6 Male Chastity Secrets *Revealed* | Ms. Elle X

6 Male Chastity Secrets *Revealed* | Ms. Elle X

With Locktober trending within kink communities this month, I wanted to address some of the biggest misconceptions about male chastity! So tune in today as I reveal seven of the biggest secrets behind male chastity and how you can successfully engage in this type of play with your Female Keyholder!

XOXO, Ms. Elle X

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(0:00) - Intro
(0:41) - Secret #1
(3:30) - Secret #2
(4:50) - Secret #3
(6:13) - Secret #4
(8:03) - Secret #5
(11:55) - Secret #6
(13:05) - Close

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[Candiece]

Love that she points out that it isn't about showing off....it's about connection with the key holder. And love that she talks about the unrealistic expectations of fantasies about keeping it locked up. Adjusting male focus to becoming her reality.

[JayneCapone]

I think that a lot of those showing off their "caged rooster" probably don't have a keyholder and are self locking. I would be willing to bet that there are more locked in chastity without keyholders then with a keyholder.
Thanks for all the great and informative videos! 😘

[hgfirmrabbit]

Your points about how male subs make it center around themselves is so true. It's hard to stand away from that crowd but also stand get noticed. Just want a wholesome dynamic and struggling

[justinfinding]

Dear Ms Elle, Your ability to put kinks (not just this one) into perspective is wonderful. I found your channel while looking to educate myself about bDsm, and your explanations are so clear and easy to understand but what I value above all is your sense of morality and humanity and your determination to protect people
from abuse and exploitation. I’m a novice to kink/bDsm and would like to ask you all kinds of questions if I may. I see a link called Contact in the description: is that the place to go?

[communistflower]

I'm so happy to see someone talk about this within the community. I have been seeing people talk about the chasisty as if you are automatically a sissy for wearing one. Which is not the case I used to only do it for the case of I liked it reminding me that I serve my Mistress.

There was no sissification to it. Now I have added that to it but it was only after a year of only chasisty. Which my Mistress loved and I loved too. It made me more focused on her physically and mentally. Also don't see why you would show it off I feel like you should not be doing that unless your Mistress says so.

As always I loved the video kisses and hugs.

[TheInfo]

This particular video was so perfect . So informative and the clarification on your points hit home. I will gladly share it with my sub.

[alisonclunes]

I love that you encourage our individuality and preferences, eschewing the prescribed common view of this subject. Thank you .

[jimmyd]

Great informative video! Nice list and as a married man in the FLR chastity lifestyle, we explore and experience everything on your lists. Didn't happen overnight but took time, patience and obedience to get where we are today. It's all about her, not us men, and pleasing her. Its the best lifestyle to live ❤️🔐

[IanCowboy]

Wow! Gotta be the best video ive ever heard on this topic!
I have had a Male keyholder in the past. He was an old friend and i had trenendous atrraction to him but nothing ever happened.
Weve spoke about trying it again and im definitely going to use more of these techniques of servitude for him.
Thank you!

[lalalawootzors]

I just came across your channel and I find it very informative! You explain things very clearly and thoroughly. You also offer several different perspectives for each subject that you talk about. Thank you for the time and effort that you have put into your videos and everything that you do. I look forward to watching more and learning from your videos.

[dougarnold]

Thank you ma'am.
12:10... Chastity can stand alone.
I've practiced it that way a lot and its very effective.
Years ago i started writing a personal
roleplay rune/card deck and i gave chastity it's own designation separate from crossdressing.

I love your points here and i think this is good general advice. Most people in the lifestyle will do well with this advice.

My experience on some of these has been different. Some alpha females love to have devotional oral worship only from their slaves. ...especially if your exchange includes cuckoldry, consented on cheating, alpha open/sub closed types of expression. In that, if she says no drilling the vag id respect that explicitly. ...in those expressions too she may limit oral worship to foot and ass.
(One expression of chastity that often gets overlooked is masturbatory devotion with some type of focus that the alpha determines)

I really love limitations on touch in roleplay exchange. Touch limitation is such a powerful bond.
Our culture reduces touch to a meaningless, trite, many times coercive communication. Older cultures reserved touch for the meaningful expression it should be (in my opinion)
Try limiting touch to one or two expressions such as feet and ass worship only for the slave for an extended time... maybe a year ...and see if touch becomes a sacred thing as well as a powerful bond. Too much familiarity can kill a beautiful roleplay exchange.

Thank you again ma'am. My comment is not meant as a disrespect or disregard of your advice. 🤘

[martinshelley]

#1 Always look Stunning and Breathtaking #2 Is This an older video/clip??? Your hair is longer In an earlier Q & A session{ I love to watch] you had just gotten a haircut[hair was shorter] #3 Always top notch education/video/information

[mr_x]

best video about chastity i ever saw :)

[jwelk]

You are an absolute goddess, you look breathtaking. Thanks so much for sharing your brilliance here. Please write a book, do some TED talks, and teach some classes in feminism and women's studies. An upcoming generation of women needs you.

[amandaa]

As a new key holder this is so insightful!

[gregm]

What messes me up the most is that there is a need for this stuff to be educated to people.

[kpdave]

Thank You Ms. Elle X for giving me permission to support You with this gift

[markgray]

And it really sucks not having a keyholder

[jp]

9:27. Thank you!!!.
I was having a difficult time trying to find a way to explore this and that's what I needed to understand!

[mikecarlos]

I mean personally I used mine to combat heavyporn and masturbation addiction so I was my own key holder. I'm also gay. So like if I had a keybolder it would be a man...