HowThe Narcissist Uses Kids For Triangulation

HowThe Narcissist Uses Kids For Triangulation Is just about making you feel pain. They think everything is a competition including taking the kids from the person who truly Loves them. Amen

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[BBB-rdqi]

The children being triangulated is absolutely the worst part of being divorced from a Narcissist!
My children went through hell because I was a good Mom... Because, of course, that meant he was bad. My children couldn’t talk about me at all.
He also fought me in Court to not pay Child Support, spousal support... He wanted me poor so I couldn’t buy food.
He was so wrong! My children are now 18 & 17 They have an enormous amount of emotional work to do, but they are not material... And that just kills him!!
My kiddos would rather sleep on my sofa and eat bread/water in order to have an emotionally safe environment.

[janiegibbons]

Luke 8 :17..Everything will be brought out in the open. God is for us!

[theparanormalcat]

My ex drained me physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially and then took our children away from me and will only let me see them for 6 hours once a month. I thought that I was literally going to die from heart ache. I've never known such pain. I pray that one day things will change but until then I will continue to bring them to Church once a month and try to teach them about God and Jesus and the Holy Spirit. My ex does indeed have physical custody of our children but God has custody of their souls.... I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over them every day! This experience has only drawn me closer to my Lord and I offer all my pain to be united with Jesus on the cross. This is the only way I can make sense of my situation. I even pray for my ex and his new wife. God commands us to pray for our enemies so I do. I never stop missing them and the pain of being apart from them never goes away but I am getting better. This is gonna sound crazy but if I let this destroy me that would be a sin. No one comes before God...not even my own children. So I pray and work and garden and live a peaceful life. I haven't slept with anyone but him we were married more than 20 years and and it's been 7 years since our divorce.If anyone in the chat is going through this just know you are not alone. God is with you!💜💚💛

[tenderheart]

Fortunately, I was granted sole custody of our children. I represented myself in Court, after I went to the Courts of Heaven. He kept saying: " What are you thinking, going against my lawyer?" I responded..."What is your lawyer thinking? Doesnt he know that teachers document up the wazoo?" God posted angels around me that day. All I felt was peace.

[jilll]

It’s all about winning. My narc/sociopath didn’t pay
Child support three times and each time he filed for custody. He didn’t win custody. The final time was substantial money. He tells the kids I just paid your mother a lot of money so ask her for whatever you want. He didn’t pay me. It was eventually legally taken from his bank account. My son knows who his dad is and has told me. My daughter knows deep down but plays the game.

For those out there just going through this difficult situation. It will be ok. But you have to do your part.
No 1 Excercise. It will level your emotions, calm you and empower you. 2. Read the Bible, this is no 2 because you need to be level headed. 3. Journal writing( notebooks are .25 right now). 4. Talk to trusted friend. 4. No dating, no alcohol, drugs, anything in excess. 5. Set small goals. 6. Only communicate with x if absolute emergency. Love yourself and take very good care of yourself.
Make your home a safe haven for your kids.
This one is tough. Don’t talk about their dad. If they say something about them listen and acknowledge what they say. Be cautious of getting caught up in drama. Children learn to work both parents if they can to get what they want. This is not good. You need to get happy for you kids sake. They want to be around a happy person. Recognize the spots on a leopard don’t change. Just their tactics. Don’t fall for them. Get healthy and whole. When you feel good life is pretty good.

[randallbrinkman]

Nothing we have done can prove to the narcissist we care . We lived with them, had children with them, but truth they live to avoid reality, while we are left trying to make sense out of their chaos . For them its about power, controlling the narrative, love, empathy, vulnerability is in their mind weak . A opportunity to punish, is to attractive for them to pass up, the little short sadistic rush, of power, is worth it to them .

[randiarchuleta]

My narc ex filed for custody the week after my partner killed him self. He doesn’t pay child support and we were in court last year when I discovered he knowingly had a convicted rapist living with him and staying alone with our daughter. This court is all about retaliation. He thought he would win if he struck when tragedy had me by the neck. I have no savings left fighting this.
Our GAL has seen through his bs and is recommending our daughter stay where she is.
He manipulates our daughter so hard she cries. She’s so afraid to talk to him it breaks my heart. I’m praying he will leave us all alone and move onto manipulating the next person. Dear God and karma please move swiftly on the Narcs and deliver justice.
Please hold these good parents and help them to stay strong in their fight for what is right!

[damonpurdypresents..]

They will reap what they sow...God sees everything. Be the best you can when you see the kids... they'll figure everything out. God bless Dave!😎✌🏿

[tatucorreia]

It's so sad to see beautiful bright joyful innocent beings being used and emotionally abused by giant dysfunctional children is so sad....

[IamDruidess]

My narc mother used to do this and still tries! She used my brother and I to hurt my father and make herself look good. We saw her behaviour for what it was by the time we were both 21. We keep her at a distance. To anybody going through this...KIDS GROW UP AND THEY FIGURE EVERYTHING OUT. The narc parent ends up ALONE!

[bradentheoddplusher]

Hardest part is seeing the kid feel loved and excited the other parent cares about them finally....we as the loving parent have to just suck it up and support our kids. We can’t mouth the other parent, as the narc does us. It’s a horrific situation to endure.

[East_L.A_Ivy]

Everything is a GAME with these sick twisted demons!

[monathbachelor]

I am going through this exact situation. My Lord is fighting on my behalf, I keep praying for her and my kids and currently can't even see my kids. But God will not be fooled...He cares for my kids and He will protect their souls.

[gyamagya]

My ex narc got the new supply pregnant.. poor thing.. she doesn't know what is waiting for her... And that innocent and blameless child will suffer because of him... Hope to see the red flags and stay away from him... divorce or smth.. is better to be fatherless than to have a narcissistic father.. i say this from my own experience ( he made my childhood a horrible memory to have, i had to do therapy to heal those wounds, he made my teenage years a hardship painful journey... )

[faithcooke]

I was so confused and abused for 20+ years, when I finally saw how horrible his actions were affecting our kids, I tried to talk to him about all of it. He ran, he planned a discard like none other, he had cars, house, people all lined up and took the boys, I’m still being slandered and the boys are his prey. I’m broken hearted.

[rainingpatchouli]

I’ve left my narc, he has our daughter for the weekend.He had her FaceTime me and kept putting himself between she and I. Finally I ask where they’re camping at, and he tell me Tennessee!! We live in Florida. I wasn’t surprised thanks to your channel👍 peace, Love and Light. I see his “amazing weekend Dad” is starting up fast, we never went camping!👀

[isabelliste]

Yes, totally agree. They are the dark and disgusting side of the humanity.  In fact, they should not be considered human, rather, robots. Nice weekend!.

[pattiaden]

He's tried on numerous occasions to turn our boys against me but they have years of memories of what has transpired between Mom and Dad.
I left him nearly a year ago and I got full encouragement from both my boys and they are very supportive of me.

[nessaheart]

Such an excellent message and true. Continue to spread the word through the community. Thanks 🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[traceydearden]

Kids are amazingly bright. They know what's going on and smarter than some adults. They do grow up too so the abuse can't go on forever