think men or women are more likely to cheat in relationships? Is there any way to reconcile with a cheater according to Sadia Khan?

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[liabobia]

As someone who was cheated on... Yep, it was my fault that I didn't see his true nature. He was not a traditional man, he didn't respect his father, and he was openly hyperemotional and discussed his victimhood constantly. I praised him for being sensitive. What he was, was a dangerously unregulated man with no sense of personal honor, pride in his masculinity, or temperance. I will not make such a mistake again.

[Fibonaccisghost]

I had an argument with a gf years ago and out of nowhere she said, “I can get any guy I want in this town.” I didn’t see it for what it was and think hard about being in a relationship with someone who makes a threat like that. And yes she was definitely cheating on me. I should’ve known better but damn if a hot girl doesn’t put a spell on you sometimes.

[dameanvil]

00:00 🤔 Infidelity often occurs when red flags are ignored. These signs may include differing values, past infidelity, or non-traditional beliefs about relationships.
01:37 💔 Ignoring red flags increases the likelihood of infidelity. It's important to acknowledge and address these warning signs.
03:15 💬 Consideration for reconciliation after infidelity should focus on whether both partners can accept worst-case scenarios. This is crucial for a healthy, lasting marriage.
05:30 🔄 Accepting a partner after infidelity can create a dynamic that's hard for the cheater to respect, potentially leading to ongoing issues.
06:53 💍 Some married women cheat due to not marrying their preferred partner, seeking to feel desired, or stemming from childhood experiences, like growing up in a single-parent home.
08:43 🚹 Men often cheat to chase an emotional and psychological feeling they lack in their current relationship, not just for sexual reasons. This can include feeling seen, desired, or valued.
09:40 🎯 Escorts and sugar babies are aware of their leverage over married men, exploiting their low self-esteem and desire for validation. This dynamic is less effective with single men who have more romantic attention.

[dntwantgglplus]

In this video I learned that it's my fault if I get cheated on, and that I can't ever forgive her even if she asks me to.

[DeadlyPlatypus]

Women can unilaterally destroy a relationship by cheating, getting their husband to forgive them, then disrespecting him AGAIN by hating that he forgave her, then play victim because SHE feels "abused."

If a woman wants to cheat, she will and it will destroy your relationship no matter what you do, but it will still be considered YOUR fault.

[bobcharles]

Not sure about all this. Blaming the person cheated on kinda rubs me like people saying 'you asked for it by the way you dressed'. And with modern communication methods cheaters can get away with things they couldn't in the past much easier. Also, I know people who spent a long time, even decades, in a marriage being completely faithful and then out of the blue cheated. Most recent one was a woman who had been married 22 years, 3 grown kids... soon as the nest was empty she was 'influenced' by new female acquaintances in her life that she needed to experience all the things she missed out on since she married young and had never slept around. Up until that point she had never considered cheating. Now husband has divorced her, kids have disowned her, and she is alone and struggling (not so much financially, she has a decent career). She blames the influence of those new friends, and honestly I can kind of believe it. Females are known to be much more easily influenced by marketing, propaganda, etc than men. But to blame the husband in that case is just so over the top.
I originally watched the full podcast with this guest and thought she was amazing, but as I have seen more and more clips and reviewed them I am not so sure of my original assessment.

[karljuhnke]

When my ex cheated on ne she wanted me to be angry and jealous. I wasn't. It was the best thing to happen to me and when she asked me to take her back I was correct in saying i will always be happy and you will never be. And so it was.

[alaindesforges]

Very refreshing to see her perspective on a man accepting a woman cheater actually diminishes her interest levels in him afterwards. I would also add that if she knew, undoubtedly, that he would leave her without hesitation if she cheated, he would present more of a challenge, and she would be less tempted to want to stray in the first place. She said it herself, women want Alpha traits, whether they want to admit it or not. Confidence, self-control and challenge. Another superbly interesting interview.

[PhilAlumb]

Fool me Once, Shame on You. Fool me Twice..Shame on Me.

[Mrs.T-yf]

Omg, now I understand why, as a female, growing up in that manner that she mentioned. I always had a backup guy around for me to run to when my relationships would turn south and not work out or go bad. It was so I always had that reassurance that I'd never be alone and always have a partner ready and waiting at my beckon call. Thank you for sharing and helping me understand myself and relationships on a whole new level. I appreciate you a lot and keep up the awesome work 👏

[__WJK__]

Another reality about cheaters that nobody ever mentions, is how cheaters totally "want to have thier cake and eat it too" which is wayyy more psychologically telling of the cheater, than the cheatee. I think it's pretty infuriating when people blame the "cheatee" for the "cheaters" cheating...point being...if a person is so unhappy in a relationship, then why not just "man-the-hell-up" or "woman-the-hell-up" and leave vs stay and cheat AND distgustingly spread one's bodily fluids back and forth between three (or more) people(!?)

