Why Messing with a Quiet Super Empath is a Very Big Mistake | NPD | Healing | Empaths Refuge

Why Messing with a Quiet Super Empath is a Very Big Mistake | NPD | Healing | Empaths Refuge

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Have you ever been in a situation where you just didn't understand where someone was coming from? Maybe you couldn't relate to their emotions or perspective, and as a result, you struggled to connect with them. It can be tough to navigate complex social situations, but that's where empathy comes in.

Empathy is a crucial component of emotional intelligence - it's the ability to not only feel what others feel, but also to truly understand their point of view. When we practice empathy, we can soothe a friend who's going through a tough time, or resolve conflicts with coworkers by truly listening and understanding their needs.

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[adrianoyorkshire]

I can quickly get rid of any signs of affection if I sense people's intentions are mean.

[lpsglitterpaws]

I am not only a super empath but also an INFJ. I am so comfortable with my own company and can easily cut off any contact with toxic people. I don’t like arguing with people as I find it easier to walk away and leave it behind. The crazy thing is that I can actually let things go without being bitter or angry. I feel blessed to have this superpower ❤

[annesmith]

I’m known for my directness. I can definitely see people’s true characters instantly and i quickly cut off those who cross my boundaries repeatedly.

[mariep]

Pretty much describe me. That’s exactly how I think. But I’m getting tired I’m getting of dealing with so many control, freaks and nasty manipulative people all the time.

[rileyhoffman]

Walk away. Honor yourself and just walk away. You won't change an abuser.

[africanbeauty]

When I tell them upfront how I am if you hurt me it won’t be good they never believe me so it’s on them

[panamacitybeachbum]

If you are gifted with discernment, people can't hide what is inside of them from you. Took me years to understand this gift I have.

[theideaplace]

That is so true... we let people have their way with us to a point then when we realize the true nature of the situation... w/o a word we are able to put them on their knees ... this was more true when they were hurting my daughter... I watched people be so cruel then at a point they got their just revenge much to their surprise... We never set out to hurt anyone but tolerate so much..probably too much... then we set things in motion so they experience our wrath... By merely telling the proper people what's been going I was able to get a mean cruel coach fired who was tormenting my child... and in another situation a child that was attacking my child at a different gym.. even invited everyone on the team to here birthday party in front of my daughter but excluded her after we had invited her and the whole team to my daughters party (I would never hurt a child like that ever)... didn't even say anything then... but a couple years later after yet another incident I'd had enough and called the gym owner.. he was livid at what had been going on as he really liked my daughter... He told the coach if there was anymore incidents with this child she would be kicked off the team which her mother very much wanted here on... well it didn't take long and she was kicked off... Not sure if the mother even knew what hit her as I never discussed it with her as it was just who she was... mean to the core. I mean who does that to a sweet innocent 9 yr old??? I'm always shocked at how cruel people are today... it was nothing like this when I was young... people were much kinder.. but we didn't have the vile influence of so much entertainment and over the top music back then...

[evetko]

I never knew there was a name to my way of being.

The quiet, resilient one who comes across calmly and confidently but underneath them there calm waters is someone with a backbone!

I was once told I had a high IQ in the nonverbal language because upon entering a room I can sense, see, and pickup the unspoken dynamics between folks.

It's second nature to pay attention to things that goes over the heads of others.

Being stoic really helps situations that prevents me from showing my cards and keeps people wondering and hoping what they said or did would harm me but when they don't get a 'reaction', it's a clear boundary no one has control over my emotions but me when I refuse to play into narcissists' games.

[percubit]

I am done with being marginalized and pushed to the side

[maggietroisi]

👍 yup! That is me fully to tee 😁, ❤i always try to tell my husband about people and what will happen on how people are and im always rigjt about the gut feelings that i have, hed always amazed when i say wasnt i right, when are you going to not jyst here me, but listen to what im saying 😮, its not that i want to be right, i tell him all the time i have a gift of being an empath i can feel energies from people and scence things when i walk into a home or place, or a crowd of people, i even scar my self sometimes 😮it can be a gift and a curse at the same time 😊, i also have a gift of desernment, that with being an empath can really take alot out of you sometimes, thats why i relish my time alone so i can renergize my self away from people 😊, i can also see auras, different lights around peoples heads, especially evil .😮😮😮😮😅😊so sometimes life 🙏 is to interesting, i dont like drama, i avoid that at all costs, and i dont like to be noticed 😊good luck and many blessings 😁 out there, i alwsys look to Jesus 🙏❣️😊

[vickiroadman]

As an INFJ I am drawn to helping people. When faced with a hostile narcissist in full rage, disrespect, and gross overstepping of boundaries, I "door slam"....I leave without harsh words or simply gone....

[lauries]

Me to a tea. Thank you for summing me up!

[caroleyre]

Thankyou yes this is definitely me …I’ve always been the quiet Observer…until it comes to it lol. God Bless Ya All. 💙🦢💙

[SandraMuller-vsck]

This is a learning curve to be manifested in my daily living. Thanks so much for this educational subject. God bless. ❤

[madhatter]

this is me, although my kids thinks I'm gullible, they underestimate me

[ritaspeelman]

The modern ... alchemist, with the power of Love ❤️ and the forces of our Lights 🌹🙏✨️

[georginafronda]

I deal with it by having a firm chat and setting the record straight calmly then cut.. exhale and onwards

[jenniferfriesen]

These are all true, when you’re not dealing with a narcissist.

[michellebeishline]

As a super empath, 'I' never take revenge and, will never with malace an intent hurt others. They will hurt themselves with their own truths that 'I' will expose and reveal. It is also not a passive aggressive thing either; it is not like I am waiting and plotting and scheming. They bri g it upon themselves in their own timing.

I have rarely raised my voice at others or yelled at people. The few times I have, I was pushed way beyond limits. I also don't say things I regret. I am a very controlled individual and have self-regulation in the heaviest and most heated moments, including my own moment. Even if I have stress or turmoil within myself, I never take it out on others. To me, I see doing that as a weakness.

I have been accused of being a pushover or letting people walk on me, but most assuredly am no pushover. It is a strength to not "loose it" on people. It is a strength to not be revengeful. Oh, trust me, I could do significant damage IF I wanted to. I could manipulate like the best manipulators if I chose to. It is a power you dare not exercise. It is just too easy and is flat out wrong to do.

Being a super empath takes a toll on you, eventually your health. It is as much of a blessing as it is a curse. You have to learn how to 'be' an empath - live in your own skin, differentiate other's energy from your own, and not absorb everyone else's energy, and how to read and deflect narcissists (they are drawn to empaths like moths to a light)... wherever you go.

When you become good at detecting narc, words aren't even needed. Squared, intentful, unwavering eye contact without breaking until the narcs break eye contact. Have a firm strong jaw slightly jetted out chin, with eye lids ever so slightly lowered (no wide-eyes) when looking directly into their eyes and soul with quiet calm confidence and no fear. Breathe slowly. You will literally see them squirm and skirmish away... no words needed. They will avoid you like The Plague because they can't stand feeling transparent.

My advice learn about being an empath - what kind you are and how to delineate yours and other's energies. Learn about narcissists and all of their tactics.

God bless!