FEMININE communication explained

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Bridging the communication gap.

This episode of PsycHacks is about the difference between masculine and feminine communication. Specifically, I explain the information-driven approach typically associated with masculine communication, and compare it to the experience-driven style more commonly used by women, and I highlight the importance of recognizing and understanding these differences as a means of improving communication between the sexes.

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

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[chicolofi]

From a masculine perspective, that is truly psychotic.

[michaeljmyers]

OHHHH. That's why they get upset when you don't react the way they want you to. They expect you to feel what they feel

[ivanchelo]

I have never hear a woman reveal that she was wrong, comically or otherwise.

[barefootarts]

I typically assume that someone trying to get me to feel something, is manipulation. And without my consent, it's offensive. And even an insult to my intelligence. I guess I'm screwed.

[dominicanfrankster]

It's empathy, but that level is reserved for the own-group.

[dbii]

Same thing happens with men but we have to be drunk

[M_Faraday]

This explains so much, especially the tendency many women have of paraphrasing things into more emotionally charged terms.

[-haclong]

This is actually also how both children and aggressive males communicate, as a father of young children I often see kids just randomly scream, cry, laugh, Etc. with each other from one moment to another. It's very emotional and verbal communication exists secondary in service of emotional communication.

[EriPages]

The thought of being subjected to listening to a group of women speak made Me shutter.

[polemeros]

Bingo! When my sister and I were involved in dispute with other family members, I would calmly agree with her and she would accuse me of not being supportive and not "getting" it. All because I did not match her emotional pitch. To this male, very frustrating.

[SourceLeadership]

As a female leader I only naturally talk like that with women, and then shift to the logical side with men and also women who are balanced in their m/f. Love the diversity of life. 🎉

[srikrishnavasanth]

Indirect communication in one word explanation.
(Women like emotional rollercoaster)
While men not.
It's emotions alone not logic.

[BigJohnson]

This is why we refer women to the "female hivemind". Everything is group based thinking. There is no individuality with females. They are all the same because the outliers are ostracized from the group.

[flowstate]

Female nature is chaotic and manipulative at its core so this makes perfect sense.

[aek]

Pretty amazing verbal analysis to the point.

[iteaire]

Omg, as a female with pretty much only female friends. I realize how much I self isolate from our chat groups. Like I don’t want to hear about your daily drama, it affects me. emotions are contagious, I know this as fact. Which is why I keep most of my problems to myself. However, my girlfriends do not understand this, and bombard me with daily texts 🤦🏻‍♀️ I have even gone as far as to cut off a specific best friend for a few years, because her neurosis was affecting my emotional health. I tell everybody now, my gay friends and females…. Do not contact me when you are depressed, I can’t help you. As I am already managing my own mental health, anybody else’s personal drama and I’ll drown. Thanks!

[monikel]

From my feminine perspective who hates drama, fakeness and BS, I never join to women's groups.

[stevensteven]

Women are children, dont try to read to much into them, simply thread them as children and you will be fine around them.

[lobsterbisque]

This makes glad that I walked away from dating 16yrs ago! I got frustrated, and just stopped trying to understand the bedlam & madness women bring. My life has been much simpler, and peaceful since. I have no regrets

[RomeoWhiskey]

This is the most intelligent thing you have ever produced .