[veesvoyages]

I agree with a lot of what's being said as someone who has been cheated on/had friends who have cheated and been cheated on and had her parent's marriage fall apart due to cheating from my dad's side. One thing my mam said which I think rings true with both men and women is that 'people are going to do what they want to do'. I don't always think someone is at fault for why the cheating happened or that there should be an excuse for why the cheating happened. I believe if people are going to cheat if it's in their nature then they will regardless. Some people just don't have that moral compass. Especially in this day and age with social media etc. there's so much temptation everywhere and its down to people themselves to not be sucked in by it but unfortunately a lot of people are and weak minded imo. I think there's far too many avenues and ways people can cheat. It's sad but its become almost refreshing these days to find someone who does remain loyal and faithful when that shouldn't be the case

[-glitch-]

I disagree with her on this one. Especially her point about male cheating vs female cheating. The reason behind the cheating is irrelevant. The action is what matters at the end of the day. She's heavily underplaying what it does to a woman when her husband cheats on her. That woman will feel ugly, worthless, lose trust, etc. He'll compare his wife to his mistress. Belittle her. The children lose respect for their father. Fall into issues of their own.

I also found it absolutely disgusting that she insisted on "trying" the things he did with his mistress. Like WOW. Thats mad disrespectful. Even if they stay together, that marriage is filled with rage, contempt, distrust, and broken promises. However, most people focus on two things. A. Attraction B. Money. But these things will not be enough to keep that marriage. The moral decay will rip that marriage from within. It might not be today, tomorrow, 3 year from now, even 10 years, but it will eventually take its toll. Nevermind, all the arguing, fighting, added affairs, unwanted pregnancies, disease, etc that will occur from it.

On a personal note, this is why I think someone should not get married until they're content with being alone. Marriage is not about constantly getting pampered and showered with affection. I really dislike it when females downplay how the morality of a father is so important to the family.

[jeanvaljean]

I highly recommend having Esther Perel on. And anyone watching this to go look her up. She has a much deeper, more nuanced and broader look on this complicated subject (why even happy people in marriages cheat, why not everyone who's unhappy cheats, etc).

[socialnetworking]

I don’t agree with this. It ignores gaslighting and it says that it’s easy to read someone or see through lies. Like dude, have you ever been lied to and had no idea?

[KRW]

I’ve seen people touting family values and the importance of fidelity who still cheated. People claiming they value honesty and trust who will lie and betray at the drop of a hat. People don’t always tell you who they are.

All people are capable of cheating under the right circumstances. Some are more likely to be philanderers, and others chose not to cheat even if they might want to.

Cheating may be a destructive behavior, but it’s not abnormal. The longer I live, the more I’m convinced that monogamy is more productive than it is natural for humans.

[CLA]

She’s absolutely correct. People allow vultures in, turn a blind eye—and then despair and agonize over betrayal. The writing is always on the wall, people just shut off their brains and called it kindness.

[tingler]

She ignored the gun of the state keeping men in the marriages with no fault Device

[garbonomics]

“It’s your fault. Especially if you’re a man.” Tel me that isn’t biased and fanciful.

[Sanakudou]

What is with all these nobodies acting like psychology and sociology experts. It’s laughably absurd that she really thinks her made up assertions about human behaviour hold any correlation to the academic/medical research on human psychology.

Her victim blaming remark about people who get cheated on is completely unfounded and omits the multifaceted reasons someone can become a victim to cheating as well as the various motivations behind someone who chooses to cheat.

Also, if she had any intellectual integrity she’d be consist in the application of her victim blaming narrative, such as it also being the fault of the domestic violence and murder victims that they suffered these fates; they deserve it because they should’ve known better 😀

Seriously, these kind of opinions form as a result of an individual having massive knowledge gap (that if filled, would give them an authoritative data backed answer) which gets compounded with a hubristic belief in the superiority of their own “intelligence”, so much so they never actually try to bridge that knowledge, they just make things up.

It’s also a disappointment that this channel has so many grifter gurus as guests and the host never challenges the integrity of a “fact” their guest says. They just let the guests blather out unfiltered nonsense.