MALE CHASTITY & SEXUAL DENIAL | How to Play with Chastity

Male chastity is a deeply taboo topic - most people still know nothing about it and others feel deeply ashamed of being interested in it. But chastity, tease and sexual denial are great erotic practices that anybody can play with.
So in this weeks' video, I'm going to teach you how to play with male chastity.

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Chapters:
0:00 Intro
0:55 What is male chastity
1:14 Why are men into it?
1:45 Is it just about sex?
2:13 What men get out of it?
3:22 How does male chastity develop?
3:45 How to play with male chastity?
5:00 What if your partner isn't into it?
5:34 How to talk to your partner about it?
6:18 Important final thoughts
7:03 Outro

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MALE CHASTITY & SEXUAL DENIAL | How to Play with Chastity

[satan]

I'm in a domestic discipline female lead relationship. My wife locks me up from time to time. It's absolute torture to me. Yet I absolutely love it.

[HDtireshredder]

Great video, thanks for taking the time to make it and do the research.
I have had several devices over the years. 🥰🔒

[bbqguy]

I love your videos and expertise! I’ve never really thought about this subject before, but it sounds interesting. Thanks for diving into the non-mainstream topics!

[davidward]

Thank you for the great video. I found my first real keyholder and she seems really strict. She’s not going to send my keys back to me until 6 months have passed if I behave perfectly she says, otherwise she said it will be longer. I’m excited but also nervous 🙂

[innopva]

great stuff locktober 204 underway so far so good. any more videos on power dynamics??

[subhashishpanda]

Great video Helena. Your expertise on so many varieties of topics is simply wonderful..you are the best ❤️❤️

[SagarPatil-pyqq]

Very informative 👏👏 You look stunning 🥰❤️❤️

[herwishbabii]

Doing this journey of wearing a device and surrender this energy to my GF is a deepening intimate and bounding experience. There are basically two ways this works. Having an agreed duration or an indefinite period where she decides when, where and how. In both as the length of time I find I become more attentive and sensitive to her needs. In pleasing her she can fully enjoy with out interrupting her experience with thoughts of obligation to reciprocate. I find her pleasure becomes my reward and am in a position where I can learn her timing, talk and touch. When she decides the timing of when I find excitement with her becoming decisive. I get into learning how she makes decisions and how my supporting her decisions can be rewarding. With the cage through out the day when I get excited my thoughts go back to her and the feeling of being held.

[JoeJ-]

This isn't something that I would prefer while in a relationship I don't think, (maybe, but probably not), however, due to life circumstances, I have always been involuntarily "playing" this "role" for almost 50 years already, as I am still a total virgin, never having had a GF, or even ANY woman interested in ever being with me at all...

I guess I'm just too "ugly" (at least physically, as I know I'm a really good guy, with a great Spirit on the inside), but because of my overall looks, especially in my face, (which I can't change except with extremely expensive and dangerous surgery), women always just think I'm "weird" or "creepy" looking, and they usually will never even look at me, much less smile at me or talk to me, especially if I ever try to approach them first. :(

I'm SO done with all of that BS, so I've essentially gone into "monk mode" or "MGTOW", and basically become what some refer to as an "incel", (involuntarily celibate), because that is the only thing I can be since women just aren't ever attracted to me.

I'm so over anything to do with women and relationships and $3× by this point in my life, that I don't even have any interest in pron or masturbation anymore either. (At least I don't have an addiction to it like so many other guys apparently do!)

Oh well, not concerning myself with or interacting with women at all anymore has been a "blessing in disguise" in recent years especially, as it has given me the total freedom to do whatever I want wherever and whenever I want, especially with my nerdy hobbies and such.

For some reason I'm still interested in at least KNOWING about topics about relationships and $3×, but I doubt either of those things will realistically ever happen for me, so learning about any topics related to any of that stuff is just purely for my information knowledge and entertainment value only.

[Menshinin]

Вы рассказываете интересные вещи, никогда о таком не залумывался раньше. Спасибо.

[DarkGemini]

Surrender truly is magical. And chastity is hardly the only way to surrender your power to the Divine Female. Committing yourself to loving service is astoundingly freeing.

[chriseverett]

Thank you for an amazing video. Given me lots to think about.

[vikramsaini]

That was really enlightening.. Thanks for sharing ❤

[michaelsylvester]

Thanks for sharing Helena!
Great information.

[Bigtalkbecker]

It's so 🔥 letting someone else have control thanks for the video

[danielrobbins]

Oh! Male chastity? I wrote an article in my high school newspaper about the "best contraceptive" - and that was abstinence until marriage. Then, I had to LIVE that message, and I am STILL living it! But once I finally get married, I will finally have those "tuhn" or "tuelue" children I have known for a long time I will have. Not to be confused with "ten" or "twelve", even though, of course, that will be an excellent start! <3

[justinparry]

Thank you for this common sense video that avoids any of the FemDom mythology that often surrounds this subject. I hope you'll do a follow-up video that addresses the health concerns associated with long-term locked in chastity (such as the effect on penis elasticity if nocturnal penile tumescence is prevented or its effect on muscle tone and thus penis size). Too few key holders (male and female) know how to safely use cages.

[kidwildmale]

Helena another great video 👍 Very informative Girlfriend and I enjoy chastity play 😊

[ZINCO]

It is also very important the other part of the play: the Female teasing because there are two parts of the play: the submissive and the Dominant. Often this play (man chastity) is linked to cuckolding experience. ❤ thank You beautiful wonderful Goddess

[doyouseeityet]

I would love to see a video on chastity device safety, realistic length of time that is safe to wear one, etc…