Love Bombing from the perspective of a narcissist.

[Connorscarlos]

The narcissist I was seeing kept praising my appearance so much and would not talk about my other attributes other than my physical appearance and my body, that’s when I knew he saw me as a prize he won rather than someone he was actually interested in.

[brendaleverick]

I love when a narcissist explains narcissism. The good thing about narcissists is that they DO give you what you want, need, dream of at first. They are the ultimate romantic partner; and they never leave you. They just start cheating, devaluing, and acting like a controlling, dominating, irritating asshole. (I have a Narc in my life, so I can say this.)

[luvroxie]

That’s why if you are self aware…you don’t chase a narcissist, you ignore them. Giving some of their own medicine..✅

[strugglingmillennial]

I remember the Narc looking at me like he just won the lottery. It was very unsettling.

[sunnilightfoot]

I cried my eyes out over a narcissist and didn’t even know it

[geraldfriend]

Good man.I am also a self aware narc working it out.Someone told me that if you are self aware enough to call yourself a narc, you are not a narc.That makes zero sense.Thank you again.

[jackmcminn]

I have trouble believing a true narcissist would admit being a narcissist

[sadist]

as someone with antisocial personality disorder, I’m glad someone talks about personality disorder that ACTUALLY has it. The stereotypes sometimes are ridiculous and mental illnesses are thrown around like it’s nothing or like they know how it is. Every person that is a bit sadistic is a psychopath and you’re a narcissist when you chose yourself over others even if it’s for 1 time. (not talking about everyone, because your traumatic experiences are valid, but I’m talking about people that say things like that because they did 1 thing that has nothing to do with narcissism or whatever)

[VanessaHernandez-jlqy]

Complete accurate, I am in the middle of a Divorce with a narcissist. At the beginning it was all love and complete obsession. We moved very fast and we marry very fast. Now I’m not longer his supply and I’m addicted to his old ways.

[WHVids]

Love bombing from a narcissist has nothing to do with them loving you. It’s all a tactic to get you hooked. It’s their insecurity that fuels the love bombing. They just want to get you to stay. And then once they are sure you are hooked, they start to tear you apart. They never really cared about you, they are obsessed with you. Two different things.

[Irishjay-gupb]

I just wanted to give it up to this guy for speaking his truth, and helping others learn from his mistakes/issues. I've watched a bunch of his videos, and they are great! It's been very educational hearing his points of view. I really appreciate his videos! THANK YOU!!!💓

[karmagal]

You are laser accurate. The time frame may differ from person to person, but the process itself is a bullseye.

[catlove]

Very strong person who acnowledge this in themselves and not scared to talk about it. Bc this is real and so many people has it. If u have low selfasteem and are kind only then you will see. Very nice and kind of u too share the truth 💖 so many people get hurt inside by these people 😢

[neighbor]

I often see people dehumanizing folks with non-victimising disorders, like narcissism or psychopathy. So happy to see someone with this kind of disorder speaking for themselves. Hurting someone, purposefuly or not, is not an easy thing to admit, and changing to be better is even harder. This guy deserves mad respect for being open about it.

[alextaylor]

Great video. I was diagnosed BPD and had narcissistic traits. I chose to look at my disorder through the attachment theory lens because I was in a relationship and wanted to work it out - healing within the relationship not on my own. I don’t fit the criteria for BPD anymore and I’m so in control of my narc traits I definitely cannot be considered one anymore. Neuroplasticity is amazing. We can all become what we want to be if we work at it and are adequately educated. Thanks for showing this side of yourself. Helping break the stigma is vitally important.

[TitusStyles]

That's the best explanation that made the most sense to me ever on this subject. That's exactly what I do and never even realized it.

[WateverWatever]

my mom def had NPD for sure as well as PTSD from war, and ur channel helps me understand her better as I come into my adulthood even though she has passed. it helps me forgive her abuse, and helps me let go of my anger, so thank u 💕

[taylorchambers]

This makes SO much sense as to why the love was there in the beginning, then it wasn’t. I constantly craved it as time went, he told me nothing had changed, nothing was different, but it definitely was

[mifflinfinity]

This guy is confident as hell and has a charming personality. Maybe he can be self serving sometimes to an extreme but otherwise this self aware mode is pretty dope

[original_demonic]

I feel like this guy is one of the only thing giving hope to people who have disorders that are difficult to realise for the person. That’s the first step to stop the tendencies and stop hurting people :).