INFJ - THE HARSH, BUT EMPOWERING REALITY BREAK OF THE INFJ

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Aug 7th, 6pm CET, 12pm EST, 9am PST

INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today, we're talking about the harsh, but empowering INFJ reality break. Somebody of you asked me to do an entire video on this topic because I've been talking about this forever, but always as like a little by-product of my story, okay. It's important to talk about it because my "reality break" changed everything. It really is our safety cushion that just falls away. I've experienced this while talking to many INFJs over the years that yes, maybe not everybody has experienced a reality break, but it's a turning point. And it's something that none of us expect could happen to such an extent. It's really a psychological breakdown that makes room for everything new to come. And so many of us experienced that. And also so many of us get stuck at that place, or maybe shortly before that because the fear of what it will mean to cross that bridge is just too big. Or once they take that leap and once they go through it, they feel like: "Okay, this is just so hard and I've lost everything and I might just stay here, because you know, how can it get any better? I've lost all my dreams today." I'm going to talk to you about how you can change that, how you can make that reality break the best thing that ever happened to you. Because we, as INFJs look at it from a very particular perspective for us, it's so much more than a little ego loss. It has everything to do with the way we see the world and the way we see ourselves within that world.

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Have you experienced a "reality break" in the past?

Wenzes

Actually, I have had THREE reality breaks. One was spiritual, another was conversational, and the third was social. I could write a full length book on each one, but the common factor was this: to be more true to myself and to do, think, choose and communicate things that were more authentic to who I really was - and still am! 🙂

lindateuling

I tend to think of this one as a boundary lesson. This "break" teaches you your own depth, forces you to recover, and ultimately forces you to grow. This really is an amazing built-in infj safety net all its own (kinda like a momma eagle throwing its kid out of the nest - you will fly, after all you are built for it). Thank you for bringing it to light.

rickriggs

Hi Wenzes. I'm actually hoping for a reality break, I feel mine is long overdue. I'm fairly new to MBTI, and it was a real revelation to find out that there are others who have the same thought process as I. I've been studying and watching videos, but taking those first steps is still daunting. I'm not going to give up however, as this INFJ has incredible sticktoitiveness .

I discovered your videos a few weeks ago. I think you have a gift for articulating the INFJ reality better than any source I've come across. Thank you.

kristianfarren

I don't usually comment, but thanks a lot for this one. :)

mlbullbooks

Have I experienced a "reality break" in the past ? Yes. I once was in the so called "people pleasing business". If I allowed it, that happened a lot being a mechanic. My free time got monopolized and folks showed some unrealistic expectations. Well, I had always had known that I possessed the capability of owning my own home. So, I bought one in the next county over (50 miles away) and got away from those folks that wouldn't leave me alone. Since then, I have lived in peace and quiet in the country without all that hassle. I don't feel used anymore. Plus, I find it easier to pursue and reach goals as well. I've been getting some things done without negatively affecting anyone.

mr.goodwrench

7:30 the truth is people will still most likely love you more when you’re authentic with yourself.

obidavekenobe

Yes, I have had reality breaks in the past. It can be really scary, but it is like gravity, there is no use resisting. Something better always came out of it and I could look back and see it was for the best. I am actually feeling like another one is coming my way because there will be a big change in my life next week. So thank you for this very timely video which I found very encouraging! Love from Annie in NH, USA

amjPeace

Yes! The most recent one I had was like two days ago when I skipped work and decided I was going to pursue the things I want no matter who gets dissapointed in me, or if I seem selfish, I know I am good and I can do everything I want but I have to communicate it first and let people (and myself) know that I am a complete human being with many emotions and beliefs, and I have to live and support that because no one is going to do it for me. Everyone always wants me to do what they tell me to and I owe myself to live MY life. Thank you so so much I'm tired of not choosing myself

lovecherrymoonx

This is exactly what I am going through, it's so hard . Am not only grieving the relationships that I lost because of it but also the old me, how I used to see the world . It was an intense breakdown, I have being in a black hole over three years on the inside, but on the outside I completely changed my entire life . It gave me so much power to change and grow, but it's so painful to the point I would go numb for days and weeks . It's so powerful and I am grateful but still it's not something I wish on anything . Thank you so much wenzes, this video really helped me make sense of it, I would appreciate it if you can talk more about it, specifically how to deal with the pain and numbness and how long does it take ?!

khadraLuula

We cannot take nor fix everyone like we wish, we must let go, and serve gods will. He is patiently waiting…

ryanunderwood

Много полезни клипчета, благодаря. Някак си ми прави силно впечатление огромното количество труд, който е отишъл в усъвършенстването на английския език. Българската "твърдост" почти не се усеща, впечатляващо!

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