Girl Ruins Her Relationship In 7 Seconds..

girl wants to cheat and disguises it as an 'open relationship', guy then dumps her

[gigasus]

world record speedrun for ruining a 5 year relationship 👏👏

[Hephaestus]

She practically made a bullet point list for “how I fucked up” and “reasons he’d be against polyamory” and still had the balls to ask “what did I do wrong?”

[frederickfreaker]

Being in a 5 year relationship then being hit with “I want an open relationship” is basically like hearing “You aren’t good enough for me anymore”

[ditzyditz]

As someone who has been cheated on in the past, good on this dude for immediately breaking it off he deserved better and obviously this girl was too delusional to realize that

[kiofea]

*Her:* "I want an open relationship."
*Him:* "Alright, you got one; it's called being single. Bye!"

[idontchuckle]

What gets me is how she said "I want to hear him forgive me" instead of "I want to apologize" as if she deserves it

[Jetblast]

>beloved by family and friends
>thinks arguing is a waste of time, always aims to talk things out
>lays out rules in the relationship along with likes/dislikes
>hates cheaters
>dumps girl on the spot for considering open relationship

Damn, king...his game too powerful for today's times. Dude managed to keep his balls intact. Here's to a real man that can find a queen deserving of him.

[wdeemarwdeemar]

I have been married 26 years.. if those words left her mouth I would be in a hotel in 15 minutes.

[DamnMyNickIsTaken]

That guy is a boss. No games, no drama. Clear decisions and boundries. I love it.

[givemeanameman]

She mistook a confident male that disliked drama for a weak male that avoided confrontation and thought she could get an open relationship.
Then she discovered he wasn't weak and didn't avoid confrontations and was decisive as fuck.

She also admitted their were guys she was interested in.
Not guy... but GUYS....
Like he said, he was cutting his losses.

[gideonjones]

I love how she paraphrases his opinion on girls who sleep around in a way that clearly proves he would never be ok with it, and yet she is still confused that he isn't ok with it.

[AmaryInkawult]

No wonder he dropped her. She is the exact thing he's against. She's pretending to be innocent/acting like she doesn't know what she did wrong all the while listing the exact things she did wrong. The exact things he HATES in a partner, she is. It's like she went through the grocery list and checked everything before saying "I think that's everything, time to ask if it's ok to enter the next step of our relationship!"

[rattasan]

I had the opposite happen to me. Me being the woman and my then boyfriend wanting to open the relationship after six years. All because a drunken woman called him a "sexy nerd" in some online MMO he was playing. This was apparently enough to have this epiphany that it was selfish to be with only one person and everyone should get an equal chance if they're genuinely in love. A bunch of bullshit. Thankfully I'm married to a much better person now.

[octaviamelody]

Open relationships or polyamorus relationships need to be discussed AT THE BEGINNING of the relationship. Discuss it, set boundaries etc. If you ALREADY KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS MONOGAMOUS don't bring it up! Especially after you've been in a relationship for a while, that's going to destroy the relationship, ruin the trust, and make the involved parties upset. Just like how everything else is talked about before the relationship starts, the idea of polyamory or open relationships needs to be talked about at the same time. If you wait to mention it until you're years into a stable relationship it's going to to ruin it, and most of the time at that point, the one who suggested it has already cheated or will do it regardless. It's more often than not a tactic to seem like less of a shitty person when they've already done something horrible.

[PintoBunny]

He handled it spectacularly. A direct and clean cut separation of a relationship that was no longer for him. Hope all parties involved get everything they deserve.

[nooneinparticular]

What she says: "we've been an item for 5 years, and I know you're very monogamous, but do you think we could try an open relationship?"
What he hears: "I don't love you anymore. I want other men. But I still want some of your assets."

[SYMBIOTEDINOSAUR]

Cheating isn't magically "ethical" because you rub it in your partner's face and bully them into staying with you despite the cheating.

[dinethrukshan]

Man's so goated he
1. Has solid friends you can't buy
2. Sticks to logical thinking and reasoning
3. Sets boundaries of steel

[dragoncultist]

Let's keep it a stack: if they ask for openness in an established monogamous relationship its one of two things
1: they've already cheated and want to alleviate their guilt
2: they were considering cheating but want to remove the sting of the label.

[grim]

Based on the description of the guy, I imagine that he was reading a book with his legs crossed and when he said “are you serious?” He slightly glanced up from his book and when he leaves he closes his book and puts it under his arm