“I Totally Disagree!” - Relationship Experts on WHO CHEATS MORE - This Gets HEATED!

Welcome back! Today, we dive into the second part of a fascinating and eye-opening conversation with two incredible relationship experts, Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey. If you missed the first part, I highly recommend you go back and listen to it, as it lays the groundwork for what we’re discussing today. In this episode, we explore the reasons why people lead double lives, the root causes of cheating, and the importance of having honest and courageous conversations in our relationships. We also debate the roles of self-compassion and self-respect in building and maintaining healthy connections. Get ready for a lively and insightful discussion that will challenge your perspectives on love, trust, and commitment.

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0:00 Intro
00:03:08 - Suppressing Needs and Deserving Something Special
00:05:58 - Deprived of Sex and Communication in a Relationship
00:08:51 - Why Women Cheat More
00:11:46 - The Misbehavior of Cheating
00:14:41 - Understanding Hypersexuality and Communication
00:17:44 - The Consequence of Poor Communication
00:20:59 - Communicating Sexual Needs
00:24:06 - Trust and Bravery in Relationships
00:27:06 - Signs and Deception in Relationships
00:30:59 - Entering a Relationship with Aligned Values
00:34:17 - The Importance of Self-Responsibility
00:37:48 - The Deception of Talented Liars
00:41:17 - The Scope of Abuse and Self-Compassion
00:44:58 - Healing and Self-Compassion
00:48:16 - The Importance of Self-Compassion and Accountability
00:51:46 - The Relationship between Self-Compassion and Responsibility
00:55:19 - The Importance of Self-Respect
00:58:24 - The Importance of Self-Compassion and Self-Acceptance
01:01:59 - Setting Yourself Up for a Healthy Relationship
01:05:09 - Atteindre un équilibre dans une relation
01:08:25 - The Importance of Building a Relationship on Fundamentals
01:12:02 - Being Afraid of Losing Someone
01:15:14 - Men Want Connection, Women Not Offering It

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[lewishowes]

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[kristinaborgestad]

What I would love after listening to this very interesting conversation is to put Sadia and Dr. Ramani together for a conversation. That's all I want to say

[thematthewhussey]

Thanks for having me on as always brother ❤

[michellepage]

Every single time a relationship ended badly, including 2 with narcissists, I saw the signs in the first two weeks of dating them. I am 100% responsible for my choice to overlook those things in exchange for the high of early dating. I treated myself compassionately in the aftermath, but only because I took responsibility first and, therefore, am not a victim. Also, I can't be in 100% acceptance of myself prior to taking responsibility for it in the form of actions that build my self respect.

[jamelquron]

“Our responsibility as a human being is not to just believe the best about people but to believe the truth in people ” 💯 Sadia

[camcma]

I think Sadia's position on self-accountability is so important and brave. I got divorced last year and had to take stock of my part of the breakdown. Yes, there were signs of core-level incompatibility at the beginning, which i ignored. If i don't acknowledge that i was willfully ignorant at that time, I will keep making the same mistake. I see so many people who blame the world and therefore just keep circling the drain in a neverending doom loop

I think Matthew was mostly speaking from his own personal wounds, not from an objective view of social good.

[ariamoore]

I never denied my husband whenever he wanted it. Didn’t stop him from destroying our family and leaving me for another person.

[AutumnS]

have this be a regular thing Lewis!!! a few experts together is SO MUCH better than one expert. because they challenge each other's point of views, which then makes the other person work harder to prove their point, which then allows for actual insight and excellence.

[mpilokgotso]

People can't hide who they're forever. They always slip

[juniperk]

Matthew is spot on with his advice and thought process. He's very empathetic, a realist and you can tell he truly understands relationship dynamics.

[feniks]

Thank you Sadia for stressing the importance on taking accountability in relationship dynamics. We are never simply just one or another, black or white, good or bad, victim or perpetrator.
We are what we allow ourselves to become over time through the relationship dynamics in which we engage (keep engaging).
Responsibility, awareness, and accountability are key. 🙏

[gerlyto]

From what I'm hearing, I think it's a perfect example how people have assigned different meanings and associations to the same words. One says "compassion" and sees great healing and strength in it, the other sees it as an excuse, weakness, and a potentially threat. They're using the same words, but are essentially talking about different things...

[ellefromthesky]

As a person coming out of an abusive relationship with many covert narcissistic tendencies involved, Sadia resonates deeply. It's high time to rebuild myself so this never happens again. I have an awesome therapist who provides a safe environment to explore why I let this go on for so long- when it was apparent in the first month.

[phillipschlegel]

So true Matthew we can't love others if we don't love ourselves first❤

[AndreiaCSilva-eypd]

I love how Matthew values ​​honest and difficult conversations when you value your relationship and are interested in keeping the relationship at a great health level!! I need a partner with this mindset!

[avib]

You can tell Sadia works with men (self accountability) and Matthew works with women (Self compassion)

Fantastic conversation🎉

[dariasupernova]

I feel like Matthew truly holds emotional intelligence and maturity. I love his gentle approach and advocating for self compassion 💜✨

[Rellmayo]

This sounds like a battle of the victim mindset vs the accountable mindset and I’m 100 percent for accountability.

[takemakers]

this interview started off HEATED! Matthew appeared visibly bothered. Sadia seemed very composed and confident in her stance. Great exchange. Great value from both sides. We need to see more of this.

[DayanPimentel.]

We cannot see the future buuut she has a point, there’s always a higher probability if a person shows some behaviors it will lead to something. What a smart woman!