How to Exit Your “Lazy” Girl Era & Change Your Life | You're Not Lazy or Unmotivated

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Hey Girls!
Welcome to another girl, let's talk. Happy October 1st, I hope September was a good month for you all. I didnt plan on making this video this week but it's something I felt like I needed to get out so I hope it reaches all the right people. There's not that much time until 2024 and I want you guys to go into the new yeart with the confidence that comes along with doing the things you said you would do. I've struggled with consistency for a long time and I'm sure it's something a lot of us struggle with. The way I overcame it is something I've never heard anyone talk about and I felt the need to sit down and share it with you guys, hope it helps. Love you all! ✨🧚🏽‍♂️

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♡ Contents Of Video ♡
00:00 - Intro
01:43 - The Reason Behind “Starting Over”
07:42 - The Very First step - Build Your Vision
10:26 - Build Your Vision - Pick 4 Areas to Focus On
11:32 - Build Your Vision - Scripting
14:09 - Build Your Vision - Goal Setting Method
16:00 - Build Your Vision - Monthly Reflection & Vision Boards
18:37 - Become Stubborn & Make Your Vision Attractive
21:18 - What To Do When you Want To Give Up Again
21:31 - Step 1: Don't Let Yourself Drown In That Moment
23:44 - Step 2: Remind Yourself of Your Vision
24:16 - Step 3: Remind Yourself of Your Anti-Vision
24:45 - Step 4: Build an Environment
25:54 - Hold Yourself Accountable
26:41 - Stop Trying To Do More Than Your Supposed To
27:43 - Outro

♡ Bahja Abdi

[cutekisses]

"You are nothing less than the other person who is able to do it." 🥺❤

[aminataka]

Honestly you know when they say God sends people in your life for a reason, I feel like God put you on my fyp for a reason 💖 the way I sat down with my journal taking notes, all I can really say is Thank you 💝❤

[safiyyahmussa]

May Allah reward you immensely for helping me and the community- thank you, you are an angel. I am a law student and I really needed this

[vnzfctv]

Wow it’s December 17th and I’m seeing this and it resonates with me. I keep dragging my feet to get things done. I’m so close to the end and then I get lazy and tired. This video was meant for me.

[SignedByAissatou]

This video came at the perfect time. Lately I’ve been following something called the 12 week year and it’s helped me achieve a major goal. Looking at your big goals and turning them into smaller goals definitely helps and focusing on a few things at a time. You honestly don’t need to wait until the new year to start. I think a lot of us fall victim to saying we’ll start “tomorrow.” Start today!

[artinsoul.]

I keep nodding for every point she talks, , as a 17 yr old feeling like I was losing again, , I needed this, thankyou, ,

[user.djwiqcnr]

I’m a woman and straight. Girl. I’m mesmerized by your beauty 😮 Wow

[Sihaamofficial-zckw]

Watching this on 28th APril done nothing this month I'm feeling defeated but i don wanna give up this . As a candidate i need to hear this . I believe this is my year . Wish luck

[mango]

I got that same feeling when starting out with the gym. Every single time before going in, so many negative thoughts tried to make me turn around and go home. However, I decided to keep going regardless and now it's part of my routine

[Shirl]

There's a Rumi poem that embodies what I hear you saying about feelings at 6:26 -

“This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
As an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still treat each guest honourably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.”

[beyouthfullyyou]

I'm just binge watching my sweet Bhaja! I am at work going through all of of this Playlist because THIS is that year that we move the needle and change the record. Thank you love for just being you!❤

[hanaeazougagh]

I literally set this video at speed 1.75. I have a test week in 3 days and I really have to work hard now. This video is literally all the information I learned last school year and this school year with the guidance I receive through school. I really appreciate this video, especially when I am at home and my supervisor cannot remind me to do my best (after years of working too hard i got into a burnout and lost most of my dicipline so i am trying to gain that back now. Also, i am in my last year of school before going to college so this is litterally my last chance of getting my diploma because this is my third last schoolyear (first last year i was burned out so i stopped certain subjects, second last year I tried working hard again but still failed exam because of procrastination as usual and now this is my last year and i am in my first period ). thank you a lot🌸🌸🌸

[mishawnroberts]

This is exactly what I needed. I appreciate you for this!

[medzahra]

I am a young muslim ambitious so it is really a blessing to discover you and your teaching meant alot thank you keep going the good work love you

[zii]

Your are honestly one of the best people i love to watch when i need that lil push!!

[justicehorne]

You just blessed me in so many ways. As a Virgo, I just love how you organized this. Everything feels so clear now.

[Itssimplyaisha]

You’re makeup is on point every.single.Time😍🔥🔥

[Itssimplyaisha]

You are a blessing in our life💗 what I want right now is literally just financial freedom

[Ka-gqli]

I was feeling so unmotivated and was so disappointed in myself this past month because i just finished hs and uni classes in our country hasn’t started and I’m always lying in bed and watching tiktoks everyday which i lost interests too because i knew this wasn’t me and this days i was trying to motivate my self and work on myself and get closer to my religion too but i lose motivation easily and today i was so tired of going from apps to apps so i opened youtube and I found your video and for some reason i never take videos like this seriously but when i was your video I literally just brought my journal and started writing what you saying and I’m one pf this people who don’t have vision or don’t know what to do in life and what there purpose is but i feel like this vid helped me alot and I wanted to thank you🩷 i hope you live long beautiful and happy life🫶🏼

[edenisabella]

this is the most beautiful, comprehensive approach to manifestation, introspection, goal setting, mindful living, and overall choosing a better life and greater presence i have ever seen. thank you so so much for your work, i now have a framework for moving forward after floundering for so long. thank you so so much!! 💕