'Feminine Trans Men Are VALID!'

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Mental Health, Psychology, Trans surgeries, Gender transition, Medical procedures, TikTok, Reaction video, Hormone replacement therapy, Therapy, Trans doctor, Trans kids. Transgender, FTM, MTF, Dylan Mulvaney, Trans activism, Trans activist, Trans rights, Gender affirming care, Woke, Wokeness, Non binary, Testosterone, Estrogen, Pronouns, Jazz Jennings, LGBTQIA+, LGBT, LGBTQ

[RiiLaoen]

BPD = Borderline personality disorder, not bipolar. Your point still stands though ✌️

[orcashadow]

When EVERYTHING is valid, nothing is valid.

[lukefarrell]

Your opening statements rang so true. I'm a man, I'm straight.... I'm also tactile with friends, I'm creative, I enjoy the arts and opera. I cry at certain films and songs. I also like sports, beer and rock music. I am not "fluid" I'm a boring straight man

[maryp]

I have 2 transgendered friends each transitioned 40 and 35 yrs ago. I have known both since childhood. Neither has ever claimed to be women, even though both quietly fit in. Neither has drawn attention to themselves and hate what is happening now and want no part of this crap. Neither has ever called me a cis-woman because I am not a cis anything, I am a woman.

[mariecherrytree]

Again it seems that personality traits, fashion taste, and kinks have been confused with gender.

[PallasAthena-db]

"Valid": the next word being overused, after "inclusive", "diverse", "safe" and "ally". The dictionary is more and more abused.

[Camilingue]

I have big boobs, especially now after having breastfed 3 babies. Would I feel better about my body if I had smaller boobs? Absolutely. I wish I could take them off and feel so much more comfortable wearing clothes. That does not make me trans tho lol this is so idiotic

[blackkakari]

"I'm a woman who identifies as a man but prefers to present as a woman." Talk about taking three lefts to make a right.

[NativeGnosis]

The slight feminity you have just comes off to me as being a cute, twinky, gay boy. You keep being you - you're fabulous the way you are.

[mrsb]

You are a breath of fresh air and sanity in this increasingly mad world.

[punklover]

Can we go back to calling them trans trenders

[snivybun]

really appreciated the little OCD mention, for many years it ruined my life as well as my dad's who also has it. we have it under control now but it'll always be part of us. Just appreciate you being well educated on it, means a lot to see

[isabelgomez]

I think some of these people confused gender dysphoria with regular body dysphoria, such as anorexia (it's an eating disorder but it works with dysphoria). MANY women feel dysphoric about their breasts. Many women with large breasts want a breast reduction, many women with small breasts feel like men or a child and want a breast augmentation.
As a female teenager, you tend to have dysphoria because its a CRAZY change, to have these two things pop out even if they're small. You get sexualized so quickly as a girl, it's normal, almost impossible, not to feel uncomfortable in your body, to the point of having dysphoria, cause it's a huge, change. It's too much! But that does NOT mean you have GENDER dysphoria! You're just going through a human experience.

[andresanguianozuniga]

Since they crafted the term "Cis-Passing" i took the activist lobby ABSOLUTELY NOT SERIOUSLY...
The start was not needing "Dysphoria" to transition.

What they say, NOT WHAT THEY DO.

What they do is just damage.

[AMKB]

I had "top surgery" about 20 years ago. It was a medically necessary reduction mammoplasty. Before the surgery, I seriously considered getting down to an A cup, but settled on a B. My surgeon actually tried to persuade me to go to a C cup, because it would be "more proportionate to [my] size". The reduction was substantial enough that I basically had my chest reconstructed, including reducing the size of my areola and relocating them. I've never quite regained the feeling in my nips because of this, and I still have visible scars. It was the best decision I ever made. When I was given information about the surgery in advance, one of the things I read was that a reduction had the highest post surgical positivity than any other type of plastic surgery, and I can understand why.

Which is what it was. Plastic surgery. It may have been medically necessary for me, but what these girls suddenly happy with their "top surgery" did was get a cosmetic reduction mammoplasty. They got boob jobs. Just to be smaller, instead of bigger. Which has absolutely nothing to do being trans or "masc". It's like getting a nose job. You can get plastic surgery without pretending to be trans, for crying out loud!!

[michellej]

You can get obsessed with something and think it means everything at a young age and then suddenly it doesn’t and you’ve had irreversible surgery. If they were born at a different time or in a different culture they wouldn’t have ended up like this. It’s a sad time for for young people.

[jamisonfawkes]

i was one of those young women with other mental health issues who wound up transitioning. i’m now 29 and looking into breast reconstruction. my medical transition was the biggest mistake of my life, but i still stand with actual transsexuals who benefit from it

[Werewolfwrath]

The big problem with this for me is that when these activists are actually able to provide an answer to the infamous "What is a woman?" question that isn't just "whoever identifies as one", they usually say something along the lines of "someone who presents or expresses themselves in a feminine way", thereby erasing the identities of masculine women, aka tomboys, in the process.

Yet, for some reason, they also repeatedly say that drag queens aren't the same as trans women, despite the former meeting the same "presenting/expressing themsevles as feminine" requirements as the latter. And now they're saying that trans men can be feminine too, even though being feminine is what many of them claim being a woman really means. All the while, they continue to say that a cis-gendered woman that acts traditionally feminine perpetuates harmful standards/stereotypes towards women.

These contradicting and ever-changing arugments they keep making are why I can't agree with them at all, even though I'm usually a pretty open-minded person.

[aussiefox]

Being trans should not mean wearing it like a piece of clothing.

[britpoppansy]

Oh hell, Marcus. You describe the gender dysphoria so well. I won't even get pink anything. Not a pink shirt. Not a pink washcloth. There's no way in hell I'm wearing any makeup. I'm NOT GOING TO wear girl clothes. The misery if I had to for some bizarre reason!!