What to Do When He Won't Commit... // amy young

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[chocolatemilkhotel]

A guy can be with a girl for years and never want anything "serious" (no labels, no commitment) but if u really think about it, all that means is "I don't think ur special enough to have u all to myself." if a guy Really likes u, he'll Never want something casual. He'll want you all to himself. Remember that! Believe me, it took me a while to realize that X)

[TylersTyrades]

"I banged a loser", a quote that sums up our generation. I love this advice because it is perfect. If a guy treats you badly, get turned off and move on. Amazing video, as always.

[peaceamandino]

I love the back and forth dialogue with yourself thing, that was a great touch!

[jomomma]

I'll go ahead and cut to the chase on this one. If a guy isn't committing, you aren't worth it in his eyes. You've got some baggage that he doesn't want to marry into, but he likes you enough to keep it casual.

[liptongtr]

Pretty Simple, don't have sex with the guy until you know he wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend?

Otherwise accept the consequences of the fling and know you got emotionally involved when you shouldn't have. Happens to guys and girls, no reason to blame the guy.

[thegroovypatriot]

"...because a grown-up will persue a woman understanding the implications of her feelings getting involved...". That's the ticket right there.

[gablattanzio]

Sometimes, it's not that a person does not want to commit, that he's a "loser", that he is not respectful. It's that he does not want to commit to you. This is not a matter of abstract morals, or maturity. You can't force enthusiasm. As long as people consent and are benevolent, relationships can be all sorts of agreements. If you realize after a while that you're not looking for the same thing, well then, that's just that, you can't consent anymore. There's no need for belittling others, because you won't build a very solid ego by judging other people's choices in such a way, and by believing that only assholes do not want you. Plenty of great people are not compatible with you, and they can choose to be great friends, without wanting to think long term. It does not make them wrong. This aggressivity is really misplaced.

[BrokenDream]

You have no idea how much you helped me and saved me from a lot of pain. Love your work and please keep it up!

[mustafa]

if a MAN don't commit's to you he is not childish or immature he dosen't see you as a gf material or dosen't have time for a relationship with you

[kevinsmartypants]

lol all the recommended videos after this one are all Adele songs 

[snmsdp]

OF ALL THE HEARTBREAK VIDEO’S I’VE this one actually helped😂😂😂😂😂😂😂jooo you are SOOO RIGHT

[echam]

Thanks Amy!! You have made so many videos that whenever one of my situations call for a pick me up there's definitely one that's fitting !

[rashb]

The problem actually sounds like entitlement on the girls part. He doesn't have to commit if he doesn't want to. When a guy truly wants to commit the girl will know and won't have to beg. So this is more a case, he's not into her on a commitment level but maybe he enjoys her company.

[KatDancingnStretching]

This was good. Helpful addition is to to say, avoid this scenario all together by not having sex with men who you haven't even asked what they're looking for. And if you ask what someone is looking for, before you get into bed with them, and they've told you they don't want a relationship, you can avoid having sex with losers. Respect yourself enough to not have sex with someone who doesn't want a relationship.

[MinaWahab]

best video of the bunch, Amy. These words stuck with me months ago when I was dealing with heartbreak and disappointment. You seriously are the best. <3

[erinmhoth]

100% needed to see this!!!! Aha this is perfection

[elkadosh]

Girl! Your videos are beyond phenomenal! I've watched at least 10 just now and you are funny, engaging, brilliant and on the ball! Keep this channel and forum going please! As a professional in the mental health field, 10 gold stars! I'm sharing you with everyone I can!

[susannefiore]

My daughter has been living with her boyfriend for 3 years, one of the common complaints from her is he's a huge stickler on splitting everything 50/50. She's confronted this and nothing gets resolved. We like him well enough, this really bothers her and us. She keeps making excuses, any advice???

[dizzydevilwoman]

i am glad u made this post.. cause i seriously think many girls shud know this..

[shirleychai]

Thanks for the advice Amy! I've been feeling like crap ever since the guy doesn't respond to me like I wanted to. I guess I just need to turn OFF. Keep making these videos! Its great, funny and it really helps!