What Women Mean When We Say We Want A “Leader”

What Women Mean When We Say We Want A “Leader”

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[normallyimpulsive]

Did she miss the “when I’m in the mood” part?

[tupoa]

Lead is not telling what to do, leading is showing what needs done and doing it, the right girl will pay attention and work at it with and beside you which is what you really want. Also ask if she has a better idea and consider what she says and do not be afraid to try it.

[kevinyates]

The two become one. I seek my wife's opinions all the time. She's my trusted companion

[rosietyler]

This is so funny because that Ryan clip is definitely NOT supposed to be any kind of serious advise. He was definitely saying "I don't want to learn anything, " but it's kinda true as real advise about women lolololol

[robertschultz]

Jesus is the greatest example of leadership

[goldsilverbroke]

Leadership and equal doesn't math..

[amazonseller-yfvv]

Sometimes it's absolutely neccessary to bark orders at a woman, because men are expected to be protectors, if a man is responsible to protect he needs to have the autority to shout get back in the car now, and call the police, or run back in the house and lock the door, and have the woman comply with hesitation or arguments. I've seen many occaions where a man was hurt worse cause he was trying to deal with a non complient woman in the middle of a disaster.

[laurac]

Not true. Submission does not come naturally!! We're sinners who want control. 😂 you submit because God asks you to, not because your man is leading perfectly.

[jeremyebersole]

She just seriously commented on a sarcastic joke.

[topherh]

So a leader to a woman is just someone who will take the blame when things go wrong but give her credit if things go right. Thats really what youre saying here.

[fishjcb]

Yea this is cap 🧢. It’s always about what the leader is doing wrong and never about what the follower is doing wrong. And Equality is a lie.

[jasonworingen]

She doesn't realize that his video is a parody? It's amazing how most women actualize narcissism.

[Lcoreyful]

Idk why people are so critical in the comments. This video was a humorous way of explaining traditional roles. I thought she was quite humble. And just explained love engenders love.

[jasonlacroix]

As an experienced man, we want an equal, a partner, a confidante. When it comes down to it, we want someone who keeps their promise "till death do us part". My generation got the double whammy, we lost dad and then our kids. That's what's tearing our society apart and it's why this platform is full of folks trying to explain things to others.

[honkhonkler]

I don't change how I operate based on a woman's feelings. If she doesn't trust me to lead at all times, she should find a new guy. I don't bark commands or anything like that. If it gets to that point, you've already lost as a man. You cant and shouldn't try to force a woman to do anything. You just do what you know is right and you have to be willing to let her go if she doesnt want to follow.

[roachmancan]

Leadership presupposes a subordinate counterpart. It’s not about being equal, it’s about leading in LOVE - Sacrificially, putting self aside, putting others interest in mind and above one’s own interests, dying to self…( Eph 5:24-25)

[TJ-umce]

lol... yea she's a red flag. It's not this complicated.

[infringenoo]

They want deniability, full freedom and zero accountability and moods

[anosmia]

Leadership positions must be earned. Leadership roles that are given without being earned is always bad leadership

[tradconmom]

The clip of Ryan was not the best for your point but your point still stands. My husband never bosses me around or tells me what to do. I naturally follow his lead because i trust him. Also, its comical how so many young men weaponize bible verses about woman being submissive while they themselves act like demons. Very few young people these days are worthy of a good spouse. Everyone wants their wants met but they dont want to be that person for someone else. Or they think money makes up for being a terrible person.