AITA for not giving my sister my wedding venue even if she is pregnant and needs it more?

AITA for not giving my sister my wedding venue even if she is pregnant and needs it more?

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[juanhaines]

I heard this whole saga multiple times. I hope this op is living her best life with her husband and child.

[SapphireExile]

I've heard this one before, and I'm still rooting for OP and her husband. The parents apparently look exhausted because now they're dealing with the consequences of spoiling the younger sister. OP did nothing wrong, and I, an internet stranger, am proud that she stood her ground and didn't give the wedding venue to her entitled sister. Not only did she not stop there, but she filed for a restraining order. That's someone who's screaming in their best Kurt Russell voice "Alright CUT THE BULLSHIT!". Keep vibin', OP!

[Trespacd]

“It’s just a venue” then why does she care so much about it?

[sanddagger]

It's quite obvious from the grad party story that the sister measured her own worth by how much more she had than OP and every success in OPs life was an insult to hers. She didn't even need the september wedding, just didn't want OP to have it.

[fabulouschicken]

I'm 1 of 7 and none of us were treated differently, my mom's favourite was our cats

[Theyreallyfooledyou]

She is wrong about something, the sister definitely is messed up mentally. She has the mindset of a 6yo having a petulant temper tantrum

[rainynight]

"I planned out my dream wedding and rented the venue 3 years in advance."

"My sister got engaged and didn't have anything planned or thought out and then announced she was pregnant."

From this alone, no. That is YOUR venue for YOUR wedding.

They can plan and get their own and have a spring wedding as they planned.

If they ABSOLUTELY must have the wedding before the baby comes, they can arrange that.

My wife and I got our wedding together in 8 months.

[chronixdubz]

Mf she waited 3 years for her wedding cause she had to book a venue and could only get a September spot at that specific venue no she’s not waiting a few more months

[lilithrodgers]

A shiny backbone is such a cool phrase.

[REcLUZE]

It's funny that now she says the opinion of a sleu of Internet strangers doesnt matter because they are family but when onslaughts of opinions leaning in her favor chime in to try to guilt trip you she wasnt disenvowing them

[scpfoundation]

Heard this one before. No she’s not the Asshole, her family is toxic and playing favorites. Jokes on them, all of that shxt backfired on them.

[droganovic]

Yeah, i feel bad for OP (and for her brother who moved away to escape). All around shitty situation

But you know who i _really_ feel bad for? The *almost* brother in law!

Dude was set to marry, he was gonna be a father

But then his future wife just took her mask off and showed him what she was actually like

Dude made a wise choice leaving, but for the next 18 years he's still stuck with this raging lunatic

He even called OP to apologize for something he didn't even do. Must've been so embarrassed by her behavior ☹️

[jerric]

The sister sounds developmentally halted and her friends probably are too, as is probably most of the people who didn’t see an issue with her behavior, excluding the adults who essentially shaped her into what she became. Don’t spoil your kids, that’s not love. Love is helping them learn to be better people so they don’t end up miserable and hated by everyone around them like OP’s sister will be.

[meganb]

It's ironic when the sister's fiance and his family are much more reasonable than OPs own folks.

[Foxofthecloud]

Shout out to the maid of honor for the push

[LinkPizza]

If I had a venue I had to booked 3 years in advance, I would not give it up. And just because someone is pregnant doesn’t mean they need the venue… They just want it. And the sister could have booked her own early if she wanted. And the dad mentioned, “It’s not about the venue, but the person you’re marrying.” But that also goes for the sister. It’s like people don’t think about what they’re saying just to get their way… Or the other’s who keep saying, “It’s just a venue.” So tell that to the sister who wants it so bad…

[Rachelgriece]

IM SORRY 3 YEARS OF PLANNING JUST TO GIVE IT AWAY TO HER SISTER. How do her parents believe it is selfish to not give the venue to the sister did a brick or stone hit their heads?
Edit: and having to share birthdays with her sister is just unfair. Can op not have just a single day where it’s about her and her fiancé.

[TheSergio]

If "the venue doesnt matter only the person you're marrying" then why the hell is she upset that she's not getting the venue?? 😑

[Antsaboy]

9:12 _"My mother tried to guilt trip me, saying that my sister is miserable."_ You mean insufferable?

[ishaanagarwal]

So unfortunate that selfish parents and siblings can cause so much hurt. More than any stranger could do.