7 Signs God is Showing You Someone is a Covert Narcissist - Day 7

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Day 1: How to Deal with a Manipulative Mother - Biblically
Day 2: How to Not Let Toxic Family Drain You
Day 3: 7 Gaslighting Phrases Manipulators Use to Control You.
Day 4: When You Go 'No-Contact', Others May React This Way
Day 5: Overcoming Toxic Thoughts that Run in your Family
Day 6: Setting Boundaries with Toxic Family
Day 7: 7 Signs of a Covert Narcissist
Day 8: 3 Ways to Disarm a Narcissist
Day 9: When Toxic Family Uses Special Occasions to Reconnect
Day 10: How a Covert Narcissist Controls You Through Disorientation
Day 11: 6 Signs You Need to Break Away from Toxic Family
Day 12: How a Narcissist Interprets Forgiveness

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[Kelleynolimit]

1) victim mentality
2) Critical/Cowardly
3) Lazy
4) Passive Aggressive
5) Defensive
6) Sensitive
7) Controlling

[richardjohanson]

Narcissistic Rage if you confront them...

[gracesanity]

Narcs...hate people who have self esteem, a voice and firm bounderies. Who know you are not my responsibility and not your Mother. They dont go near those types. So l am learning to be that type....and loving it.

[kristeandreatujague]

They NEVER take responsibility for what they do. Never. Also, they are incredible gaslighters.❤

[EmpoweredToBeMe]

Most people think you’re being critical if you call out a covert narcissist, because they’re so charming and “loveable “ in their sneaky way of controlling and manipulating.

[Jettingred]

I simply decided to take my power back. Go No Contact. Put all my belief in God and NEVER look back! My life is so MUCH happier. I knew my Narc for over 4 decades and it was so very draining and one sided. Now this Empath is walking a Blessed path and enjoying life like never before! TY Lord😘🙏🤗

[donna-colorado]

He always told me what I truly wanted to hear but never followed up with the actions to make it happen.

[terric]

The best way to break free from their spell, is to stop focusing on them, begin to look inward, seek God's council and focus on healing. Kris has designed courses to help. . I have learned to google bible versus on issues I am dealing with, so helpful in shifting my focus off of them and onto God.

[stacyboswell]

32yrs of this nonsense. He kept me so busy being the workhorse, that I was too preoccupied to confront inconsistencies. Of course, when I did confront it, I was mean & harsh...ugh. Died at 45 in a car wreck (was very reckless), then a whole double life was revealed. Our 2 daughters still show signs of problems from his ways. Our son found out pretty quickly, that his dad's ways, wouldn't work well in the real world...he found his way out of the damage

[oluchukwuokeke]

They are vengeful, envious, jealous, self-centered. I agree.

[corinne]

So happy more people are covering Covert Narcissism. It was not as known even 6 years ago. Very helpful.

[donna-colorado]

Best advise you can ever get, like Kris said, is to leave them in God's hands.

[happycat]

The best way to describe any narcissist is that they are exactly like a spoiled child inside an adult's body (which has very much to do with extremely poor parenting practices).

[SCSC-qzrr]

To me narcissists are evil people. They have demons inside of them. I worked for a narcissist woman who supposedly was a “Christian”. We became “friends” at work first. I had no idea about narcissists, I didn’t even know this type of people existed. She was all about “poor little me”… I am a person who gives, and likes to make people happy, so she was always talking about her, her mother died when she was young, she was alone, nobody paid attention to her, she bends over backwards for everyone, but no one appreciates her, etc. I had made a decision a little before that as a Christian, that I would be a listener, so I was doing that with her. However, I keep noticing that when it was my turn to speak (normally with her a conversation was one way), she would cut me off immediately. I thought that was odd, but again, I had never met a narcissist so I didn’t know I was dealing with one. She would use me against my co workers to make herself look good behind my back. She would lie in my face and when I confronted her she would turn things and tell me I was the one lying. She would steal my ideas at work and say she came up with it, again, when confronted, she would get mad and play the victim saying she could not believe “I” was stealing her ideas. Basically, what she was doing, she was blaming me. She was vengeful, she would put things in writing to blame me, if I was getting attention for a job well done from others, she would immediately suggest that it was her idea… I mean I can go on, and on, anyway, now I can spot them a mile a way. They drain you…They’re not Christian people, they’re wolves in sheep’s clothing. I have always prayed (still do) for God to give me discernment and to please let me see right through people… I don’t trust people at all and I tend to put them through a test without them knowing, I am very careful about who I bring into my life (friends). I observe people a lot and once I see a red flag, I keep my distance.

[richardcopeland]

My family is riddled with narcissists, and I see through it. You are so accurate.

[Anoppinion]

The fake laughter - YES! Having one persona inside the family and one in front of other people

[nji]

Latly, trust your gut even when you can not discern the what. "When God whispers, LISTEN". ❤

[lisathomas]

I'm married to a convert narcissist for last 30 years, made so many mistakes, suffered like anything but trusting Lord for my healing to become what God wants me to be

[sleepinglioness]

If you are in any way a giving and empathetic person, the best protection you can learn is assertiveness skills and techniques. Take a course in assertiveness training and learn how to answer/respond to narcissists, bullies and manipulators (pretty much all alike).
Have your children learn these techniques and they will be the greatest skills that will last them a lifetime.

[nonythecreative]

This is the BEST DESCRIPTION of the covert narcissist I have ever heard. And perfectly exposes the covert narc I used to be friends with. Lord have mercy!