He Says He Just Wants to Hookup – What Should I Do?

What do you do when the guy you’re dating and have fallen for tells you he just wants to hookup occasionally?

Beautiful Janine is going through this right now; her boyfriend says he can't offer more than a hookup once in a while. She’s trying to decide whether to get out now or to accept the terms of a guy she's in love with who says he can only give her occasional hookups.

I know what I think she should do and I'm sharing it with you so you can know too!

Watch the video for her story, along with my response.

After watching, share your thoughts, feelings, and stories in the comments below the video!

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[roz]

Run now. This is a recipe for heartbreak. No holidays together, no support when something happens in your life, no meeting the family he cares for., etc. You deserve so much more.

[stephhelms]

I've been in this. It's not worth it. Love yourself first, Value yourself more and set your boundaries. Know that what you put out there and accept is what you will get in return. The right one will rise to the challenge & make YOU a priority if he's your guy. Love & Light and healing to anyone who is struggling to know their value & worth. You are worth the love you seek & deserve! Settling for less than you deserve & want it a discredit to you. 😉❤

[araceligarcia]

I agree 1000% with what you said. If she can truly accept what he's offering, go for it, if you think you can change his mind, get out NOW.
Luv you, be safe, be smart, remember to love yourself first.

[SusieQ]

Every single man who has treated me like a hook up never changed, it never went from casual to serious. They either were all in very soon or they were only casual. These kind of men are either emotionally unavailable or just not that into you but attracted enough for sex. I'll never let any guy treat me like a FWB or booty call again. It's not love and never will be and when you accept this nonsense they are guaranteed to either already have another woman they love or they're going to continue to shop around while just using you for sex.

[mandy]

Yes I have and I accepted it and had my heart broken. He gave me less and less and even stopped being charming and nice and cute

[AdrienneMint]

Since you asked, I have never been in a relationship where the guy told me in advance that he can’t offer me more than a once a month hookup. If a guy ever told me that, I would RUN!

[sophiealvarez]

Im presently experiencing this right now.

[tuesdayewilliams]

I think if that's not what you're willing to accept going forward, there's no use accepting this type of arrangement. Maybe for a little while you'll be okay with it because you're Willing to accept the terms to be with him, but because of your intentions to try to change his mind to your intentions it will ultimately be dissatisisfying for you. I wish that my circumstances would've been the man telling me up front instead his intentions were to lead me on. It should be appreciated when a man/woman tells you in the beginning their intentions so that you have a choice in the matter, may not be what you want to hear but it sure can be respected (save yourself the grief that comes with denial).

[helenhunt]

I'm right there now. Only when it's convenient for him. He has an x wife and grown kids who get more time then I do even though he says he loves me and loves everything about me.
I feel so lost most of the time

[sandrabarr]

I am currently in the same situation. He is my high school crush, but we only hook up when it I'd convenient for him. I have been holding on in hopes that he will give me a chance. Should I walk away defeated or hold on to a dream. Remind you we have known each other for 35 years.

[paulafissler]

I can really relate, but I also knew he wasn't all in. Part of me, I held back, and he saw I was on the dating site. Apparently, he was more angry and disappeared when he found out.. I found out what he was ..

[LoscoX]

Question:
He Says He Just Wants to Hookup – What Should I Do?

Answer:
Just enjoy the sex experience and if you're searching for a serious relationship in the meanwhile looking up for another person really available for that.

Easy.

[Jkl]

Unfortunately most woman get attached after the deed.. even if he’s just meh 🫤 lol 😂 get some batteries n live your life without the headache