Vulnerable Vlog - Why I Chose Divorce

[teresamiller]

I love that you are addressing mental health. It is so important and I don’t think it’s talked enough about.

[vickiefinney]

Depression is very common around the holidays. Please everyone reach out to someone if you are getting depressed, especially if you are thinking about hurting yourself. Just know, you are loved and matrer. God is available 24/7

[ljss]

I’m admire your grace and simplicity. And I admire Skyler’s fun and adventure. Life happens! You’re both doing it well 💜. Thanks for letting us peak in on your journey!

[LkRn]

People are so rude and brave on the internet. It’s none of our business what happens behind closed doors in someone else’s marriage. The fact that people were DMing her asking her is APPALLING to say the least. You do you Jaime that’s all you can do and be the best mother you can be for your beautiful children. ❤

[LouiseFlynn-kw]

Well done you Jamie for sharing this! So open and raw! Can only imagine the 65 tabs open in your head and you don’t know where the music’s 🎶 coming from, trying to keep up appearances yet also trying to make sense of everything while battling with your self! Didn’t want to post here but Please ask your doctor for a blood test to check if you’re in starting/entering perimenopause! It’s took me over 8yrs to finally get blood tested and confirmed literally the following day which in hindsight and researching after diagnosis made so much sense and understanding to what was happening to myself and was advised I was depressed! Depression however is a horrible illness and still stigmatised! So thank you again for sharing this! Can’t have been easy and I hope you stay 💪 sending love and hugs 🤗 💛💛from 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🦄💕 Lou x

[nodot]

Jamie…I love that you shared vulnerability today because you felt like it was the right thing to do. That type of bravery takes a lot of strength! I love you for it! So happy that you are finding happiness and peace within. All 7 of your children are very blessed to have you as their mother! You are truly an Angel mother! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[ephsjennifer]

If I could add a 6th thing to that list- at the end of each day, writing down a few specific things you were thankful for that day! It helps me to be mindful of the good things in my life.

[amandaharris]

After watching both of their vlogs i feel that there is more to the story than she gives. I love Jamie but she is definitely holding back. It seems that they grew apart because Skylar started questioning the Mormon faith more openly once his sister came out as Trans and also left the mormon church. And if thats the case fine, but be honest about it rather than making it seem like Skylar was trying to uphevel their life. In skylars vlogs he always gives Jamie praise despite their differences and supports her faith. Never once does he blame her in his vlogs for what happened. People change and they do grow apart and thats okay, but i feel like she could be either more transparent or just not describe it like this that made it sound like Skylar was trying to ruin their family.

[kylasmith]

I started crying when you started sharing the five steps. I’ve really needed this. Thank you for sharing! ❤

[KellyAnneWright]

I haven't watched your channel for a few years. I admit that most of what I enjoyed in the past was watching the miracle of you all raising your many children together and seeing how that worked! I am sorry to see the big changes that have happened in your lives, and sorry you've had to live through those publicly.
I rediscovered your channel again today and even though you don't need the opinion of strangers, I still want to tell you that you're doing a great job and you are a beautiful human being. I hope you follow your gut as you move forward and don't worry about what your followers think or say, including me. Blessings to all of you!

[gillianarmstrong]

Thank you for making yourself vulnerable and sharing your reasons for your divorce. I pray your 5 things you have been instructed to do daily help you through your depression.

[marvismatarozzo]

When people tell us we should stay married for God, I call bs. He knows I was an abused wife, and He gave me the strength to get out!

[maxineoliver]

Thank you for taking those steps on sharing with everyone on how things have been, and are currently going! You are doing an amazing job with the care of yourself and your family! Keep on walking as much as you can-The sunrise is beautiful!🏜🤗💗

[bkm]

This is putting your children first, you are able to be focused and present, it's like a parent and child on an a plane, suddenly the oxygen mask drops down and the adult must place the mask on themself first and then the child. Depression is common with all the worries of what if's and not addressing your own needs (think of the oxygen mask), and I'm really impressed you addressed it quickly with a soft place to fall professionally and personally. Jamie you are doing an incredible job, you and Skylar are so supportive of one another putting the kids in a mindset where they feel safe and loved, it's amazing! So proud of you, and thanks for sharing.

[dianeboyd]

I appreciate you being so transparent. I too was married very young (19), and we have 2 sons. A lot of things I mistook for love. 1 major regret I have in life was not finishing my degree in college. I believe this kept me from having a career of my choice and being able to take of myself as a single mom. (Basically, I was stuck )My ex-husband is a narcissist and boy did he have control over me, along with complete control over our money.Long story short, after 48 years of marriage (I know what many of you are thinking-you made it this long, can’t you just stick it out? ( I said those same words to some of my parent’s friends that divorced) But now I understand, they had been sticking it out for over 25 years and had enough just like me!) Here I am 71 years old. My son and DIL asked me to move in with them (my son is a home builder-he built our dream home and they built there house next door to us. So 4 years ago, I moved in with them and 3 out of the 5 grandkids I have. I’m so thankful for them. We help one another. Do I regret getting married? No, I wouldn’t have had my 2 wonderful sons. Should I have left earlier, yes. I will be praying for you as you navigate your new normal. You will make it, even though some days you don’t think you will. You are young enough and beautiful and I’m sure you will find love again. At my age, I have no desire to date, much less marry again. Having to learn 70 years of history on a partner -no thank you!

[sheilavanduynfote]

Bless you Jamie, when considering divorce it is not an easy step, it’s beyond challenging and emotionally draining. The 5 steps all sound so helpful. I am quiet and I really do not do well in overly stimulating circumstances. Your children will thank you later, in life to see that both of their parents are thriving, happy and confident

[jomeucci]

Hi Jamie, I am so happy you are doing something for yourself. Yes your symptoms do sound like you may be experiencing some level of depression, however, these symptoms are also very typical of perimenopause/menopause. Perimenopause can start in your 30/40's and go on for years. I think most people just think it happens when you are 50 and bang it's over but that is not the case with many women. Anyway, I thought it was worth a mention. There are several safe treatments available to help alleviate hormonal fluctuations. Hoping the 5 tips will work well. I think they are fabulous tips for everyone even if you are not experiencing any symptoms. Getting regular exercise, socialising, getting involved in your community and expressing your feelings are all very good for your health and longevity. Much love and God bless x

[libbyworkman]

People grow apart sometimes. That does not make it a bad thing. It’s just that they choose things where the other one is not comfortable or does not fit. What you have done very well is make sure there are no bad feelings that would be difficult for the children to deal with. I really admire you for that. Both of you.

[Judymontel]

Wow. First of all, I respect you Jamie, and I respect your former husband. And I'm proud of you both and inspired by your online respect for one another and one another's privacy. I'm very saddened to learn that so many people have felt it appropriate to comment on your very personal decisions. Private relationships between people are just that - private. I'm also shocked that people have commented on your relationship with your creator. That's another very private relationship! I know this happens, but I wish it didn't. I send you strength and I thank you for inspiring me with your grace and honesty. Hugs!

[thetapequeen]

I've been watching since the quints were babies and your family has brought many hours of joy to me. I so admire the values that you base your life and your new channel on. Also, thank you for broaching the subject of mental health. So many of us struggle with depression and it was great to hear some useful tips. Hugs and prayers.💜