PERSONALITY TYPES Stuck In A LOOP

Are you stuck in a loop? This is why you repat unhealthy patterns. Learn what the 16 personalities get stuck on and what you can do to break unhealthy patterns. This video focuses on the tertiary function, a function connected to our childhood insecurities and feelings of weakness or not being enough. We live in a society that constantly tells us we are not good enough - so lots of people are stuck in the third cognitive function!

The Tertiary Function Explained, common patterns for the 16 personalities, 16 personalities struggles. 16 Personalities Problems, 16 Personalities issues,

00:00 Loops Explained
02:30 INFJ/ISFJ Loop
04:50 Why You Get Stuck In Loops
08:00 INFP/INTP Loop
09:56 ENFP/ESFP Loop
11:50 ESTP/ENTP Loop
13:00 ISFP/ISTP Loop
14:30 ISTJ/INTJ Loop
15:50 ENFJ/ENTJ Loop
17:00 ESTJ/ESFJ Loop

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16 Personalities In Lockdown With Housemates, 16 personalities relationships, dear kristin, love who, cognitive personality theory, michael pierce, what are the cognitive functions, I give the 16 personalities unsolicited advice

I/E/N/S/F/T/J/P.. Find your type by finding what gives you energy, confidence, passion and a sense of stability.

What is my name? Erik Thor. What is my personality type? INFJ. What is my Enneagram Type? 9-5-2.

[ErikThor]

Apologies for the poor quality, I have just ordered some new equipment and am experimenting with video editing. I think my videos are going to look and sound amazing soon-- stay tuned. 😊

[MrLuigiFercotti]

Good call on ExTP
Some time ago I decided that I was going to stop worrying (as best I could) what people though of me, that not everyone will or has to like or approve of me.
Doesn't mean I gave myself permission to be a jerk, though.

[tinkershell]

Stop reading my mind Erik 😂 INFP is spot on for me. I’ve been responsible and trying to be traditional for 55 years. Being home all of 2020 pretty much ended the loop for me. It was a blessing! If my first responsibility is to be creative, then I’m all in! Thank you 💜

[anisanancy]

The infj part reminded me of this line from a song"where not one question lingers there's an answer and a cure'

[Sam-bcll]

Ah, the ISFP one is so true!! I'm stuck in worrying about the 'what ifs'. Ever since I got a word from God about my future, I've been worried about screwing it up. Have I ruined God's plan for me because I haven't been prioritizing him? I never believed I would get married, let alone that I would apparently meet multiple people and that once I found the one (someone who is interested in my ambition), I'd be a great mother. I'll also invent things and travel the world (I'm majoring in Geophysics). I'm terrified that I've derailed my life path since things haven't gone according to plan my first year away at a university.... I just need to keep faith in Him and play to my strengths as you've said, tackling one thing at a time. I think blindspot Ne makes me uncomfortable zooming out and taking in the grand picture, and Demon Ni makes the future naturally a bit scary. I want to be able to face these things eventually, but not at the cost of worrying excessively about it. For now I'll stick to my strengths-- living each day to the best of my ability.

[sirbradfordofhousejones]

That shameless subscription plug was S tier marketing 😂

Great video, Erik

[roosal]

I have a gist that loops are complex & a multitude of people can identify with many of these issues. As an INFP I have issues with the following:
Obsessing days over solving issues in my mind, making sure I have everything figured out and don't make incorrect judgements (Ti), making sure I consider every possible option, that I am not missing out on something, making sure I am not being subjective, getting stuck researching this and that (Ne), not being responsible enough, not being able to do things on time and carry my own weight (Si), not doing enough for others, hurting other people's feelings, embarrassing myself in front of others, having others think poorly of me, burdening others (Fe), being terrified for the future of a relationship or a career path, not having cohesive thoughts, missing what's the most essential (Ni) and of course everything is tied to Fi - cannot take action (Te) or take a breather, notice my surroundings (Se) before I feel decent, valuable, worth of being alive. There seems to be sides of the mind disagreeing with each other, a lack of unity, functions trying to make themselves more relevant than the other

