The Dangerous Allure of Love Bombing Explained!

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[saragates]

This should be taught in school to young adults.

[recoveringsoul]

The love bombing is also the beginning of isolation

[clairexxx]

And it's then a seesaw effect of give and then take away back and fourth to unbalance you emotionally

[ft]

Excellent description! This is why no matter how hard it is, you have to withdraw yourself when facing love bombing!

[janieescobar]

This just goes to show, that too much of anything, is really a bad thing....

[Tomara]

Strangers showering you with love is not normal.

[joyfulone]

The target often has abandonment issues further complicating the desire for the grooming and difficulty breaking away and staying away.

Especially if the love bombing is coming from family members trying to get back into your life.

Narcissism is like a cult.

[magicmegan]

They’re like giving what they want to get out of you so they’re investing in a supply. It’s almost like supply bombing because they’re not actually getting real love. Let’s rename it as supply bombing and it’s so addictive and feel so good and the narcissist knows that, and that’s the only thing they know how to receive and give.

[PeterShaw-neyq]

Leah Remini can talk about live bombing tactics used by cults and other mind melding techniques used by cults.

[Sweetcherry]

so far I've only been love bombed once and I didn't like it and I didn't trust it because when the man who did it, he didn't know me at all I mean he didn't even know my name and everytime he saw me he would shower me with all of these over the top compliments like if he had known me for years which he didn't, I make a point of staying away from that man

[stephaniecomboy]

Thank you! Yet again the penny dropped

[ClimbingUpThisLife]

He overwhelmed me with an obsessive like attention.. I did find it strange at first. However, I was vulnerable. We knew each other for a few years. He knew my circumstances. I was never interested in him. But the attention he gave me at the tim was comforting, and then it became addicting. I knew I had to end it. After, ending it. It was like I never existed to him. I was so broken about to a point I lost so much weight. I felt traumatized by it.. While driving, I couldn't even look in the direction where he lived and avoided driving past his neighborhood. I still don't to this day. I'd drive the long route home. I'm doing better now, though.

[shukriaapso]

Good point. Makes me wonder if cult leaders are narcissist that figure out how to get group/mass supply

[paulafuller]

Best explanation made me finally see the evil in it. Thanks

[Kathy-vvir]

Spot on. I had to tell one to stop putting my hand uo

[anngecelosky]

Great lecture, as usual. I guess the best hope for any relationship is based in deep friendship and boring realism. "Love bombing" sounds scary, to be honest. If someone is "there" for you, now that's something special. ☘️

[evelynwells-rked]

I feel like ive been living in an assimulation my whole life!

[Ocealei]

This is why when ppl come outta religious cults they attract narcs

[sawdustadikt]

Mind blown, love bombing is a form of trauma.

[lisabill]

Anyone on here can you confirm is this guilt tripping? if you leave to move to such and such place, it will devastate your grandad. If something happens to me grandad will need you then proceeded to talk about the granddaughter it was said to and the grandad what they can do with the loft and putting a granny annexe in the garden when the nan passes away.
When I confronted the nan, who is my family with what they said to another family member.
She said "I never." They fucking did, in a facetime. Something going on because I am being dragged in to it, defending the other family member and now they are all turning on me.
On top of that right now I feel like I have taken drugs everything looks weird. 😢