Girlfriend Wanted an Open Relationship but When I Said No, She Said I Wasn't 'Compromising' and...

Girlfriend Wanted an Open Relationship but When I Said No, She Said I Wasn't 'Compromising' and Needed to Feel Remorseful' for Making Her Suppress Her Desires.
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[DonchaJusLoveIt]

I don’t usually click off these videos, but both stories can be described as “my girlfriend wants me to be ok with inflexible behavior and thinks I’m wrong for being uncomfortable. Would it be wrong of me to leave?”

[anatoly_motsny]

“You can’t enchant loyalty on a hoe” -a Minecraft quote I found-🗿

[LionMillcomics]

18:19 just wait for this guys follow up post talking about how his girlfriend has been regularly cheating on him since the beginning of the relationship.

[trk]

On the 2nd story: her GF and whole Reddit convinced him to stay that broken relationship...

[takira]

call me old fashioned but 'sex positive' sounds so wrong to me. That's excusing reckless behaviour and I don't care if some of you come for me. But ayyy at least its working for OP 2 so good for him I guess

[big_back_J]

Nah, fuck that. 50 partners at 24 is disgusting behavior. Man or woman.

[doncjack]

S1: OP, just move on. She's not committed, not loyal, and not trusting. She is a manipulator and a POS horndog.

[TheZombifiedFairy]

Story 2: Girlfriend can be as sex positive as she wants but being loose in a career, especially within the workplace, that is male dominated can (and if she continues such behaviors will) backfire. You think a man is going to promote the watercooler quickie over the straightedge seemingly golden boy? You have to work twice as hard to prove yourself and all she did was prove she was an easy lay. She needs to do better, especially when thinking about her future

[blast_processing]

I got no problem with people that enter into open relationships _from_ _the_ _beginning, _ but demanding an open relationship months or even years into a monogamous relationship is incredibly dishonest in my opinion.

[schmalzilla]

Story 2. That dude is lying to himself. Her past does bother him, he is just trying to ignore it because of some head fantasy he probably made up and views her as. When you have to keep saying you're ok with something, you're not actually ok with it, you're trying to convince yourself you're ok with it. Dude should end it, and find a girl who's philosophy on sex and love are similar to his own. And the GF is reaping the consequences of being so loose with her sex life, she can boo hoo all she wants, but she's the one who brought this drama into her and his life, by acting like a 304.

[zkavess]

Second story is so daft. Partner shouldn't be worrying about turning up without the OP to the event - she should be worrying about accepting the office perception that her two exes are putting on her. If she doesn't take herself seriously and lets them joke in such a manner then is anyone at her company going to take her seriously? She should be talking to her exes to shut down that sort of chat tbh.

[big_back_J]

And why should he have accept meeting two finance bros who spit roasted his girl 💀💀💀

[Nepharol]

Why do people like this get in relationships in the first place?

[johnnyboy]

50 sexual partners? At that point just leave because that relationship has no future. Her ability to pair bond is gone.

[blackfire]

"I'm proud to be called a slut, but how dare you judge me?"
Which is it lady? Is your sex-positivity only extending to yourself? Why should he be ashamed of his own views if you're proud of yours?

As a more pragmatic approach, I would have serious reservations with such a person working closely alongside douchebags she gave herself to.
It's one thing to trust a recovering alcoholic in a liquor store (and already a mistake), but what do you call trusting a proud binge drinker in a liquor store?
If she see this as "just fun", and "nothing to do with relationships", how do you trust her to not engage in "fun" with other people?

[somnus]

She's worried about her career image but got double teamed on a work getaway?

[Heiura]

50 ???? Naah ... bro picked the public toilet and thought she would be loyal ... naaaah 10 is my limit bro ... if you go up, thats a hard 'NO' for me.

[Censorthisbananahamock]

She was a poly person and tried to drag this monogamous person into their poly life. She should have left that man alone from the point he said he was monogamous.

[artechstorm]

If anyone says they want an open relationship, I'll be like "Bye Falicia" and broke up with them right then and their

[annabellegarcia]

She can feel her desires with someone else.