10 Simple Ways To Improve Your Networking Skills - How To Network With People Even If You're Shy!

When you ask people if they like networking events they usually cringe and start telling you how much they hate them, how awkward they feel, how tricky it is to start conversations with all these strangers and how false it all seems. Truth is, I used to be one of those networking events haters myself.

So what's changed? Why do I now enjoy going to events where I can meet new people who I might be able to collaborate with?

Well, in this video you'll discover the 10 networking strategies that have made me start enjoying networking with people, even though I used to hate networking more than anyone.

If you follow even just half of these strategies and use them at a networking event I am sure you'll start to enjoy it too.

And shyness or a fear of starting conversations with people will become a thing of the past!

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[crystalgreen]

Just watched 10 networking videos and this is definitely in the top two! Wow so much good information, sharing right now.

[MrP-tking]

go with a goal
take the first step
don't be negative
connect and move
give first and receive later
connect others
Mutual benefits and curiosity
balance the conversation
Keep moving
enjoy the process

[theranasaini]

No matter what career you are in, networking is a tool that drives success.

[radii]

- give give give
- presence when person talking
- listen more than you talk
- think long vs short term
- don’t not over commit
- be honest
- take action immediately
- only going to thing that excite you

[mohaglade]

first lesson : deal with your shyness it's either you take control or it takes control of your life surrendering to shyness means giving up on all the good opportunities and possibilities in your life, and most importantly your mind is blocked and not able to produce productive and interesting ideas

[eltonrichey]

Loved this so much I forced my entire team to watch during a lunch and learn. they liked ti so much they insisted I leave you a comment. Get video keep it up!

[tunefoolery]

Great video. My question is, how do you make new conversations or new connections with people while you're walking around the room and so many of them are in little groups that don't seem open to new people coming in? It's hard to break into these groups without feeling like you're intruding on a private conversation.

[CarolinSoldo]

This was a great video - I love how you addressed the mindset blocks around networking, and how you can overcome them by being determined to have fun! Awesome tips!

[shanecadden]

At the risk of being perceived as being negative, we must realistically consider that in authentic dialogue people do bond over actual concerns of injustice (poverty, domestic violence, workplace bullying, etc. as these and other serious issues can certainly arise depending upon the professionals interacting with), which may sound negative to some, but are absolutely not the same thing.

[ShrutiPednekar-xbeg]

Negativity is nothing but insecurity disguised! What a well-said statement it is. So true and awakening.

[Danceindreams]

So much good info. Thank you so much for helping an introverted new business owner to network effectively. When you have a plan like this it makes it less scary and more fun. I am really good at a lot of these but was always too shy to put them into play. Going to use this at my first event this week! Thank you again.

[reliablejohnmctighe]

Good advice! Being able to engage with people in networking group can massively increase the exposure to your business, while also being able to let you use your skills, talents and connections to help others in the group as well.



Also, the magic is in the follow-up and work done after the event, the meeting is just the starting point, not the destination.

[soulcology]

You’ve earned my follow as a new subscriber.. thank you for your time and energy, I’m going to a massive networking event downtown Tampa at the Hilton Hotel and I’m fairly new at this whole networking thing. I’m not really an introvert so I got most skills you mentioned under control.. but I also gained some more skills through the tips you presented. I want to start my own YouTube channel soon geared towards physical & mental health.. I’m not a formal professional in either subject but I’ve earned enough life experience points to be a professional in my own right.
I look forward to more videos like this ..
Sincerely, ArayaHope

[sherrikayaks]

What are your suggestions for "finding ways to enjoy the process?" That's what I find to be the most difficult.

[mr_gem]

Just started class on networking, and this video is ganna do me real good.

[PeterBeckenham]

Hi Stephan. My name is Peter Beckenham and I just wanted to congratulate you on this awesome video about how best to improve your networking skills. One of the very best I have had the privilege to watch. Many thanks

[Natsumereal]

Thank you! i was confused how to grow my network and yeah damn I should joins many events (after corona ends ofc)

[nadichad]

I had been struggling with this concept on my own channel! Now thanks to your explanation, I’m going to implement it right away and make a video about it. Glad I subscribed to you

[Manifinesser_]

Set a clear goal
Healthy mindset
Initiate
Remain positive
Growth zone (network with others even if you are already comfortable)
Give first, receive later
Connect others
Be curious; focus on mutual benefit
Conversation balance (allow others to speak)
Keep moving (*eye contact* move to speak to others)
Enjoy the process (have fun ! 🥰🧡🎉)

[TheDayWeekend]

Great advice about not sticking with the conversation you're comfortable with at an event - get out of your comfort zone and do what it says on the tin - network. Plus, the giving mindset is absolutely essential to becoming a networking Yoda!