HOW A DUI CHANGED MY LIFE

I finally decided to tell my story about when I was arrested for a DUI (Driving Under the Influence). I was reluctant to share this story because I did not want everyone to know how much of a failure I was. Nonetheless, I am here to share my story with confidence. The reason I want to share my story with everyone is so that, hopefully I can paint a better picture and demonstrate that mistakes in life are not the end all be all. I was taught that mistakes are the best teachers in life, without mistakes we as humans would not be able to grow, and become stronger.
Hopefully by sharing my story with everyone, I can inspire or motivate an individual who feel like they have made a terrible mistake, or who feel like they have hit rock bottom. Hopefully i can motivate those individuals that those mistakes will only help and allow you to grow. The only will you will be able to move up in life is to accept what happened, learn from it and let it go. Move on with your life.
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[breeanasmith]

Wow. I really needed to hear this. I got a dui a month ago. I’m 23, college student and I work full time. I was with some “friends”. Crash my bm in the highway. Got arrested and I was locked up for 12 hours and those hours helped me realized so much. I don’t ever wanna see touch smell or taste alcohol I was disgusted with myself and my parents both very disappointed but instead of turning their back on me they’re being the most supportive souls and I appreciate them so much. I have my first court in a week and I just need to get up and keep moving

[jbarbertv]

I crash my bmw on January 23 I’m super lucky to be alive man still dealing with the dui but at least it stop me from drinking for good now everyone goin tru this just keep your head up

[wesleyhands]

Dope bro. Just watched this video after getting into an accident Sunday morning. I was leaving a friend house and was drinking that night and I just knew I messed up as soon as I sideswiped the other car. Thank god no one was hurt. The state police came and I was handcuffed and taken to jail. I only spent 30-40 min in the cell but I decided to get my life together in that moment. My parents were worried sick. They weren’t even mad or disappointed. Just worry in my moms face a relief when she seen me and heard my voice. I think that was God trying to get my attention. And he sure got it. Before the accident I kept sliding back into old habits with friends who were holding me back. I’m getting back to waking up earlier, reading more, praying everyday. Thank you for your video. God bless anyone who has made a terrible mistake. Sometimes it takes a crisis for god to get your attention and show you what he has planned for you is greater than what you were doing. Everything happens for a reason. Love you all.

[yadiracorral]

Thank you. I am 23 and I’ve gotten my first DUI two weekends ago. And you just inspired me to change. And thank you for that. It was a huge mistake and I’m actually really nervous on what will be said tomorrow morning in court. You lifted me a little, thank you. And to who ever reads this comment please wish me luck! 😫💗

[simonemorgan]

You are the sweetest soul! That police squad lost a good one! I’ve been listening to DUI stories all day because I’m being hard on myself for the one I got a year and a half ago. And I never heard a better more humble more inspirational story thank you

[luissalazar]

FYI! You should always get an attorney wether it’s a public or private one! There are so many possibilities to have your cases dropped, dismissed or even reduced! I’m surprised the amount of ppl just took the dui pleating guilty all because they didn’t want to spend money, didn’t care or had financial problems which is understandable! If you’re able to take the steps to fight your case DO IT! Your changes of having a positive outcome are always a plus!

[mariabottino]

I needed this so badly today. I'm 23 and just got a DUI three days ago. I was out of state, in my old college town, visiting some friends. I felt fine to drive, but got caught because my tail light was out. I was in jail for 7 hours and had suicidal thoughts for the first time in over three years. I just felt like a complete idiot. I'm a smart girl, have good friends, people that love me, and am working on my masters degree. I do not understand how I could be so stupid. I don't even think I want to stop drinking. I think it's my impulsivity that holds me back more than anything. I tend not to think about the consequences of my actions. I just want to get out of the "party girl" phase and into the real world where casual drinking and chasing my goals will satisfy me more than stupid decisions. I am just trying my hardest to feel strong and worthy of joy. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

[Mrdarkspade]

This is comforting. I’ve recently got arrested for a dui as well and I feel like the shittiest person ever right now. I’ve even been accepted for a deputy sheriff background process now I’m disappointed of seeing it go away. Appreciate your video and the hope for a light at the end of this tunnel. 🙏🏽

[devnash]

Omg well let me say this. I got my first dui last year on my birthday. I was out with “friends”. I actually wrecked into someone else. And I thank God to this day that they didn’t die bc I would be in prison today. But my mom was SUPER supportive of me. She told me “I don’t have to preach to you; I think you taught yourself a lesson”. Lol and I truly did. DUIs are a bitch and a half. But I have realized soooo much stuff since then. 1) you are about to find out who your REAL AND TRUE FRIENDS ARE!!! As for my situation; everyone; including the ones I got in trouble by driving them home; didn’t help me go to court dates, communication; NOTHING. So screw them and their lives.
2) It’s ok to still drink; this is a mistake so don’t beat yourself up into thinking you can never have fun again; just make smarter decisions for your damn self. Life’s a learning experience. 3) I paid $1500 for court fines, had to do a 8 week course which was almost $1k. I hate it but it could be way worse.
4) Do not let ANYONE BEAT YOU WITH YOUR OWN STORM. We all go through shit and you will see that when you move on from this mistake in your life; you will have people who will try to constantly remind you of your past. (Huge advice; get rid of them) bc those are the people that makes themselves feel good by making you feel bad. Tell me your feelings 1 time and drop it.
5) It’s going to suck for a while but keep your head up and do what you have to do. Bc life is wayyyy to short for the downgrades. But I hope this helps someone.