[orangeziggy]

I assumed wrongly that INFP was the only personality type that struggled with Avoidance loops, I had no idea that it is common for all types. Wouldn't it be more fitting if instead of calling it 'a loop' we should call it "AVOIDANCE" which is already a known psychology term and so more people would understand it better? I thought that fireplace was real for the first 4 minutes. I was diagnosed with Avoidant Personality Disorder in my 40's. There are no known therapies and treatments for it. :/ So I am surprised to know how common Avoidance is in all types. "Malignant Hope" is when you remain hopeful that the future will be better and that someone will help you to solve your problems and situations, so you keep on hoping, but meanwhile, important opportunities are lost and time is waisted. People always say "stay positive and dont give up hope" but actually, I realized that you have to give up hope first, before you can finally feel ready to take action. Part of the loop is all "Dependence" on others, which is where all of the hope and relying on the idea that others will help you comes from. There is also a "Dependent Personality Disorder" fyi. A lot of people who have Avoidant p.d. also have Dependent p.d, so these 2 both go together. It is common to depend on others and avoid because there is also the feeling of incapability, very much like a child feels unable and incapable; additionally there is a feeling of being easily overwhelmed and then avoiding tasks in order to avoid feeling overwhelmed. The right question to ask ourselves is not "how bad do you feel when youre waiting so long in avoidance?" but it is "How can you strengthen yourself and so that you can afford to take action?" Because it's the constant insecurity and self doubt that holds us back.

[yahsgirl]

Thank you. I could tell right away I needed this...I totally took notes 😁❤

[novaimperialis]

The INTJ one is accurate.

Ni-Fi loop dom-tertiary= idealized utopia(basically existential depression)
Te-Se solution auxiliary-inferior= need to actualize and to change it in the concrete

You didn't use the cognitive functions when giving those advices, but you get my valid stamp of approval for seeing behind the appearances of an NT, into the inner essence or motivation of this type.
There are a lot more things to say and most people only look at the general descriptive qualities of those types instead of seeing that the inner motivation is feeling in essence, but the means of achieving it are actually thinking+intuition. That's the difference.
While feelers have thinking goals, of keeping up with society, and they do this in a feeling manner.
It's about the discrepancy between the goal and the manifestation of that goal.

[richsackett]

ENTP: Your point is well-made about the drive for social acceptance which is currently consuming bandwidth I need for developing a modern clavinet (so much room for improvement). You heard it here first. I'm not gonna lie, I've already burned through a vat of brain fuel to this point working on it.

[doctorsforchrist]

Excellent video!! Your summaries were spot on! I've been looking for a good resource on how ALL the 16 p's experience looping, so I'm glad to have watched this. Thanks for making this 👏

[StacyRenardPiano]

Love the videos without the words at the bottom. Sometimes the words are the wrong words and it throws me off. I do better just watching and listening to you. Also I love the clear camera and new background. Good job Erik!

[sirbradfordofhousejones]

I’m an ESFP who FREQUENTLY loops with my Se-Te. I find that I get really anxious if I’m not looping, because what do I have to show for myself if I don’t? My Fi needs those loops, but I know that’s unhealthy.

[nicolirodrigues]

Oh my god, this video was so necessary
At least to me, i just felt like Erik looked in the eye and said exactly what I needed to hear and it was like a slap in the face
But thank you I needed that slap of reality to get my shit together 😜

[doreenadrianfernandes]

Haha I'm sorry I forget to like and subscribe to most of the channels i enjoy because I'm so focused on listening to what the person says that it doesn't occur to me to actually physically like and subscribe. Not fear.. just lack of awareness hehe.

[bio.Luminescence]

What you call ‘looping’ I call my identity or personality that (almost) no one knows. What a strange existence.