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[wonderxlandxo]

The wife asking for confirmation somehow makes me think she’d be ok with him saying no..

[paradoxerror]

She Asks, and He Lies to her and it's her fault? She's going to get Way more upset when she finds out that he's been lying

[PassionChrist]

The crying is temporary, the negative implications of your kids growing up never being told “No” is permanent.

[Kanders]

"I don't wanna deal with a crying, screaming child"

This is how your kid becomes a spoiled brat that nobody wants to be friends with. I'm sure the kid will be ELATED when you eventually get kicked out of your home because you can't afford rent. Nothing could go wrong.

[bokichoiii]

When the “parent” doesn’t know how to parent 🤦🏻‍♀️

[anitas]

I think they’ll be more upset when they’re homeless.

[PotatoesNMolasses]

Nobody WANTS to deal with a crying, screaming child, but that's our job as parents. I would much rather have my daughter be happy and give her what she wants, but life isn't like that. We set our kids up for failure when they only hear "Yes." They need to learn how to control those angry emotions at a young age or else they'll end up on the internet as an adult, screaming and kicking when they don't get their way.

[Enrique-Garcia]

So it's not really that the kids and wife would get upset, it's that HE would have to deal with them being upset. If you don't want to deal with such things, you shouldn't have gotten married and had kids.

[messybe]

I may not have appreciated it at the time, but I definitely appreciate how my parents raised me.

[elizabetharaujo]

Many evicted homes and apartments are filled with things they couldn't afford. Our friend owns a business that removes the belongings, and you wouldn't believe the items left behind. Brand new clothes and nice furniture that were too large to take with them!!

[averageamericandad]

You need to teach your kids delayed gratification

[jahanas]

I don’t think he should’ve got married or had children

[Shadowkat]

My child is barely 2 years old, and tantrums are TOUGH to deal with. That said, as the parent, it is literally your JOB to deal with tantrums, largely by ignoring them. If you're at home, just walk away until your child chills out. Show them what kind of behavior gets them what they want (and teach them that they can't always get what they want), and they will use that behavior. If you're in public, you may just have to tow a screaming kid around in the shopping cart. It happens. Anyone who gives you a dirty look can keep walking. If YOU don't teach them how to behave, the world will, and it'll be a lot meaner doing so.

[QSOLOsRL]

They say Tolerance and Respect goes hand-in-hand. He's not willing to tolerate their tantrums or they don't respect him enough for him to say no.

[saiyantwan]

dealing with the crying and screaming is part of raising kids. They are going to do it more and more if they see that it works. delayed gratification is a good thing and when you can afford the special things it makes them feel more special.

[pinkyshoes]

I like the way that Dave Ramsey put it “the only way you’re gonna see the inside of a restaurant is if you’re working there”

[OriginalAlys]

Love means saying "no" sometimes, especially if it's for their good.

[H.Michele]

When I was married, I ALWAYS asked. I pretty much only bought groceries and I still always asked. And I expected the truth. I can work with the truth. I didn’t find out until almost the end of our 15 year marriage that he’d frequently told me we had money and then had to borrow from his parents… and that the reason they’d always hated me was that they thought I was just constantly making irresponsible buying decisions and then telling him to ask them for money. I never even knew he was borrowing money, much less would I have ever asked him to! If your wife asks you if you can afford something, be honest with her. Even if she throws a toddler fit. We all need to grow up sometime.

[chandler]

The kids will really be crying when they have to live in a car

[crazygury]

My dad was just like this but we had my mom who was a tight budget runner to balance things out. It gave the perfect balance of splurging now and then without running us into the ground.
You never realize how lucky you have it until you see the situations other people have to face.