Dating Experts: “She’s Definitely Not in Love with You!” EXPOSING the Habits That END Relationships

In this powerful episode of the School of Greatness, I sit down with relationship experts Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey to explore the complex dynamics of modern relationships. We dive deep into why relationships fail and how to navigate breakups when necessary. Sadia, known for her work with men, and Matthew, a New York Times bestselling author who primarily coaches women, offer unique perspectives on the challenges couples face today. From the impact of social media on gratitude to the importance of emotional regulation, this conversation is packed with invaluable insights for anyone looking to improve their relationships or understand the intricacies of human connection in the digital age.

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0:00 Intro
00:04:54 - Lack of Gratitude and Poor Conflict Resolution
00:10:01 - Remaining Connected to Everyday Experience
00:14:59 - The Importance of Selecting a Partner who Respects Boundaries
00:19:44 - Recognizing the Broken Watch Relationship
00:24:56 - Uncommunicated Deal Breakers
00:29:55 - The One-Sided Relationship
00:34:50 - Compromising in Relationships
00:39:18 - The Impact of Sexual Behavior on Relationships and Resentment
00:44:32 - Having Honest Conversations with Yourself
00:49:47 - The Different Manifestations of Cheating
00:54:17 - Signs of Cheating and its Impact on Relationships
00:58:52 - The Complexity of Cheating in Relationships
01:04:10 - The Importance of Forgiveness in Relationships
01:09:05 - Women and Cheating
01:14:00 - The Danger of Cheating and the Importance of Forgiveness
01:18:53 - Forgiveness and the Ability to Move On
01:23:52 - The Insult to Women's Ability to Cheat
01:28:45 - Forgiving a Cheater: The Decision to Stay or Leave
01:33:32 - Forgiveness and Preparedness
01:38:34 - Healing After Betrayal and Building Trust
01:43:23 - Grieving and Healing After Betrayal
01:48:42 - Transforming Relationships through Conversation
01:53:26 - Listener Comments and Topic Requests

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[lewishowes]

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[raidertrader]

So, to summarize, my ex-girlfriend cheated on me, and she begged for my forgiveness when I caught her. I decided to give her another chance. However, after being together for four years, she randomly made the decision to end our relationship. Following the breakup, she did her thing for a little over a year. Surprisingly, she approached me to get back together. She confessed that she quietly cheated on me a second time before she ended the relationship. She went on to reveal other details about her other flings and then claimed that she had changed, expressing a desire to reconcile. Naturally, I strongly refused. I'm gonna have to side with Sadia on this one.

[lauraespinosa]

The most important thing I got from this is if you are going to therapy choose your therapist wisely 😅

[Christina-yugu]

The Hero here is LEWIS, he has amazing self control to let them debate this with listening and respect their different views. 😃

[thenonato]

I relate to Sadia's side. I have been there and she describes my story to the T. He speaks like a true therapist, where the client is the relationship not the individuals.

[jasonreeder]

Cheating is the ultimate action of disrespect. If you allow disrespectful behavior, it will happen again.

[DknightL]

I've been cheated on and I tried to make it work, but the fact that they were not truly sorry about it. It was best to move on and go our separate ways. I never cheated on her but the guy she met told her, that I was cheating on her. We had our disagreements but I realized that she was going through a separation and she was not the one that I should be with. Trust is earned and never given freely. Lesson Learned.

[rrenalee]

sadia is a realist and she speaks facts every time and she’s good at it.

[heleneyos]

1000% with Sadia. She brilliantly speaks the truth of reality of a strong woman. Mathew is not getting it. Lewis gets it! So much respect for Sadia in this conversation! Big brains and beauty ❤

[samonecharisma]

This was such a good conversation, each person making there point respectfully

[twilaspears]

I agree with Matthew. He has a way of seeing both sides equally. Not to mention great morals and intellect. I am thankful for his views on life and love. 😊

[paytonfollestad]

Women and men look for different things in relationships, that’s why it’s different. Sadia highlights that, Matthew seems to assume love in the relationship means the same thing from both sides.

[CyborgVision]

The guy is being idealistic while Sadia is more realistic and fundemental. I agree with most of the points the guy made but I 100% agree with Sadia.

[lotsofchocolate]

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me…

[pratikshabhosale]

I completely agree with Matthew on this one. I feel really seen by his perspective. While Sadia mentions she’s bringing a female viewpoint, I don’t think she represents all women. Honestly, Matthew seems to understand women better in this discussion.
Matthew is ❤

[sshoegirl]

1:03:00 I agree with her 100%....when/if I cheat it's been over for a long-time.

[jacquelinejimenez]

Matthew really has this. He didn’t miss a beat. I’m so glad because she is very persistent.

[Sophies]

I am female and agree 100% with Sadia. How can I respect a man who didn't respect himself to walk away?

[wordpower]

I have always loved Matthew's work, but I can't ignore here that he does not seem to have the flexibility to accept alternate opinions. Sadia has been very patient to reiterate that it's as per her experience on every point that he's throwing at her like an attack. He acts like it is either myway or highway. Sorry!

[annbergstrom]

Thank you Matthew I loved everything you said in this video!!!! You are amazing human being, with ability to each so much perspective, true wisdom.