I Caught My Sister Trying to Marry My Husband & the Twist Ending Will Shock You That How I Got My...

I Caught My Sister Trying to Marry My Husband & the Twist Ending Will Shock You That How I Got My Revenge.

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[angelch]

I know OP said she doesn't blame her parents, but I kinda do. Keeping the sister's alcoholism a secret wasn't in nobody's best interest, except maybe their own to protect their reputation. They knew what was going on between the sisters, and yet they told OP that her sister's relapses were vacations to fancy locations. And they knew OP's marriage had triggered her sister's relapse, and still didn't think this could lead to major confrontations between the two of them, or that the sister might end up doing something stupid or dangerous to OP. I just can't fathom what got them thinking that all of that was a good plan from the beginning.

[alexritchie]

'She's a raging alcoholic that we covered for, so you'd better be nice to her!' Isn't the defence her parents think it is.

[yu-gi-ohcasual]

So to recap Nina:

-felt like OP, her own baby sister, would become "her competition" once OP was born, except Nina said herself there was no reason for that

-resented OP for existing

-treated OP like dirt when they were growing up because of said resentment

-rejected all attempts OP made to be closer as kids

-got the golden child treatment from her parents. OP says they were treated equally but they obviously favored Nina by never punishing her for her cruel actions towards OP as a kid or as an adult

-got upset when OP got Marcus, the guy Nina wanted, except Marcus didn't know Nina liked him nor did he return her feelings yet Nina refused to acknowledge this

-cut off OP for getting engaged to Marcus

-years later, tried to ruin OP's marriage and start an affair with Marcus

-was so delusional and in her own reality that she thought Marcus, who showed no interest in her whatsoever, wanted to marry her

-thought her bedroom wedding that ended in little to no texting afterwards was legit

-tried to kick OP out of her home and steal all of her stuff

-threw a tantrum when she found out her stupid game had won her a stupid prize

-despite multiple trips to rehab, continued to buy and consume alcohol

-got their parents to side with Nina by having them treat both sisters as doing equally terrible things when Nina was clearly the only one in the wrong

-made OP feel guilty for her alcohol relapse

-makes OP feel immensely guilty for doing nothing wrong

-refused to be friendly with OP but said they could have a fresh start

And yet... OP was the scapegoat throughout all of this for her family. Nah. NTA, Nina is a psycho and the parents were playing clear favorites here no matter what they say.

[johnduquette]

Parents' fault. Didn't let OP know stuff she should have known.

[Fluffykunn]

So let me get this straight...because her sis was dealing with addiction OP should have just let it slide. Her sister was willing to ruin OPs life but because she's an addict OP should be understanding and let it slide? NTA all she did was documents how unhinged she is. On top of that OPs parents conveniently forgot to mention sis was dealing with addiction troubles and lied saying she was on vacation.

So was OP just supposed to let her sister do whatever she wanted just cause she has a drinking problem?

[UpEXP]

Op thinking her sister was "getting vacations" from her parents wasn't a 'jealous hatred' thing. It was a "seeing bad behavior being rewarded and thinking it was unfair and indicative of the undeserved sheer amount of unconditional faith in OP's sister OP would have to contend with, even with the psycho delusional stunt she tried to pull on OP" thing.
The parents really want to pretend that OP telling her sister to fuck off and then coming to them about it was the course of action OP should've taken as if they themselves would have made sure that OP's sister remained fucked off away from OP by cracking down on and no longer enabling the sister's bad behavior. And that they think they've built up the impression that OP could've come to them without having to overcome the wall of seemingly undeserved faith in OP's sister instead of of having to do this ridiculously mean sting operation just to have undeniable proof that their daughter was a jealous homewrecking thot in the first place.
I'm however happy that OP got the "This one-sided competition was meaningless all along. Let's stop fighting" ending straight from the movies. But the sister getting away with ATTEMPTED HOMEWRECKING(y'know usually something unforgivable, especially when commited by close family because it makes the betrayal that deeper) with "it was just a competition and the hookah made me do it" without great efforts of repentance from the sister is pretty fucking wild to me.

[DarkEinherjar]

ESH. Everyone needed to apologize, including the parents. Hiding the sister's alcohol issues was just wrong.

[murdock]

This is very much an ESH thing. Parents for hiding everything from OP. Nina for this BS competition thing. OP for doing this telenovela level BS on her sister. The parents, for sure, are the worst part in this. I don't care what OP says, if the parents had hidden everything from OP that she would have had some perspective on Nina's life and it never would have gotten to this crap.

[dominiccarroll]

Being an alcoholic doesn’t excuse you from being an AH. She wasn’t drunk when she was actively trying to take her sister’s husband. If anyone is to blame for her relapse it’s the parents who excused every crazy thing she did.

[Sizzle]

alcohol/addiction isnt an excuse to be a home-wrecker.

[yothiga]

The parent kinda right, tho. Create a fake wedding instead of making her sister get help is kinda mess up.

[cerbus]

the sister's alcohol problem started way before she tried to steal OP's life.

[lanrelara]

Should I feel bad for the sister? Probably not.

[ajillofmanytrades]

Nta. The sister was disgusting and left op in the dark. Come at me trying to steal my life, I would lose it.

[lastraven]

I wonder how much of the alcoholism stemmed from the initial issue between the sisters that wasnt addressed I do think the prank was drawn out way too long but I don't think she can be blamed for wanting revenge on a homewrecker if Marcus hadn't have been a stand up guy she would be cheating on her behind her back. That said I'm glad it all worked out ok and I think it was them all seeing how far they had gone that gave a wake up call. I think the parents probably said the same biting statement to the sister which may have caused her not to call them

[curlyq]

I couldn’t help but laugh at the last part, she got her Yellow Roses!
For those who don’t know, yellow roses within the flower language means Jealousy. It made me laugh at the irony hearing that she got her yellow roses!

[midnightmave]

I think ESH here. While OP was not entitled to the full details of what Nina was going through with her addiction, the parents absolutely could have told OP that Nina was going through some behavioral problems and was seeking professional help. Nina was dead wrong for creating competition where there wasnt any and for trying to destroy her sister's marriage. OP was wrong for messing with Nina like that. If she really wanted to highlight how Nina was harassing her husband, they could have just as easily recorded another call where Nina begged to be his mistress and not pulled the wedding stunt.

[seziey]

NTA if i saw my brother tryna steal my wife id be pissed and probaly woulda done kinda the same thing and also the parents are stupid they should of told her instaid of keeping it a secret for 30 YEARS it would of been easier to have a sit down with the family atleast the OP about it what do they gain by keeping this a secret

[LoudAngryJerk]

as a rule, if the name of the post has the phrase "the end will shock you" or any variation thereof, it's bullshit. This reads like it was written by an ai to the point that I can recognize a few of the stories it pulled from.

[bearsong]

You OP are not your sisters keeper or a parent. You did nothing wrong. You are human too and need to be loved and protected.