Moving abroad alone in my 50s was NOT what I expected

Moving abroad solo in my 50's was not what I expected. In this video, I share my experience of restarting life in a new country and the lessons I've learned in my first year. Let me know what you think guys Xxx

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[theresabar]

I moved to Spain 15 years ago from the USA. The USA was just getting too dangerous. Spain is so safe, the people are friendly and the Mediterranean diet has improved my health. I'm alone, but not lonely. I encourage anyone to move to the place where they are treated best. Good luck to everyone.

[alicecoppers]

I have lived alone for last 20 yrs because I refuse to waste time with superficial friends who wont be there if I hit hard times.

[dougposkitt]

I moved to Portugal as a single person six years ago at the age of 62. I understand the feeling of being alone in a new country. That said, I am very happy to live here. It is a relaxed, safe and lovely country. The people are lovely too.

[carolranes]

I have lived alone since 1976. When I went to a divorce I am now 79 years old! The only time I ever felt lonely was when I was married, I guess because I was always expecting that person to show up to do things with, and he would be working late or have other commitments, and I would spend a lot of time alone at night! I really felt lonely since my divorce I can actually say I have never ever felt lonely. I actually enjoy being alone more than I do spending time with people! I find so many people create so much drama in their life it’s exhausting, my highest value is learning so when I’m alone, I can spend time learning about whatever I want to learn and never ever miss the company of people! It’s sad that so many people feel lonely these days. I am so blessed and thankful that I enjoy spending time alone more than I deal with other people! If I ever want the company of people all I have to do is pick up the phone or go visit a shop and I easily connect with other people! Congratulations on the decisions that you made you are a beautiful woman and I’m really happy for you and the life that you’ve created. It looks really beautiful.

[broeklien]

I learned from my traveling friends that, the more people and places you visit, the more you realize that your body is your home and the world is your city

[judymckee]

I moved to a country I have never been in my late fifties, it was such a blessing and I met my husband. He is the most wonderful human being.

[bonnroberts]

I left the UK full time, 2014
I've lived up a mountain in Portugal, in a renovated, off grid, donkey stable for over 10 years, We have an acre of chestnut and fruit trees.
I have peace when I want and I have made good friends here.
I wouldnt go back. I've just received my UK pension at 66, I could never survive on it in the UK but here, with no heating to pay for (wood from land), no mortgage (cost €25, 000 in 2009) and a free health service, I can flourish :)

[thomaskrey]

I left Germany 30 years ago for Thailand and never looked back.
All my bothering allergies and other health issues like chronic back pain vanished nearly over night, and I am now in my mid 70s healthier than in my previous life. What helped me most to overcome hardships on the way was the absence of doubt about taking that leap (simmering deep inside me since decades).
I adopted a new born child 27 years ago. I live with her, her boyfriend and her mother as well as our three beloved dogs together in a large house. After retiring from work at a prestigious
university 2 years ago, I now have all time at hand I wish for my hobbies: writing, cooking and baking, playing with the dogs, moderate sports like cycling etc. (while the others are out for work) and in the evening and weekend, there is family life as well, a good balance.
My advice for all doubters:
Do a lot of research before you go without coming back.
Start maybe with an extended vacation or a sabbatical. Most
important is the proper philosophy of life: nothing is granted, nothing is forever. Embrace change, don't
fear it. Good luck.

[poeticposturing]

My experience traveling to another country is that I become free. I am free of the social expectations of my country. I feel a deeper connection with others because I don't concern myself with social protocol. I am me, intrinsically worthy, not having to prove anything. And wow, that feels so good!

[twofargne]

I moved to France 7 years ago when I retired. I've been divorced for 20 years, so I live alone in a beautiful apt. I started joining expat groups almost as soon as I got here: we play golf, go to dinner, go to local jazz clubs, meet for coffee 3 or 4 times a week, and take trips together. After I stopped eating an American diet I lost 85 pounds. I sold my car during covid, so I walk everywhere now, which I really enjoy. I live 10 minutes from the bus station, 15 min from the train station and 20 mins from the center of town. Public transportation is cheap and excellent. I'm quite happy here. Life is good. **EDITED** several people have asked me why join expat groups. The reason is French bureaucracy can be daunting at times, but normally there are other expats who have been down this road before. They can be invaluable resources when first arriving.

[annazimmerman]

My mother and I are preparing to leave the UK forever, later this year. I am 54 and my mother is 84. I am terrifically excited, and very glad to see your video.

[MimiBlumm]

I moved to Portugal by myself 10 months ago. I am very happy, I value the time with myself, I am peaceful and do whatever feels right for me. It’s wonderful to know that “I can”

[mariapelliccia]

Sometimes it’s not just the place you choose to live in, but mostly the toxic people you choose to get rid of 🤷🏻‍♀️

[triniwilliams]

I just moved to Spain, on my own, and I am 56! I believe in that quote about the universe helping you along the way!

[Typeher]

I'm a Mexican 45 years old woman who went alone to India and now going to Nepal. Still trying to find my place in the world. Right now I believe it is a blessing that I don't have a partner and I didn't have children, that is why I'm free to go where ever I want

[dianasharonschenker]

Hi, I am 80 now moved to Igalo, Montenegro 5 years ago. I purchased and designed an apartment, great people, food, scenery Montenegro in 2018-19. Immigration easier to move here
I know exactly what you mean. This is why I look and feel more than 20 years younger. I always find out what makes me happy. I love peaceful and safe and caring of the people. My family lives in Varna, Bulgaria. I love it here. Ciao

[tomchaney]

What a nice and beautiful woman, I took a Solo trip to Azore Islands and it was life changing
I met so many people and felt so free, I’m 60 thinking about changing my life too!
So true

[kencarpenter]

“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”

― T.S. Eliot

[BuzzConnection]

Being alone is the best thing you can do for yourself. Your time, your choice, your way, whatever you want. You can always still enjoy time with others, but when you want to, on your own terms.

[JohnnyLawrence-hb]

I’m 56 years old and I just want peace ✌️