Ps Sergio. You are such a gorgeous guy lol no homo and blessings to you and your family

[gabyflores]

Thank you Sergio! I need to share this with my daughter who’s 22 and just got one over this past weekend. She’s a smart kid and has one more year to graduate from a cal state and is running a side business. I hope she is inspired by your video. 🙏🏻

[TheirsHopewithJesusChrist_]

Life goes on man. I honestly from the bottom of my heart wish nothing but the best for you man. I was in the US Army for 2 years and 8 months and did well in the Army. I was a great soldier but I partied all the time and I got a dui also. I really look at it as a blessing in disquise now from God. Maybe God didnt want me their and he has something better planned for me in my life. My DUI occured 3 years ago and I got honorably discharched september 21st 2017 thankfully by the grace of God. I have learned a lot from what happened with the dui and have had a lot of time to reflect. We all make mistakes in life and I feel like the main thing to keep in mind we have to keep going, learn from our mistakes and try to do better. Thank you for this video i really appreciate it man. Stay strong and dont lose hope. God bless man :)

[Angell_Lee]

Mad props for making this video, you're awesome!

[nubiadiaz-nepali]

Love this, Thank you Sergio ! I barley got my first DUI two days ago. I got accepted to the Peace Corps and im supposed to be leaving in May but my court date is in May. I am honestly scared for the future but I am strong believer that everything happens for a reason ! I am still going to work, about to graduate college in 3 months and well life goes on!
Thank you for the video !

[adamwolff]

Thank you so much for the reassurance. You’ve made my night so much better. Keep up the great work friend.

[zekeigtos]

Best advice I ever heard from an attorney was never talk to the police on the side of the road. Never admit to anything just refuse to answer questions. Give your id and ask if you're free to go.They are not there to make idle conversation with you or be your friend or let you off the hook they want to make an arrest.

[briannaquiroz]

Made me think of all the times in my life where I could've got one. Very scary looking back...I feel like a real idiot. Cheers to you, glad u r doing well .

[Shoshuten]

Thank you for sharing your story man! I got a DUI when I was 27. I was using alcohol to cope and it spiraled out of control. The DUI was a huge wake up call. It saved my life in way, because it made me realize how reckless and self destructive I was being. I'm still struggling 3 years later as a 30 year old. My family is not very wealthy so they can only help me so much. It's really difficult for me to get a good job because most will reject me when they see the DUI charge, and my only transportation right now is a bicycle. Building a good future of financial freedom for myself seems hopeless sometimes, but I refuse to give up. I just try to focus on one day at a time, and one step at a time. I exercise a lot and eat healthy. I'm doing my best and learning from my mistakes. It helps to know I'm not alone and that people have changed and recovered and dug themselves out of the hole they put themselves in. You don't truly lose until you give up!

[kirkkerfitdeglerjr.]

Major kudos to you for sharing this, as it's definitely helping others. As you said, life goes on, and all anyone can do is try to make the best of it!

[iceygivenz]

Getting a DUI is one of the most stressful things to deal with, but killing someone because of that action would have killed me for life. I got my DUI the day after drinking. What I didn't know was how long alcohol stay's in the body after a night of drinking. After a night of ripping up, I went to work the next day. I only had to work a half day so I was heading home and got pulled over. I was asked if I was drinking and I said not that day but the night before I did. He said he could smell it in the car (even though I showered and brushed my teeth earlier that morning and he asked if I would take a breathalyzer. I was so confident that I was okay that I didn't hesitate. Well, to my surprise I was over the limit even after 9 hours (yes we partied hard the night before). I never imagined that I would blow over and I was also 3 minute from home. The officer was my saviour because he even thought that I was going to pass, but he ended up being a DUI specialized officer and could not let me go, he even apologize to me; which made me feel even worse. Here is this officer apologizing to me for being a dumbass. While in the holding cell, every officer on duty came by to the cell to talk to me and reassure me my life was not over, seeing though my job was on the line if I was convicted. It took two years to go to trial and if the stars weren't in line for me, I don't know what happened. The first judge was who was super awesome; she gave me a while to get an attorney. Unfortunately, I couldn't find an affordable lawyer. She finally decided to set a trial date and I was going to defend myself. On the day of the trail I was dressed so well the clerks thought I was a lawyer. Everyone showed up; the arresting officer and a couple of officers that came to talk to me when I got arrested. They actually testified on my behalf and not to leave out the most important part out, the presiding judge was an old school mate of mine. They dropped the charge to a careless and a year probation with a breathalyzer in my car for a year. Honestly, I never knew the effects of drinking alcohol had the day after drinking and it amazes me how many people are driving intoxicated in the mornings. Since then I have vowed to be responsible and not overindulge. I am so sorry for anyone who has lost someone due to drinking and driving, especially the victims families. Although I was lucky, I am not gloating that I was let off. I take the leniency I was shown very seriously and appreciate that they believed I wouldn't be so stupid again and trust me I am not. Great video Sergio. I don't think you said how the trial turned out but I would love to know. Stay safe everyone. #MADD #drinkresponsibly

[sergiovillasenor]

I remember I got my DUI in 2019 💀💀 I had no support from parents because they were so disappointed and mad (they're traditional Mexican as well)
I remember taking Uber every day for work from Downey to Torrance, then I had AA, AP 😭 it was so frustrating and draining but I got it done and have been good since ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