Hard Lessons in Christian Dating

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In a culture that either demonizes men or excuses them, we need men to know that God has a mission for them to pursue. To lead and love well.
Join me as I work through the challenges, and joys of what it means to be a man. This is a place for men to be strengthened on their mission to lead and love.

[Messenger]

Have morals as a man. Women aren't the only ones that can have standards.

If she clubs and drinks and lives like the world then it's ok for you not to be interested in her and not pursue her

[TheBanjoShowOfficial]

Very very relatable things. Being with my current girlfriend has taught me I actually have a lot to mature. I see so many of my insecurities and anxieties, ignorance, lack of understanding, lack of planning, etc. But together we strengthen each other.

[piebytez]

I know someone in their mid-thirties who hasn't been on a date since highschool prom and has no interest in dating or marriage. But she definitely loves God, some people just like being single and feel no need to get married. It's interesting how marriage is put on a pedestal in a lot of Christian circles, yet Paul even said it's best to not marry since you can serve God wholly without needing to take care of a spouse and children. Not that marriage is bad or not important, but I wonder if marriage would count as an idol for some Christians.

[vickioreo]

I know this channel is for men, but I learn a lot from this channel. God bless you and your family

[Elvioso]

Broken down intensely. Let God show you who you are and who he is created you to be.

[vanessacontreras]

This was very enlightening. Thank you, as a woman who went through something really similar with an ex. He chose to walk away and not do the work and I was heartbroken. But it led me straight back to Jesus as I was away from Him and he didn't know Him personally. We were unequally yoked. It hurt, but some people choose easy and choose not to have a teachable heart. I think that's what's most important. And humility.

[noahbrewer]

I'm 25, single since 2019, spent most of my life single, and all I can think about is how in 5 years that I'll be 30 amd that nothing will have changed. At this point I'm just tired of harboring this desire that has done absolutely nothing but torment me all my life. I've settled into exactly where I'm supposed to be, but the current dating climate is next to impossible right now.

[narrowgateYM]

Thank you for sharing
I think in Dating like a lot of things there's a temptation to “Wait till you're ready” but I think more often than not it's being in those things and being challenged that causes you to be ready

[joelbumba]

Deal With the issues that hurt. Stop 🛑 dealing with the symptoms...

[anthonym.]

I’m 25 and I met a godly woman that I want to marry. She is everything and more that God put in my heart to look for in a partner. I am so thankful to have met her. This video is very relatable lol!

[CarlosDavidArizagaSwenson]

Man, I clicked this video almost feeling obligated to because it's about jesus but it's crazy how much I just learned from this video. I related with everything you said. Thank you. Praise God!

[VvnazzyvV]

When he talked about comfort and the man being the one to set the tone of "this is not what we're gonna do", that really encouraged me to know that there are men out there who also feel and think the same way. as a woman, I'd love for my man to lead me in this part of the relationship too and to hold each other accountable

[Dontmatter]

This video is what I needed. Damn 😢 thank you

[Chid]

Divine timing. God def sent this vid to me. I'm supposed to make it official and exclusive this weekend and in the short time we've known each other i'm battling so many vunerablilities so much so i'm second guessing if im ready. Every struggle u had i'm having. but i now know its going to be ok. I know she's a 1 in a million. and i know God will bless us.

[herbiewalkermusic]

One thing I really struggle with Christianity and religion in general is esoteric spiritual language.

When you say ‘God stretched me’ or ‘God was really testing me’, what do you mean? And is there a way you could explain what you mean without using spiritual language, so that your ideas are accessible to all people?

[treyanderson]

Thank you, I just got into a relationship that I feel is good and Christ centered and some of these thoughts were creeping into my mind. I’m glad you were open and vulnerable to making this video. It is helping to equip me for the journey ahead!

[SC-rbmb]

This is a Golden video. The part that i related so much was the DIY skills. Long story short, I was dating a women in the faith, kept it real and told her its my weakness but I was willing to learn. I tried my best to help her one day, she appreciated the effort, but a few months later decided to compare my efforts to her brother and made me feel my efforts weren’t enough.. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[barnabashorvath]

Sometimes I think we live the same lives:D I can relate to your vids on an insane level. Thank God, for leading me here and teaching me through you. Keep doing His work!😊🙏

[stillgeneric]

She’s out there, somewhere. Just have to wait, until we find each other.

[dexterluth]

feels very relatable, would be great to see more stuff about this