20 Rules For Young Men

This week on the podcast Hafeez and Chris give 20 rules for men that they can use to establish their lives and optimize their success. Be sure to hit the subscribe button and get the masculinity course via the link below.

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[phylthisnow]

I'm a lady. I love the Roommates. Even if they are speaking to a specific gender, everyone can benefit from these podcast. Many people don't want to look inside themselves and become better. Many feel a sense of entitlement and should get what they want, without the work. But if you build it, they will come. You will attract what you are. So become what you want.

[Black_Guy]

I would change rule 14 from "It's all your fault" to "It doesn't matter whose fault it is, you must improve your life."

[MONEYMAY_XTENDED]

A Man Who Can Master Self Discipline (especially sexual discipline) Is A Man Who Can Do Anything He Puts His Mind To 💯

[ErnestAdewoyin]

I do understand the “heart” behind Hafeez saying that we shouldn’t blame others for where we are in life.

But this is not what has worked for me in therapy. My Father is a narcissist and has cut my wings so much and damaged my mind and self worth in so many ways. My therapist asked me, “what would it mean for you to accept that your father is at fault?” Because I was covering for him in my psyche so much.

I said I would be angry.
And he later walked me through acceptance, anger management, grieving and most importantly, forgiveness.

So, if someone else is at fault from now on in my life, blaming them and accepting they are at fault… with the added benefit of seeing my own faults too and where I can improve … is what I do now.

I don’t agree with hafeez about not blaming others. But I get his “heart” about using the blame of others as a crutch-excuse not to improve.

I hope this helps someone

[ryanbarker]

The bit about friends is too real. Nothing sucks more than cutting ties with somebody you care about but know isn't good for you anymore. Also up until 30, you'll probably find that people 10-15 years older than you are better friends than your own age group.

[phillipr.]

I was scared you weren’t going to post an episode this week due to the time. Looking forward to the discussion.

[AntoniManzi]

This probably the best video on the channel, no hype, no flexing, just straight up solid advice without trying to force it down someone's throught. Respect guys

[avoidthevod]

"It's a good thing that you would share to a 18-year old kid"
Surprisingly enough, i am actually a 18-year old kid right now. And i am glad that i found so much useful info recently

[jkfd]

I really, really love this community. It is the most inspiring one on the whole of YouTube and it is so good to see how inspired people become by listening to your content, Hafeez and Chris. I'm not always in complete agreement with everything you guys say but there can be absolutely no doubt that you are providing the motivation to encourage (particularly young) guys to change their lives for the better. No hatred, no venimosity in your words. Your approach is from a real place of calm, a place of simplicity; wanting current and future generations of men to reach the level of potential that not only is valuable to society, but most importantly valuable to themselves too. Really great work guys, keep going. You're doing a great job. And you've certainly helped me out personally too. 👍

[hatchetman]

been a supporter of yall for 6 months. good to hear chris more on this show i feel like we get a lot of Hafeez and just a bit of chris. this was nice

[calebappiah]

I loved this episode in particular. Men rule #2 is pivotal categorize your friends accordingly not every person who you have a good initial interaction with is your friend. Time shows you people’s true characters morales and values do not allow FOMO and loneliness make you settle for mediocre friends.

[erictheovercomer]

20 rules for Men by The Roomates
1. Dont get her pregnant
2. Friends are people who make your life better
3. Every man must develope confidence (belief in self) and masculine energy
4. Comparison is a theif of joy
5. Faith and Patience is needed to grow
6. Find a mentor who you value their family work and reputation
7. Every man must be financially stable
8. Stay in physical shape
9. (health is wealth) dieting eating healthy sleep
10. Know the difference between a life story and a love story
11. Develope your net worth professional and socially
12. Only invest in those who want to invest in you
13. Take accountability/ responsibility
14. Its all your fault
15. Develope high character over everything
16. Life is all about people (loved ones are worth more then materialism)
17. Find your why, purpose, mission, push
18. Sexual dicipline is your superpower
19. Over consumption of anything is bad (Balance is key)
20. Life is a marrathon not a sprint if your still alive there is still hope

[masonics]

You honestly can't put a price on this information. The work you guys do will not go unnoticed, keep the grind going, and thank you for instilling the drive in me to do better for myself every day.

[spaniish_papii]

Thank you guys for these videos. I have been going through a tough time emotionally and spiritually for a while now and it’s nice to see videos like these during these times. I will continue to watch these videos as they have the keys to the life that I want to unlock for myself. Thank you guys 🙏🏽

[brentonkerr]

I struggle with that even now. I can relate with Chris

[mattnocap]

Take nothing for granted. Always strive to grow and elevate your mind, body and soul.

[chanteladams]

Y’all just keep getting better and better

[ismail]

I think this is good for all. Some men might need more then a talk. They need community and brotherhood. They need to eliminate distractions. Eventually get married and have a family. But to go at it alone is not what works. It’s a sad reality that most men do not have a community. Most don’t even know that is the main source of their problem.

[goodtrouble]

it’s the consistency & quality of content for me 👏🏾💪🏾👌🏾🖤

[taylanscott]

Thank you for the piece about fixable and nonfixable insecurities. Never thought about it that way