Infidelity - Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating

It can be frightening and frustrating. You believe, or are completely convinced, that your spouse is cheating on you... yet, you don’t have enough proof to absolutely know.

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In this video, we’ll share a roadmap for you to assess whether or not it’s likely that your spouse is cheating. And, we’ll tell you what you can do moving forward.

We want to preface this by saying: be wise. Don’t immediately think an affair is happening if one of the things we mention is going on. Rather, make sure you read through and evaluate all of the options.

The key to the “Roadmap” (RDMAP) is this: something has CHANGED in your spouse in the following areas:

1. Responses- your spouse’s responses to you. They could be evading questions or accusing you. Remember, these responses do not necessarily mean infidelity has occurred. Your spouse could be hiding something ELSE.

2. Different treatment from your spouse’s family or friends. This could include discomfort, avoidance, or negative emotions.

3. Missing time, money, and/or affection.

4. Altered or new behaviors/appearance, beliefs and values, or family involvement.

5. Protected devices, places, or storage of things.

Remember to think BIG picture. If all of these are happening, it doesn’t necessarily mean infidelity or addiction, however, something may be going on that you may need to look into.

And, don’t snoop. You can lose your leverage to rectify the situation if you snoop.

So, what do you do next? Have a calm conversation. Do not attack or accusing, but explain how some changes have bothered you. Ask that your spouse respects you and tells the truth, but do not attack your spouse. It’s important that he/she feels SAFE to tell the truth.

But what can you do if your spouse does not open up? Continue to pay attention to signs. If evidence comes across, you can say you discovered it without snooping.

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Comment below and let us know what you think about this video, how you may implement it, and how you may have found hope! We love reading your comments!

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0:00 Introduction
3:05 RESPONSES TO YOU a. Evades Questions
6:38 DIFFERENT TREATMENT
11:20 MISSING a. Time b. Money c. Affection
14:06 ALTERED OR NEW BEHAVIORS
25:08 CALL 1 (866) 903 - 0990

[MarriageHelper]

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[levhugh]

People act differently when they are cheating !

[ST-cywe]

If your spouse doesn't mention you on their facebook page, they are cheating

[lindakhatijahkhatri]

Yes you can forgive that person but to continue with them it's painful

[DVTOM]

I look back now and see all the signs but never noticed them when it was happening. So glad she took off and let me have a great life without her.

[WorldWideWebObserver]

So glad I’ve found your channel. Your honesty and decency is refreshing! I’m exhausted by society’s lying, gossiping, selfishness, greed, and stupidity. It’s great to see that there are some good people in this world. Thanks for your integrity and common sense.

[toddpatterson]

12 minutes in and this whole video describes my whole relationship

[sanction]

If your spouse rejects you sexually, it is the same thing as cheating.

[Jz-svju]

Sooner or later, people will reap what they sow. When karma comes knocking at their door, the payment due on the balance of life will be tenfold.

[schwabsgarage]

I feel like this was specifically was directed to me in a way it hurts but same time I don't feel so crazy anymore. Thank yall very much

[jinxed]

My thinking is: if they choose to pick someone else, they've already decided they no longer want me nor do they love me to have decided to break that trust. They've already made that decision to allow themselves, their heart and mind, to be turned away from me

If a man doesn't want to be kept, he will not be kept no matter what the spouse does

[Erçinysl]

Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one *johnson spy* . You did a good job of catching the mistakes and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work! Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You’re a force to be reckoned

[maureencline]

PROTECTED / GO OUT TO HER CAR TO GET SOMETHING OUT THE CAR AND THEY FOLLOW YOU TO THE CAR ASKING WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR

[kylej]

When her best friend calls to let you know what they were talking about last weekend and what she witnessed.
My gut feeling matched up with the friend’s guilt.

[truckingwithtobee]

ALWAYS trust your intuition!!!! Always!

[QuIeT_KhAs]

Listen to your Gut. You will know the difference between a passing moment or if these thoughts are reoccurring. More often than not..they are.

[chriscripplercruz]

When I caught my spouse cheating I confronted her and I became the bad guy and she would only yell and scream when I asked something

[jefffch]

Listen to your gut, that's God talking to you.

[mmmccc]

Thank you for this video. My wife does most of this stuff to me. And now that i look back at our relationship/marriage, she's been like this since early on. I can't believe I over look all these signs.

[jennyblue]

I never thought of anything when the signs were right there. That’s how much I trusted him 😔💔