My sister's husband lost his mind when I revealed that I was in a romantic relationship.

My sister's husband lost his mind when I revealed that I was in a romantic relationship with someone else.

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[adyashanayak]

Story isnt complete here ....sister miscarries baby due to stress.. They also got their things back and divorce process is ongoing.

[charlesmillard]

I love how the sister didn’t try to victim blame. She recognized the red flags and fled for the hills rather than make excuses

[summerglace]

So, seems nobodies mentioning the fact that he noticed she was gone shortly after she left. In the middle of the night. Meaning he went into her room in the middle of the night.

That makes my skin crawl. It’s just the question if she hadn’t left, would he have done something to her. Or, had he been doing that all along…

[nikkyk]

It's sad that the sister miscarried again. There is a bright side tho, she isn't bound to her ex husband because of a child.

[michellewallace]

Dude was trying to groom her and she didn't even realize. Hearing more and more she's honestly lucky. He could have gone off the deep end unalived her.

[KumoriShichiyou]

It's so scary being an adult and hearing this story, being able to clearly spot every red flag and creep behavior, but knowing the teenager writing the story doesn't have the life experience to spot it themselves.

[jsb]

Alarm bells started ringing the moment Jake started asking if OP had a crush, and it only got worse from there.
Alex and Jess really came in clutch for OP, they're good people.

[arcadius]

I actually got chills listening to this, he noticed immediately that she was gone so he went into her room with the assumption that she was asleep.

Vile bastard.

[angelav]

He totally would have done something to OP if alex hadn't come into the picture. He was just waiting for the right moment. Im glad her sister realized what a creep he was.

[leafyishereisdumbnameakath]

What kind of parents kick their own daughter out for not being able to pay rent while she already has a job? Such evil selfish parents who have caused their kids so much stress.

[madhatter]

Jake flew into a narcissistic rage when he was unable to groom her anymore

[aaronvector]

as soon as I heard 34 and 25, my radar was up. Then when he asked if she had a crush, I thought that was normal, but when he kept it going even calling her pretty etc I knew he was a wierdo

[crowfather]

The 9 year age difference plus his apparent fixation on OP tells me that he probably likes them young. Don't know if or why the parents would allow that, but from what I can gather from them, they seem like THOSE kind of parents.

[getcomfortable]

I get the feeling that it was her 6th sense that encouraged her to leave. If something tells you to go, you go. Always trust your instincts.

[SummonerOrthan]

Context im 17. STOP right there. Red Flag Red Flag. No ADULT should be getting pissy that his WIFES UNDERAGE SISTER has a boyfriend

[lifestyle]

Assuming that OP went to college at 18. This story means that Jess was 18 and Jake was 27🤮. And OP was 10 years old when she met Jake...

[helenal.]

Some parents are just... You can't evict a LITERAL CHILD for not paying you the rent they don't owe you. If you don't want the person living with you, don't have babies. I understand wanting rent from a grown adult but a freaking 16/17 year-old WHO IS STILL AT SCHOOL?

[moogan]

The first red flag was the age gap between the sister and Jake, and the fact they started dating when she started college

[climaxstriker]

when I read the title I was like "Why the fuck does he care? he's married."
then i see the fact that he's driving OP to school as well as to and from work.
"OK. I got a baaad feeling about this. mmmmaybe he's doing it to be a good brother in law, feels pretty sketch though, but it could be innoc- aaaand he's asking her about any guys she's met, saying she's beautiful. OK yeah he's a creep"

[AuntLoopy]

I saw the title and I saw the ages, and I thought, "That man married that woman JUST to get close to her little sister. Like in the novel 'Lolita.' They both need to get away from him, ASAP."